a girl should really be comfortable sleeping next to man who is somewhat of a stranger. of course i married the strangest man i've ever met haha

Not sure about other ladies, but i found that general business 80/20 rule holds true for me as companion.

As for commonality of overnights, i would say most often it is not actual overnight date but Clock Free Dinner date. Second most common is Overnight Travel Date.

Least common (about once a month or once every couple of months) is multi day trip with a patron to some exotic destination.

Question in regard to extended visits with high end providers.  How common are overnight or multiple day client sessions (i.e. 2 or 3 days at a resort etc?).  Is the client who does this held in high esteem with a provider because of the revenue or does this happen all of the time anyways?  Also, when overnights do occur, do you providers jump at the chance or are you very selective because you could drive each other "nuts' with so much closeness?

The over night session I had with a provider was a lot of fun. It cost me $1,000.00 for the provider, $120.00 for the room, and 80.00 for the dinner, and a movie. It was an 8hr date, but it ended up lasting 10hrs, because of the time the session ended.

What I did before I booked the over nighter, was first see the provider for a few 30min, and 1hr sessions to see how the vibe was. If you're going to have an over night or longer I recommend you do this.

Also have a series of things planned out. Go have dinner, watch a movie, go for a walk in the park, watch TV and cuddle, and talk and get to know each other. As the provider is there to entertain you, you must also entertain her.

Last thing you wanna do during an over night session is bore the provider to death to the point where she's now looking at the clock every 20mins 2hrs. into the session wishing these 8hrs. would hurry up.

When you book an over night or multi-day date book two rooms or at least a suite that has two bathrooms and some space for privacy.  Conventional wisdom says that you are going to want to spend the entire time together, but believe me, you both will appreciate the privacy at some point during the date.  

From my experience, even if she never uses the other room, gesture alone will be very appreciated.

Make sure to only do an overnight with a provider that you have seen before maybe a few times. From personal experience I find the ones that worked out the best have been where I was visiting another area and met a regional provider servicing that area.

The other thing you have to ask yourself is what is going to be the agenda/itinerary for the 2-3 days. Remember she is a lady and she might want to have some downtime from you, ie do shopping.

As one provider recommended there needs to be an out clause so she or you can stop if things don't work out.

I'm curious to hear the provider perspective, but for me overnights are very common and I take trips with ladies about 4 times a year.

From my experience, I think most of the high end ladies may be a little selective for overnights. The biggest concern I've heard is that they want to be able to sleep an ample amount of time and that they don't want to be stuck having sex for 8 hours on a 12 hour overnight.

With the multi day sessions I think they have to get to know someone fairly well before they embark on that endeavor. On top of the concerns for an overnight, they must also contend with someone driving them nuts and have something to do or common interests.

All my over nights have been marathon sex sessions. I get 3-4 rounds before going to sleep. Another round at 3:00 am in the morning and 1 or 2 before we get up in the morning. I expect the lady to be ready to jump in the sack and have already eaten dinner. Some will charge more for sex all night. Others will charge less and put in a statement that they want at least 6 hours of sleep.

I have found the ones that are the charge between $800-$1000/night.

Maybe I'm misreading this, but the OP was asking about high end providers and most high end providers charge at least that amount for 90 minutes

Well that is what the charge. But not what I pay. I have seen providers who charge $300/hour charge me $800 for the whole night. Others charge $200/hour. Too bad they took alias to alias pm's away. I could send you a pm.

I am paying for fun in the bed. As I posted before it is best to make sure there is the chemistry before doing such a session. I only book with ladies that are into sex like I am, wild sex animals. They are attracted to me and act like they have never had sex before, lol. I wanted to be drained and exhausted when I do an overnight.

When I go home the next day I have to stay an extra night to recuperate before going home to the wife.

I agree with you, I didn't mean there was anything wrong with that. Just making my point to the op, as to why some ladies are selective.

Sounds like you have compatibility and chemistry, that’s the best combination for an awesome overnight.

I don't think I could go home for two or three days after 7 or 8 rounds the night/ morning before.

One time I was on the west coast. I had an intense 2 hour session and only had 2 hours of sleep before catching the plane back home. I was suppose to get back home on a Saturday but did not come home on a Monday. I was also tired due to the time zone switch between west and east coast.

If I go back home I stop to get a steak lunch before going home. Take a rest before going home and have fun with the wife at home. It is a good trick to use. I think she knows something is going on but is very confused when she sees the bag filled with cum. I swim a lot for only 1 reason for sex performance. I swim 1/2 mile without stopping a few times a week. This helps in refractory/recovery time between rounds.

I often get booked for my "Katie's Specials" which are extended dates. I have one or two a week. They are pretty common. I don't explicitly say that I want to sleep but hell, by our age, we all need 8hrs a night!

Most of these are legendary in my eyes.  That being said, just ask her if you already know her.  You will become a more important client in her eyes afterward, she won't expect you to make this the norm, but will appreciate and enjoy it on those occasions when you can make it happen.   If you "drive each other nuts", then maybe it's time to find new friends...

I wouldn't want either of us to have a bad time, that is why it states on my site that overnight and extended visits are for those I have met and we truly enjoy each other's company. Nothing like being stuck on an island for 3 days with someone you cannot stand.  All of the extended dates I have had have been wonderful, some amazing and we both had a bit of alone time to make calls to kids, etc.

I have offered overnights for a while now, and I love doing them. Not all girls provide it, and from good reason though. Some guys expect it to be an all night "Marathon of sex" which is a big reason girls don't like to do it. I do not do these all night romps, and I make that understood. For my clients an overnight is a time to get to know someone well and spend quality time together, to take them out to dinner, a movie, etc and having someone to sleep next to. Of course there's other activities involved but a girls gotta get her beauty rest too!
I have always had great experiences and a lot of fun with this. I get along with most anyone and really make the effort to so I never really have problems with driving anyone or Going nuts.
One tip though, be respectful. Your going to be spending a lot of time with that person. Start it off on a good note, even on the phone. And if your expecting action at 3am make sure she's not only up for it but actually up!
Personally I don't really like to do the "Come for an hour, see where it goes" kind of thing. If you want to get to know me first come for an hour incall. When your not sure What You want, I don't know what yo expect. Am I Going to be gone for an hour or all night? Also, no one wants the awkward OK you can stay or worse.. you can go.
Good luck!!