"Cummers' remorse."  

This is how it works....

that clearly experienced CR last week!
While I didn't take it personally...he was super young and filled with what he declared was Catholic guilt afterwards...it occurs to me that this likely happens often.
He was finished in 10 minutes and was ready to run out the door.  He then decided maybe I should give him some $ back???
I told him, I'm not a cash machine;-

For a MHB (Man Hating Bitch) she is too damn nice for her own good.

$1000 for 45 minutes ain't nothing to scoff at.

Here I thought I was the resident MHB. How fickle are you! But if anyone else was to have that title, Tobi is the one. Just love her!

Or, perhaps he was so good she had to pay him! Seriously though, if she felt he didn't get the date he expected, she could always entice him back with a discounted "let's try that again" appointment.

The dude I saw yesterday booked a 3hr BDSM appointment ($1200, plus he tipped me another Benji). After 45 minutes (including roughly 20 minutes of action), he decided to bounce. He told me to keep the cash but I insisted on giving him back $300 because I honestly felt badly for the guy. Had he been the one to suggest a partial refund, I would have LOLed. Since it was my idea, I don't feel swindled at all.

but just remember that while I might be easy, I am far from a cheap date. lol

I've never had it be because of something on my part…yet anyway. It's more like a one hour detective show where the guy remembers nothing from the night before and has a dead hooker in his bed…accept I'm still alive boo.  

But my guess is, if she gave money back it was a good decision!
I've shortened an appointment and given the difference back because we clearly were not a match.
It can be the best course of action when necessary, but c'mon...
Once you've (literally) made your deposit, you cannot turn around and expect a withdrawl

But TT deserves at least an honorable mention

But I understand the impulse in not wanting him to feel ripped off in any way. Poor guy, he should've taken a break and maybe even just chilled for the rest of the appointment. But that probably would have been harder for you if he was losing his head.

That would be: "douche bag hating bitch." My impression is that Tobi gets a kick out of providing. H+T is strictly a paycheck player.

What is cummers remorse? I haven't been around much lately so I guess I missed the thread where you and GaG coined it. How can I know if I have had it if I don't know what it is?

Back in ancient Rome (and, no, I did not live there) they had a phrase:
"Post coitum omne animalium triste est."

we were talking yesterday and it sort of just popped out of my mouth. lol

It refers to those guys who secretly (or not so secretly) hate hookers, and hate themselves for having to "debase" themselves to see said hookers. Usually married or religious guys who have urges that they are ashamed of, and once they cum and the blood rushes back to their "big head" guilt overcomes them and they can't get out of the room fast enough.

It must really suck to do this and hate yourself for doing it, but it's great to do this and love every minute of it. I don't have the least bit of shame about fucking hookers, even my mother knows about it, good thing mom is open minded. So no "cummers remorse" for me, and I bet you've never suffered from it either, have you?

The fact that I am not here for the sex does not mean that I hate my guys.  

Not only psychological but physiological as well. Also you should have a post in the providers only section call hummers remorse in which you discuss the repulsive aspects of oral sex.

It ain't remorse. Some of us just want to handle our business and bounce. The great American poet B-Legit said it best..

Oh how I loves the poetry of E-40 and B-legit… but there's a difference trust. They go from intense eye connected adoration to barely can look a broad in the eye. It really is comical.

Girl, I hearby dub thee tha sprinkler system

That whole album makes me happy in my heart…Hurricane makes me do dances from neighborhoods I wouldn't venture into on purpose. I know what I'll be listening to while making dinner tonight! Thank you for saving me the ten minute ipod browse.

how do we get ahold of you?

Hint number one. She is south of Canada

Hint number two. She is north of Mexico

If you would like me to narrow it down any more for you, it's going to cost you. Paypal will work just fine if you are interested. lol