I have some questions and would like others to enlighten me in this area.

Providers, obviously I would guess you consider a client a good client if they treat you well and tip big.

Do you also consider clients good clients if they treat you well and never leave a tip or gift but always pay the base?

Just trying to find out if just being a nice guy is enough or do you consider clients who are nice but never give you gifts or giant tips cheap?

Remember not all of us are blessed with loads of cash, jets, and yachts at our disposal.

Pay your monthly tithes tip or no tip and if you are a good guy word will spread in your area when you drop names for references. Beyond that you are an ATM for your ATF and maybe you'll squeeze out a few extra minutes a more a month just on the the fact that they like your company. Guys with tons of cash to throw around think they own these gals and most don't like the attitude and really appreciate a steady customer.



-- Modified on 7/21/2006 5:38:11 PM

Tips are never expected, and are NOT the first criteria for deciding if I want to see you again.

Just be clean, treat me with respect, be clean, keep an eye on the clock so that I don't have to, be clean, and try not to lay there expecting me to do all the work.

If you can manage that, we'll have a marvelous time, and I'll be delighted to see you again and again.

One other thing, try to have taken a shower and brushed your teeth at some point during the day before I see you.

fun winary... Pay in quarter rolls... (usually have to put them into a reinforced bag!).... You do not have to worry about me brushing my teeth- I have none....

oh, I also drool... and me underware is yellow in front and brown in back... !  sadly - it seems that when providers see me, they suddenly remember that they had an appointment with someone else... why is that?  I bring Mad dog 20/20 with me to dates?!   Isn't that enough?

BS - in your case I would make an exception on account of you being so cute and stuff.

you will see that there is a message about cleanliness inserted in there.

(I bet there's a few going:  "What? Where? I don't see it!)  

in those reviews... they were simple, worked then and still work today:

1) Do not book, unless you intend to show up.
2) Do you homework and deliver the "envelop" as instructed - or read a general board such as TER to learn how to deliver the envelop...
3) Show up, on time, or if that is not possible, call to give and updated ETA.
4) Fresh shower - I usually go to the gym prior to a meeting...
5) Brush teeth.... again the gym...
6) shave before so that the 5 oclock shadow does not give beard burn to anyone.
7) complement the lady when the door opens...
8) I use to bring a bottle of wine... but noticed that MANY providers do not drink.. so I quit that UNLESS I know that the lady enjoys the grape...
9) be kind and courteous... that is common sense...
10) for non-standard things - ask before you do.


Funny, many guys brag that they do not do these things... and still wonder why they are "rejected!" .... what is the deal?!

Simply put, $$$ is not a replacement or substitute for good manners, common decency, and consideration. Any gentleman that remembers that simple fact will be very welcome to return again and again.

That is my two cents.

the answer is simple(sarcasm)...they think with their vagina and not with their head(the one that holds the brain)

So a good client treats me like i'm the hot ex-girlfriend they luv to spend time with!
A tip, gift, sharing some fun laughs, not wanting to part-the flavor should fit Your personality and style.
Being yourself is a good beginning.
Lacinda

1) flush the toilet
2) put the seat down...  and oh yea - have good aim!
3) try not to let a gas loose in their face.
4) try not to "bite" too  hard...
5) take a shower before our "fun"
6) brush my tooth!
7) have the "envelope" ready!!!!!
8) shave.... yea - Face included as I know that ladies do not like "beard burn"
9) mild scent...  not too heavy....
10) Ask if the lady is ok with what I am doin!  some do and some don't!!!! lol!

and if they don't like that.... then I guess it is a total loss.... cause I have tried....

Oh.... and I try not to insult them.... they seem to not like that!