I've been noticing it for the past few weeks. Take a look at the thread below. Okay, so she made an honest mistake. One can make a report and it would be corrected within a few hours. Instead, some of you guys get really nasty, and for no reason at all. Why personally attack these girls? To make matters worse, you bring in unrelated past events to chastise them. An appropriate response is to state that it was the incorrect board, and give a few reasons to why that may be.

Some of you guys really need to take a break from these boards. Its your dispositions to personally attack someone day after day. One in particular comes to mind. He likes to attack the weak, new, and inexperience. One of his new bullying victims is Prepkid. Just leave the kid alone. You are a mature man, and you should know better. Shame on you!

He also gets several complaints from the ladies to stop harassing them. I've seen it plenty of times to know that this is true and current. The girls will ask him to leave them alone. How much more direct and obvious do they have to be? Are you a gentleman? Its a shame on your part because you have been on these boards for years, and I haven't seen any progression in your behavior and how you treat others.

This hobby is for enjoyment. Just relax, see a few girls, and take some time off the boards. When you attack these people, others view you as insecure by your disparities. They also see you as bitter, ungrateful, and unhappy. I also saw a few of your disconcertions with the well experienced and educated hobbyist, and you were unsuccessful in your attempts. As a result, you are merely a catalyst and a heckler.

So, the question is, are you a bully? Only the bullies attack the weak, new, and inexperience. Perhaps you should take a moment and reflect on that. If your not a bully, just learn to have some manners when talking to these girls and hobbyist publicly. Don't chastise, belittle, or antagonize them because it reveals who you are as a person.


                        "Perceptum ut veneratio vestri , secundum vos have perfectus sic , vos can copiose"

..BeautywithBrains (Kelly) is not a novice. It was not an honest mistake.I always help out the new girls and new guys - both publicly and privately. She has been providing for a long time. This hobbying is for pleasure and fun, but we still need rules. Without rules, there will be chaos.  Its just like going to beach on hot summer day. Yes...the point is to go and relax, but you still have to follow traffic rules and other rules of public decency...

One of such rules is that absolutely NO AD on the GD board. Of course, the post was not a typical AD, but it was rather a sneaky and dishonest way of getting yourself noticed. It received the treatment it called for.

Do you know that if one of us hobbyists were to negatively comment on the theme pictures or one of the provider ads, we would lose all our posting privileges and can even  be banned from the boards...

All we are asking is everyone play by the same rules...

Now back to my Nationals vs Marlins game

-- Modified on 7/14/2012 8:16:01 PM

very well said.....

Rogers,

... Superior to others in the forum especially if they don't like the original post to begin with.

It's an ego thing with most of them. I do know exactly the few people you are referring to.

Maybe some of them of a "God complex" and feel the need to spout off what they perceive to be "pearls of widsom" where in reality it's nothing more than a flame against an user.

sunrosc

Me, Myself, and I believe all on line posting is narcissistic behavior.

Some one agree with me!

how come these weinies that break the law regularly give such a shit about "board ethics"   And the spelling of words like wienie...

just because they are bored out of their mind idiots who have no respect for women..

Boston,

You are correct on those points.

However, I do feel that the way some of these people act in the forums do act the same way in person.

sunrosc

The blatantly self-promoting and shamefully disingenuous provider post below is a splendid example of such an occasion.

Because, like it or not, that's what people on message boards do.  I don't really disagree with many of your points but I don't see any point in asking the question either.  A few months on just about any message board on the internet is all it takes to figure out that anonymity affords people the opportunity to treat folks in cyberspace in a way that they would never dream of doing face-to-face.

For some they are bitter because they love the pussy but they hate paying for it but they are addicted so here they are spewing their venom when ever they can to make themselves feel better about it all.  

I feel sorry for them really.  Oh well, back to laughing all the way to the bank!

As is the case with everything in life:

Some try the fringes

Some try to find out how stupid others are (they use humor to be passive aggressive)

Some believe rules don’t apply to them and if all of the above fails

They try and see what and how much they can get away with

I have no dogs in the fight but some general observations.

There was a provider not long ago use to post her Web Link in all her replies and there were many replies on  the same thread, hence the rule.

Note to you: Stop trying to advertise “I am nice guy”.

-- Modified on 7/14/2012 11:24:49 PM

I just laugh when I read their thrashing out from behind a keyboard.  Then I picture them as being some "grown up" who collects comic books and jellybeans and still lives with their momma.

I bet they're fun to live with or have in the family. Not.

Stupid's not illegal ya know.

Then posters like you will have the run of the boards the way YOU like them!

Not going to happen anytime soon...not the way internet boards work.

Start your own if you want nothing but Disney posts...don't allow assholes to infiltrate, and then you can make the rules and enforce them the way YOU want.

Or maybe lose some weight, get a makeover and try and answer the phone occasionally.  And then you don't have to read the drivel here, and get your rents paid on time.

My inbox is open if you care to discuss this in more depth

You are probably right!

do get carried away, but, gotta have thick skin on here.
Their is always, choose to ignore and no response to the post.
Not responding to negative posts, is the surest way to make it stop. ( at least that's what i have read )
Google, internet bullying.

Your Total: 19

Between 12 and 15 is average.
Celebrities often score closer to 18.
Narcissists score over 20.

The OP is guilty of posting exactly the way she is complaining about.

Aggressive...negative...calling posters out..

There are all types of people in this world.  Some you like, some you hate, most you just don't pay any attention to.

But to cry and bitch on a fuck board about people is such an oxymoron!

Hopefully the OP figured out how to post a regional ad...probably using stolen pics...and finally got some poor unsuspecting John to pay her 250 today so she can get her electric turned back on!

Not that I'm a douchebag in PM, but really I do think that there is a lotta downside to being a jerk on a public board to women.  If you don't get along, you don't get along, and that's fine.  Just leave it that way.

On the other hand, I think there's a lot of inside joking on these board, and what seems like an attack really isn't.

But I do agree...no need to be a jackass on the boards.

First...you are a DB in PM's (do you need me to tell you what DB is too...kinda like BSC)

And you now know that there is a tremendous amount of "inside" play going on here.  Shhh...don't tell anybody...please!

And someone needs to be a jackass...otherwise life is just too boring.

And as you can see here...plenty of folks willing to fall into the game, and not ever realizing it

Walking around with a nice yellow streak running down their backs. Big tough cyber bullies with teenie weenies, no personality and a whole lot of anger toward (enter name/s here).

And those that are assholes on here, are assholes in real life. All they have done in real life is learn how to act to avoid getting punched in the face. But the assholishness is the basis of their personality.

Some of the biggest assholes on boards (both fuck boards and boards on other topics I have posted on) are actually quite nice people in real life.

And they aren't cowards, either.  Most of them are just too lazy to put a smily face on things to let you know they are being sarcastic as hell.  Meet them in person, or talk to them on the phone, and the whole interpretation of their posts changes.

Are you blaming men because you are broke? You sound like you really hate men.

Using a second handle is no different then using an alias.

Vern,

Interesting questionaire.

Here's my score:

Your Total: 8

Between 12 and 15 is average.
Celebrities often score closer to 18.
Narcissists score over 20.

sunrosc

I am talking about the downright mean and nasty ones, the really low level hurtful to be hurtful sake ones. There has to be some underlying shit for people to be like that when there are no consequences other than moderation. You can't tell me they are the nice ones in person. Spewing that much hate comes from deep within..those are the ones I am talking about. That's pathology and this internet arena gives them a soapbox to hurt minus the punch in the face.

-- Modified on 7/16/2012 2:57:40 PM

I have never made it a secret that there are jerks on here, present company included that I loath. Read this next part slowly so you don't miss anything. I loathe jerks, assholes and woman haters  NOT all men.

Now if that's too hard for you to grasp, then I guess you can continue to walk around with cranium up rectum and live in your make believe world that I hate all men.

And what is the obsession with my money making capability? I am far from broke not that that is any of your business. And if my behavior repels men like you , then my marketing is working. I have no shortage of wonderful men that I see.  

-- Modified on 7/16/2012 3:05:45 PM

Makes it easier for people to become assholes.

I guarantee that most people on the board are nothing but respectful or even borderline pussies/cowards in real life.

i got a freakin 21! im a narcissist! wait til i tell my mom lmao

one question bothered me....I had to choose "i think im a special person" over "i am no better or worse than most people". And i see that makes me a narcissist; that's bullshit! lmao

and,  "I find it easy to manipulate people" or "I don't like it when I find myself manipulating people." Just because its easy doesnt mean i like it.

and,  "I am going to be a great person" or "I hope I am going to be successful". One can be great without being successful. And one can be both of these things. Not a great comparison to choose from, when taking a test like this lol.

and lastly,  "I am more capable than other people" or "There is a lot that I can learn from other people." Both are true. Im more capable than the people I know and I believe I can learn alot from people who I don't know yet.

Narcissist my ass! hahahaha *calls mom*