I have some idea of what she wore -- I am always very aware of it during the session, but the memory fades.
When I see a guy for the second time I always hope I don't have on the same thing. It's a hard thing to keep up with. I like it to be different. Do you remember what she had on all the times you guys have seen a lady?
Be-Good-I-try-to sassy
Buck naked! That's the best way!
I definitely remember if it was either provocative or tacky, in other words, if she were dressed in a manner that was at either end of the spectrum. For instance, on the "bad" end of the spectrum, one provider had on dirty, ragged jeans and a tee shirt, which may be a turn on for some, but not for me, so that one always stands out in my memory. On the other end, there are several spectacular boudoir outfits that I recall, and I'm sure that I would recognize if I saw them again. But guess what? It wouldn't bother me at all, in fact, I might get an instant boner!
You should ask what your clients like. Some will like the same thing over and over; others will want variety. It also depends on whether the client likes the particular outfit. I'm crazy for one provider in a hot red, skin tight dress that stops at mid thigh; she could wear it forever and I'd be happy. Others best suit me as changing kaliedoscopes.
It's positive attitude, friendliness, accomodating feel and a warm smile that counts ... and a nice kitty (yum) and body
.... dress is only secondary and not that important to me. My 2cents.
I remember what every one of the women I have seen was wearing (albeit, it hasn't been all that many). Some, though, I will never forget what they were wearing...or how they wore it.
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Yes one lady actually commented that she always had on the same outfit when ever we met for a session. This was after 8 meetings over 6 months
If I close my eyes I can remember three ladies exact outfits, and they also happen to be the most memorable times for me.
Yes, generally i will remember. But it's alot easier for me to remember because i don't get out to often. I'm sure most of the men here would say the same thing, our people seen ratio is alot lower.
But in all honesty, it really doesn't matter to me if you've worn the same outfit on a past date. If there happens to be something "special" i would like a lady to wear, i'll ask.
It's more about the fact that a lady has actually taken the time to do some primping and make sure she is as fresh as she would like me to be then about weather she had the same teddy on last month.
I've been wondering something along these lines. I mean, I always take the time to be really fresh but I don't always wear make up and I wonder if that reads as not caring enough to primp?
My personal opinion would be no, that doesn't mean anything. There is a difference between a lady not wearing make up and not being clean/fresh, and it's pretty easy to tell between the two.
I prefer the "not made up" look, and I know many men who feel the same. Making up can be nice for going out, but I think that if a lady is attractive on her own right, there is nothing more enticing for getting close to her than to see her as she really looks after getting "fresh". Also, caring enough about the customer is said to me in so many other ways that, looking at your reviews, you obviously have covered. ![]()
"It's more about the fact that a lady has actually taken the time to do some primping and make sure she is as fresh as she would like me to be then about weather she had the same teddy on last month."
THAT should have been my answer.
-Hoot.
I'll check to see if you've snipped it off.
Absolutely, but I wouldn't necessarily hold it against a provider if I got greeted at the door with the same outfit.
Especially if I liked it before...
For one special Lady, yes I do (at least almost all the times).
For every one else: sometimes.
But for the question you didn't answer: No, it doesn't matter. If she looks nice she looks nice.
I think most, are more interested, in what's underneath those clothes. It's like opening a present, it looks nice, all wrapped up, but you can't wait, to see what's inside the package.
Just my 2 cents,
Kelly~
Kelly, I certainly agree that the wrapping is nice but unwrapping the package is something very special.
Yes, very much so. Interesting that you raised this. I have seen one provider a total of three times and each time she was wearing the exact same attire, white top, black mini. Perhaps it is her "business attire". LOL At any rate, would be fun to see a change up from time to time.
Yes, I think guys do remember what the lady was wearing.I always ask if the person coming over has any preferences in what I wear.
Suppose they say birthday suit?
Hair, eyes and shoes are important for me. No not in a fetish kind of way. PM me if you want to know more.
I have some idea of what she wore -- I am always very aware of it during the session, but the memory fades.
For those of you who want to see the providers in something "special" do what I do. Find out their size and go out and buy them what you think they would look great in. I find that most providers love the gift, put in on right away, so that you can unwrap it properly. It also may help YMMV!
Hey Sassy;
I don't think about it that much.
The few ladies I see, I see often. So, if they were to wear the same thing it isn't important to me, as I'm more interested in them than what they have on.
Do you women notice if we guys are wearing the same thing every time? I doubt it.
I am just happy to see them in what ever they choose to wear and move on to better things.
Just my opinion...
B
My kink is roleplaying. And you can wear your
little schoolgirl outfit as many times as you like!
Even though I must own half of Victoria's Secret lingerie collection by now, LOL, and have a zillion skirts, dresses, and shoes, there are a few favorites that I love to wear over and over again.
So, any regular is bound to see me in a repeat from time to time. I hope they don't mind.
I've also seen regulars wear the same shirt on repeat visits--obviously it must be one of their favorites. If they feel more comfortable in that familiar shirt that's great--much better than fussing with a stiff or itchy collar of a new shirt.
Usually, though, the clothes don't stay too long, so it probably doesn't matter too much. ![]()