Why do guys insist on noting everything in their review?

Why would you say you stayed over an hour and a half and were able to negotiate the session fee in your review?

Why, I ask?

Do you realize when you do such things you are putting the provider in an awkward position  setting her up to fail? After noting out of the ordinary things in a review, the provider will be expected to perform those with everyone, but maybe she just wanted to do so with you. If she does not do the same thing for the next guy, she will be seen as a YMMV, just because she liked something about you and you decided to tell all. Do you realize you might not get that extra out of the ordinary treatment again since you couldn’t keep your lips semi shut???!!!

Gentlemen: If a lady stays over the clock with you, please be a gentleman and refrain from  noting it in her review.

Just feel special that you are getting something outside of the ordinary and leave it at that.

Good riddance!!

DOH!@$#%!@#

"Not a clock watcher" or "non-rush session" are more than sufficient... anything more can definitely cause difficulties for a lady.

Writing a good and fair review takes time.  I normally compose in a word processor and think about it for 24 hours before submitting.

There are somethings that should not be in a review:

1) getting a deal on price, unless it was an advertised special.
2) getting a special service.
3) the name of the hotel/motel where the lady was working.

Why do guys do it?  See above.
P.S. Some males like to brag.

I realize there are exceptions...like asshole guys, smelly guys, etc.  But when I read a bunch of reviews, I look to see if a provider gives the same service to everyone.  YMMV to me means that one guys donation doesn't buy what another's does.
I don't see where she is being set up to fail at all.  She will fail if she gets lazy, or only has certain menu items available for certain type guys. I met a provider a while ago with a great attitude toward the review system.  She said, "I don't care what number guys give me on looks, but if I don't get a 10 in performance, I haven't done my job"! She was definitely a 10, and she has a LOT of them, and she wants everyone to know why!  So I don't see where leaving any part of a date to the imagination is a GOOD thing for a provider...just DONT add things that DIDN'T happen!

Well, guess what Mr.? Next time you will not get such special treatment, rather you will be treated like the rest of the guys, since your ego wouldn't leave a few things to the imagination!

(scratching my head)

and it isn't just the reviews.

some of the message board posts hint at certain favorites going beyond their normal menu in the services provided.

some even go so far as to claim to be engaged in a relationship with a provider who is unamed but easily identified by the physical description and review history. that has to affect her business adversely.

regrettably i may have contributed to this by engaging in banter with such folks. but i have been put wise as to how that kind of discussion can put providers under enormous and unwelcome pressures.

so i am totally with you on this issue. my error was unintended and i will not repeat it. of course i can't speak for the other jerks who pull this crap...

posters take a post from a regular handle a bit more seriously than from an alias.

The only part of your statement that can be challenged is the details part.  I have had reviews rejected because I don't list enough details.  Other than that, right on!

... then most guys she sees feel like they received special treatment, even if they didn't.

not just the time, but other shared items.  Further I do not mean when I tick off the box that says "not a clock watcher" that I stayed over, rather I tick it off meaning, I was made to feel a welcome guest, and that they lady did not push me out of the door.... rather she let the time end naturally... a good thing.

Regular and generous customers often enjoy benefits that first timers do not.  In their haste to either write a thorough review, or perhaps brag a bit about what they are getting, some guys tend to forget that they owe a bit of discretion to the ladies who are taking such good care of them.

I had a provider give me extra time, not at my request however, she just let me stay.  When I wrote the review, she asked me why didn't I say that she gave me extra time.  

I explained to her that I didn't think she would want everyone to know that because they would expect extra, uncharged time for themselves too.  And might be upset if they didn't get it.  After reading my reason, she thanked me for not saying I got extra time.  She had not looked at it that way, and then realized I did her a favor for not telling everyone.

So all was well.
Swim

I can't win. If I use an alias then some people won't take my post seriously. If I don't use an alias, then some say it will negatively affect business.

Fuck it!

And thank you for the rest of your input.

Indeed, writing reviews is an art form...  to tell enough without being graphic or indiscrete.  And always protect the ladies we love so much.
One Fav lady had an ad running which stated the EXIT number...  I knew there was only one hotel there...  I immediately called her & warned her of the danger & she edited the ad at once.  I derived no benifit from the call...  except I get to see her again.
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Some days, it just doesn't pay to get out of bed.

My suggestion is to ask the reviewer to contact TER to remove the excessive details.

I once got a case of the stupids, and wrote something that implied that the lady would stay extra time.  She sent me a message, telling me that her email was already blowing up for appointments and asked me to edit.  I made the request, and toned down what I wrote.  It was fixed within a day or two.

wrong about even posting on this thread.  A Holes that start threads like this really only want to have a lot of responses that AGREE with them...
Most likely to pump THEIR egos.  Then if someone disagrees, they jump their asses with stoopid shit like this!   Well...guess what MR (or Ms)...
All I ask is to be treated like the rest.  If she does something for them, do it for me!  I didn't choose a lady to see based on what I might get as special treatment...I chose her based on the treatment she gave others.  
You wanna pick Ego reviews...pick the ones where the guys spend more time talking about the immense size of their trouser snakes, ot the fact that they banged a lady constantly, without stop, for 45 min, only to to be finished off my a 1.5 hr BBBJ!!!!!
And stop scratching your head...it will only bleed, then there will be no Bj's for you at all!
Where do you people come from????  

and as such, there is simply no such thing as "treating you like the rest." absolutely every relationship...and yes, they are relationships....i have with every client is unique. that is because every man and the connection i share with each man is unique. there is no such thing as "standard service."

and this is why i hate reviews, and always asks gents to refrain when i get the (very rare, as most of my clients are not "hobbyists) "would you like me to write you a review?" question. this is not a business for me, it is not some cold and emotionless transaction. and i do not want to be coldly reviewed like a hotel or restaurant, completely degrading the experience i have with someone.

to some gents i think that such a personal, even intimate connection with a provider is beyond their comprehension and certainly not something they desire. and for those gents i say, PLEASE stick to the business-only, cold and professional ladies who will treat you like the number you wish to be, and you can treat them in like fashion.

But the TER gods don't like it when I call intercourse "conjugal bliss" or bbbj "unfettered oral delight."

Maybe I would describe special considerations as "Mammon was slain by the archer" -- but as far as I know I've always paid full price.

As I've said, any woman who sees me earns her pay. LOL

You are thoughtful and have a very big clue.

You know, I have really been struggling with a review and I think this one will just slide for all the reasons you mention.

Yes, I know we're not always on the same boat in certain respects; but I can admire good sense and wisdom when I see it.

They didn't start that yet!  They should hurry up, as it will be the most crowded of any discussion boards!  Guys....You make me want to puke!  I've never seen so many suck up, WK's in one place in my life!  You know as well as anyone that you all read reviews before you see anyone.  So if everything is left to the imagination, you have nothing to go on!!!  NO if a lady stays a much longer time with me than I payed for, I'm not putting that info out.  I will say "not a clock watcher", etc.  But menu items that are listed on her profile are all fair game.  YMMV is NOT a good way to do business...at least in THIS business.
I just have to laugh at every post where everyone is totally PC, and the guys all put on their armor and mount their trusty steeds...ready to do battle for the honor of the fair maiden!

Paaaallleeeze!  Do you think some of these special freebies are going to fall your way if you think, talk, and write like the ladies!

Ladies I LOVE you all!!!!  The WK's are the ones who need to be bitchslapped out of their thongs and back into their jockstraps!

I don't like when guys get a little *too* graphic in their descriptions of the encounter..

Some (relevent) details = Good

Your description allowed me to paint a very detailed mental picture of her lady parts = Bad

Send me a PM and maybe we can make your 2nd paragraph happen.

I didn't realize you are a provider.  Good luck.