Has anyone heard of a disgruntled provider who has outed a client? For whatever reason....

Seems like it would be professional suicide, but stranger things have happened I suppose.

and to your question, YES

over a 'bad/off-tempo' review. Never heard of outing though. Sure it happens. "Hell hath no fury".

...."regular" and his wife having a conversation poolside. Needless to say his marriage ended soon after.

i've had the (charming and plausibly deniable) threat of being outed by friends of one provider: some of her GFs and a guy. one GF has backpedalled with the "just teasing" defense. hmmm... ok. i've changed hobby phone number since.

in addition i have heard a spectacularly false rumor about my conduct from a different friend of the same provider. this friend of the provider also told that rumor to me face to face. it was SO uniquely and impossibly wild, i have to believe another provider who told me what was being said about me in the rumor mill.

i think this happened because i asked Admin to have a negative review by me taken down. things were quiet and content until then. was that gesture of mine "figured" to be a sign of weakness? without that negative review to document motivation, was it time for payback?

no need to figure things out. i'll just do as i do. i really don't like efforts to control, either way...

A. Lincoln: "As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master."

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You will even find some of these malevolent providers are active, continue to post regularly like business as usual, pretend like their shit doesn't stink and the waiting list for their service is long.

Kharma eventually catches up to them, but usually not before some damage has been done to innocent third parties.

But my regular has expressed interest in meeting my wife. And minor offspring.

If I had met her any other way than the hobby; and if we weren't having SEX it would be a different matter. I'm sure she and my wife would get along great.

But as it is, it would be just too weird for me.

Provider was a no cancellation no show.

We had some disagreements.

She hanged the phone on me.

Once she cooled down. I said I had some $ and wanted to see her.  She said Ok.

I bang her deep and hard until her meaty beaver wetted from hard pounding.

Revenge sex is the best of all.

their stupid as rumoring. They cannot help themselves. I GUESS. Or perhaps it is just plain stupidity.

HOWEVER!!! When some male friends heard the rumor and ran with it, that pissed me off more than anything the girls could have done. Fact is girls are often bitch-slapped down by other girls I have known for a long time and who know what they heard was total BULLSHIT.

But when it comes to rumors there are none worse than guys. That's right some of them that you thought were friends ran with it and spread it to others. Those friends are no longer. In fact I made it a point to tell certain men, do not call me, do not email me and yes, loose my fucking phone number because I will never ever respond to YOUR LYING ASS ever again. I think they got the message. And yeah FUCK YOU was mixed in there as well, just so MP knows I can and have done it. lmao

WHAT THE HELL KIND OF PROVIDERS ARE YOU SEEING TEX????LOL

That sort of catty BS needs some outing of it's own. I don't know; maybe not here.


I have heard that within certain regions there are 'packs' that need to be dealt with.


What the hell. This board is incredibly boring right now. GO FOR IT.


I DOUBLE DOG DARE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i did think that one guy was way too deep into gossip.... i was warned away from trouble by him and didn't believe him. then i got the same warning from a lady......

sure enough as a result of the two warnings i managed to avoid a serious inconvenience. did i mention that i can't stand doughnuts?

it's hard to sort out gossip from true rumor when it is about someone else. MUCH easier to sort out false gossip when it is about something you never did.

first off....

it is a tiny minority (2 or maybe 3 depending) that seem to be members of a pack.

2nd off, i don't see them anymore.

the ladies i currently see have been perfectly fine and are a joy to work with.

i don't think outing folks by name is appropriate on GD. but i'll VERY seriously consider recounting events. i'd start a different thread so as not to hijack this one.

considerations... to STFU, to try again to settle this mess privately, or to spill beans.

advice not needed. any wagers?