In general, I'm a day before in my home town stomping grounds. This is mainly because I don't really know what my schedule will be like day-to-day. If I'm traveling will book a day or two before I hop on a plane and build out my schedule with two confirmed, and then add after I arrive.
I'm asking because there is a provider advertising for a May date, two months out. I'm sure she wants to fill her schedule or at least get a few confirmed to cover costs. But two months in advance? I can't see doing that as I'd be like a kid at Christmas waiting to open a present and no patience. The furthest I've booked was a month out, but this provider is always fully booked when her tour dates are announced. What is the furthest out you've booked a date?so I don't feel upset if I'm not going to see a certain gal in a few weeks, say.
To answer your question, there is a certain gal who comes to NYC approximately every 6 months, and often knows the next date at our current session, so I tell her to put me down for the next date she's there so I can be sure to see her.
That said, the average amount of time I book ahead is about 5 weeks, give or take.
Thats a great idea. Just tell or booker to automatically put me down for a date when she vomed to town next.
Something about that story soundsso very familiar lol! i just re-found this site and am happy to see a friendly face, H!!!
The furthest out I have booked is a month. I used to regularly book two weeks out. Now it's never more than a week.
my hobbying around my work, so if I had business appointments I made cancel on 24 or 48 hours notice, I would find someone on short notice that I can see during the dead time that arose. That worked pretty well when I was seeing one or two providers a week, but again, like many others, as hooker addiction set in, and I escalated to three or four sessions a week, I could no longer depend on having enough cancellations in my work schedule to satisfy my pussy craving. At that point, I started scheduling my sessions for the week first, and then my secretary would schedule my work appointments AROUND the blocked out times I gave her where I would not be available because I was balls-deep in some beautiful young lady. (Some of my sessions are AFTER work, so my Secretary doesn't need to be involved in my scheduling, and no, she doesn't have any idea what I'm doing during the times I have blocked out, she just knows I won't be available. Consequently, on Friday mornings, I make all of my appointment for the next week, which is at least Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday, (some weeks, a Sunday or other day as well). I reconfirm each one a day in advance as they come up. This means my shortest advance booking is Friday to Tuesday, and the longest is 8 days, Friday to the next Saturday. This has been working well for me for the past eight years. Before that, I was doing it the other way. Obviously, booking up to a week in advance doesn't allow for potential emergency cancellations or illness on either side, but that's a risk you run no matter how far in advance you book. I haven't had a NCNS in many years, and I have only cancelled on short notice a dozen times or so out of well over a thousand sessions due to emergency or illness. If that happens, I always make it up to the lady by booking at least a two hour session the next time.
...due to my work schedule. Usually it works out well, tho there have been a couple of occasions where I didn't keep in contact with the provider when I had booked a month ahead and when I contacted her a couple days before our date she had forgotten all about it, lol. She made it up to me and everything worked out ok.
Usually at least two to three days in advance and maybe a week out. The longest I did was one month in advance.
When I was traveling a lot, I knew my schedule months in advance. i routinely booked 2-3 months in advance for top-tier ladies or women that I was repeating with and wanted to see for sure. There are multiple advantages, not the least of which is that business never interfered with my hobbying....
I used to routinely book several weeks out. Then i found that some ladies don't actually like that. I had serval flake, get sick, car broke down ect..
I realized a good portion of ladies like the flexibility of not booking weeks in advance. So now I research several then try to book about a week out.. and stay in close Comms leading up to the date. Trying to always have a plan b..
Funny you say that. I recently booked a session pretty far in advance. I suspected I was going to get flaked on, and yup. An 'emergency' came up. I'm not saying it didn't, but when I can predict it to the hour of when the e-mail came in, kind of suspect. No big deal as I had a back-up and she was really cool about a last-minute appointment.
advance booking I do is 8 days. Longer than that and just too much time to allow other priorities to interfere for either one of us. Your experience is why God invented back-up girls. Done plenty of that myself.
I usually aim to book an afternoon appointment that same morning, an evening appointment by around noon or so, and a morning appointment the night before.
I have noticed that most of the guys who come on this board whining about NCNS and most of the girls with the same problems too are booking these appointments several weeks out which leaves room for so many things to come up. I almost never get stood up on a date that I only booked a few hours earlier and I haven't had to cancel an appointment myself in several years now.
Yes I know a lot of women won't see clients without several days of notice, but thousands of other women will. Part of it of course is knowing how to ask. Sending an email that just says "can I come see you in an hour?" to a woman you have never met is going to get you on more DNS lists than appointments, but phrased properly I almost never get any kind of hostile replies from women who don't do short notice appointments.
"You are number nine on my list, and none of the first eight are available right now, so this is your chance to move up the list if you can see me in an hour" get me better results? Lol
I book one or two days in advance, that gets me fired up and seems to work out better for me
About a month in advance. I feel like that is a good sweet spot for me. Her calender and availability are taking into shape, and I have a general idea of what I will be doing.
Once tried to book 6 weeks in advance, she toured and that was when I saw she was coming to my area, only to cancel because of a personal commitment later on. She was not happy
If I had to schedule appointments more than a day out I'd be "that guy" you know the one who constantly makes and then breaks appointments. I don't want to be "that guy" so I only book when I am positive that I can actually keep the appointment I am booking, and my schedule is so fluid I barely know what is going to happen tomorrow, much less next week or next month.
Some of us just don't have the luxury of planning ahead, It's a giant PITA when booking hotels and airline tickets as well. I routinely book my flights/hotels et al same day as well and yes sometimes flights are sold out, hotels are fully booked and I know I always end up paying full price as well. It is what it is, but what I do NOT do is book an appointment with a provider knowing full well that I might have to break it. You CAN be busy and considerate to others at the same time.
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Usually 1-2 weeks out especially if I have a Companion I normally repeat with. I travel from the midwest to the East Coast as well as The South. However I have booked as far out as 2 months for Special Friends on tour.
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