Seems that ladies either love it or hate it.  Why is it so painful for one lady yet the other lady loves it to death.

Is one lady blessed with a bigger sphincter than the other, is it due to conditioning to get to the point of enjoyment, higher tolerance for pain?

I can recall many a Sunday morning sitting on the thinkel after a night of drinking that my #2 felt like it was ripping me in half and wondered how the hell anyone could enjoy a big hunk of manhood in there. One time a lady tried putting her finger up my back door during a bj and I thought my toes were gonna come out my nose, ouch.

But I've come across some ladies that like backdoor action as much if not more than front door action. Seems there are very few that find it just OK...it's either a love or hate thing.

Yes...I have too much time on my hands today

Not being an afficionado of this pleasure I can only relate one story:

A provider who I saw some time back was one of those who happened to love this act.  She asked me if I'd like to partake, and I declined.  I told her that I wasn't in to Greek and had not done it in almost 25 years.  As part of the discussion we had about Greek, she indicated that those women that didn't enjoy it weren't doing it right, or were doing it with guys that didn't know or didn't care how they did it.  I'm not sure I buy that, but then again there are guys out there that love CBJs.

The ones that do can't get enough, the ones that don't won't even consider it. Different strokes.

HPG

Well, I think that's a great topic, and I'm sure we'll soon see Silky's very well informed response on this topic as she and I had a good conversation about this very thing, and she also indicated that it needs to be done right, etc.
I have posted before that I would rather give birth to triplets than endure the excruciating pain of anal sex. I'm serious, the pain was so bad, I was certain that my intestines had been punctured; I was bleeding internally and would be dying of peritonitis anytime now..The pain in my stomach lasted about a week. No fond memories there..
I am amazed to see not only that some ladies CAN do it, but that they actually enjoy it, as, in just the sensual part, I don't think the stimulation would be 'there'? But, as some have pointed out to me, there's a real education and some real lessons on how it should be done.

On a side note..I would like to discuss sometime the trendy pressure that seems present these days for Providers to offer it, or be passed over for someone who will, and have known of Providers giving into that in order to gain a better review..this to me is pretty sad. But, another topic..

And then, do you feel this increases risk? And, what of the ladies' overall health and condition after so many times and so many years? What are your thoughts there?

Sedona

I don't really like it but hey if my guys gets off on it then why not, turning him on turns me on

Personally ive done greek with only one provider cause she kinda demands it lol...ive seen others who offer it but, dont care either way like me...so i only can say diffrent strokes for diffrent strokes..
P.S..the greek was kinda exciting lol

Greek just never appealed to me at all. I have nooo fascination in wanting to find out more, either. The men that I see, already knows about what I will do, and don't do, and I never had any issues in saying the word: NO.

Mel

I agree that providers that represent that this is available but are putting themselves through agony to provide it are not doing anyone any favors.  It is not difficult to tell when someone is begrudgingly letting you do something they don't really care for and it is not the type of experience that most Greek seekers are looking for, IMHO.  On the other hand, I want to believe that maybe it is something that given the proper time and attention might be enjoyable if the provider has an open mind and a real desire to look for pleasure in new places.  Please be careful about providing this service if you do not want to be known for it...I met a real sweetheart who said yes once and hated it and the guy wrote a review that indicated it was readily available.  This girl did not know that it was shown on TER as available and while I got it changed for her once she found out where the "rumor" came from, it was not directly of her doing. And she ticked off several customers who had relied on the review and not verified prior to the appointment.

I have never tried greek, however I have a strong desire to give it a shot, I want to at least try it and see if I like it or not. However I would not want to try it with someone who was not into it. I would definitely prefer to try with a woman who really enjoys it. I heard from several friends that is their favorite, however also have heard some of them say they didnt like it or they would never do it as it just plain disgusts them. Of course I can't comment as I have never done it, but can't wait to give it a try.

A lot of women do not enjoy it because they are afraid they are going to fart or shit.  This fear makes them tighten up and so it hurts.

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Makes me think of the story of the Geisha Girl who farted during especially vigorous pleasures.  Embarrassed, she told her client "Excuse please !   Front hole happy, back hole laugh out loud....."