I was recently contacted by a new client who informed me he was coming out to my area and wanted to see me. Through text messages, he briefly informed me that he had a bad experience with a provider and was hesitant to try again.
Through emails, I found out why he was worried. Mr. X had made an appointment with a provider he had already seen on three occasions. However, on this fourth date, she was working in conjunction with a sting operation that he got caught up in! I can only imagine the fear he felt as he saw everything he truly cared about snatched away because he trusted a provider that he had not only seen several times, but that was highly rated here on T.E.R.
So my question is this: What can you suggest I do to help him feel a little more at ease? I have already agreed to a meet and greet at the hotel bar, and I've told him every thing I can (I'm not LE, I'm independent, check out my website for all info) but I wanted to know if anyone could give me some other tips to let him see I am safe?

There is only so much you can do.. I see that you have a big heart but, This is one of those things he is going to have to figure out by himself....

I'm going to keep my mouth shut (uncharacteristic for me).  lol

PM me. I'm intrigued by your reply...lol

That this guy may NOT be worth your time.  Anyone this scared is bound to have issues enjoying themselves or may be LE himself.  I would simply avoid it if I were you.

***Another thing I have learned about this board.  IGNORE THE IDIOTS who post under aliases or simply respond with stupid ass comments.  They are a bunch of punks.  If they were real men they would NOT hide behind aliases.***

OK you offered BBFS.  Your reviews can simply be read by any serious hobbyist.  If they don't like it FUCK EM.  (not my thing but to each his own)


Ridgetucky

P.S.  Consider Yourself LUCKY If You Get Fucked By Ridgetucky!

Who are YOU calling an asshole? I showed you a lot of compassion on that OC bd thread but then you have the audacity to come into this forum and accuse ANYBODY of being an asshole when you are running around doing bbfs??? And youre fking nurse??? This is getting tiring. Go seek out a professional please! You are engaging in self destructive behavior then come in here for advice and somebody points out something obvious and suddenly they're the asshole? You're not thinking well. Please get help. I mean this in all sincerity. Please seek some professional help.

I just get a blank screen. Mobile, and classic.

Get that baby working for starters.
Remove anything that has to do with Bare Back Fucking.
No website, and advertised BBFS screams cops to me..
Think about it..
You said the guy doesn't use TER, your site doesn't seem to work.
How can he verify you at all?


Hey! The women here are great! But "Take my word for it."
Is not going to make me trust anyone of them.

BTW.. If this lady is a top provider on TER, do us a favor, and out her.
Ask him to tell you who she is if you don't already know.

which is not in a great area, and have ALREADY had a scare with LE because of "some bitch" that reported you. Furthermore, you admitted to having a family member living in that same dwelling you are working out of, and now, you've got in black and white that you offer BBFS, yet want to put him at ease?  Don't link him to any of your board posts for one, and I suggest you start using a hotel or find another provider who will share incall expenses with you at maybe a studio apt. that you only use for this business. If you want to put him at ease, refer him to a hooker who actually knows wtf she is doing! Gosh, you are beyond help!

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Is looking for tips "to let him see you are safe?" The non-sequitur of the year.

he should be worried.  Remember, while this has NOT happened to you, whose to say the cops don't come the day of his appointment - one of my ATFs had the cops come the morning of  our appointment.  This was a lady I would see at night, and we would schedule me to be her last appointment of the day... we would hang out, as long as we wanted!  But on that day, my spidy sense kicked into overdrive and I planned to skip the appointment.  Cops sat there all day, letting the "appointments" show up, they had her let the guys in, take their money, and then they would jump out and tell the dudes to go away, they took the gals laptop, fined her, kept the money and told her to leave town or they would throw her in jail.  If the dudes protested, they arrested and let it be known where they were, and what they were up to.  NOT pretty.

So, in short, you can't.  And if, as I say, he reads all your reviews, you REALLY can't!

I'd also suggest that you not take so many fucking breaks to eat the fries off the floor.

And tell your deadbeat 30 y/o step daughter to get the fuck out of your house so you can have johns come over and BBFS without worrying that your step kid is snooping around.

Maybe also move somewhere that johns aren't scared shitless of being in that neighborhood.

Oh...and drop 200 pounds...if for no other reason that it's heart healthy!

I'm not sure that there is anything YOU can do to reassure him. If he is researching you:

1) You have no website
2) Your reviews mention BBFS
3) Your posts here kind of show you to be a "disaster" both professionally and personally.

Everything I've read this morning and that have been linked by others are giant red flags to never see you. Listen to the advice you are getting from the other ladies and work to fix what you are doing badly. He'll, if I were you I would also "rebrand" yourself and start again with a better business model, better practices, and better marketing.

Until then, you are likely a no-see for most guys.

Just my $0.02...

Or this^^^^lol. Gosh, I can't believe the stupid shit some people will post in PUBLIC for the entire hobby community to see, copy, and post on a blog. WOW.

You have got to be kidding us.

Ironic

I am amazed at the amount of women who claim to be educated, yet can fk up something as simple as being a hooker.

Clearly you have made some choices you regret in the past, and that's fine.

I would just encourage you to move past them, and just try to move forward.

LMFAO!!!!

Than You! I am glad SOMEONE on this board has some brains!

I'm sorry if you had trouble viewing my site. It is up and running, so I am not sure what your issue might be. I do know if you are viewing or trying to view my site at work and you work for the city (City of Ontario, City of Newport Beach, you get the idea) your web server is prohibited to be viewing my site. You can try viewing it from a different location (like at home when everyone is in bed) and if you still can't access it, please let me know.

is not LE just trying to throw you off. Get you jumpng through hoops and easy prey....?   just a thought

Two people promoting BBFS being okay equals brains HOW?


BARF


Sorry but really? SMH