For 5 years straight here, I refuse to swallow (sorry, but not all cum tastes equal, for me), and I still do good business.
If there was a major concern for girls not swallowing, there would not be any business for us non-swallowers at all. I've had 10 pages of reviews ranging from 9's and 10's, and I only do cim. So, to me it would be a big myth if non-swallower's were not getting any inquiries at all!
I have never heard of such a thing. Sounds more like a bunch of men trying to put pressure on the ladies as a whole on this topic. Not every woman can do deep throat, some women have very small mouths and are limited to how long they can do a bj due to tmj and other issues. As far as swallowing there are still very much increased risks with cumming in a womans mouth. BBBj is always risky. I for one wouldn't let what a board, forum, or otherwise sway my thinking on the subject. Most ladies do what feels comfortable and right for them.
BBBJ is "good enough for me" and then some. Sometimes it's all about getting to the plate rather than the at bat itself.
What's the big whoop? The majority of hobbyists' swords are not long enough to deep throat anyway.
When an activity requires eleven letters to explain it (BBBJTCCIMDT) I can't keep it straight.
BBBJ is risky enough for both parties. While I enjoy BBBJ and fantasize "suck me dry", I dont force providers to do it and probably I wont be comfortable doing it.
I know one provider who started her business with CBJ but later on, switched it to BBBJ. Not sure why. She has never told me why (she still tells me she does only CBJ but many a TER member has told me they had BBBJ from her).
DT? What would we get from it?? I wont hit her throat coz mine isnt long enough..!
There's more than a couple of web sites that promote this notion and I think it will only accelerate among women who have a fetish for such and those desparate to make a few extra dollars. Porn leads the way in lots of what many guys see as the norm. Just a couple of years ago it was "anal cream pies." I suspect that the newer ladies who are joining the stroll will succumb to these things, but don't go making bets on who you can talk into it.
Although I certainly don't demand it, and have seen many ladies who don't provide it, I find BBBJTCCIM great. I love DT. I really love women who DT while I come, swallowing as it comes. Why? Who knows? Everybody has their preferences and things that turn them on. I love a nose buried in my crotch, and I once saw a lady who could lick my marbles WHILE her nose was buried in my crotch. The feeling was so intense.
(i.e., Bareback bj Deep Throat CIM and Swallow) because SHE likes to do it.... She actually loves to do it.... If she didn't, I would not like her less.... It is up to the individual, of course, to limit her activities to what she feels comfortable with, and stick to her guns..... But there is nothing inherently right or wrong about it....
As to its rise in popularity, I suspect it is the increase in easily accessible porn where the videos show the BBBJDTCIMS, and guys being guys, they want whatever they see....
MA
Borderline Bastards Before Jury 'Til Court Cums In Mouth. It's probably a political bargaining tool for Bush. 
Hugs,
Ciara
on the subject of oral. (Sorry for the pun.)
What she did was take the tip of my cock in my mouth and firmly but slowly rubbed her tongue against the tip. She was able to do this for almost 30 minutes because it was very easy for her to do. It did not require her to gag herself or overwork her jaw muscels. For me it was ectasty, though I must admit it took some getting used to.
Instead of the harder, deeper experience that I always thought was the object of oral, now I can see that less can be more. It takes a lot of skill to know just how the tongue should rub against the tip. I think it was a type of Tantric skill she had practiced. She was fantastic and I can't wait to see her again.
By the way, she does not want men to cum in her mouth so I didn't, but that was not in any way a draw back.
Meaning, there are plenty of women who don't swallow, who get great scores. So I do hope that there are women out there, who are secure enough with themselves, and not let the scores dictate on how they run their business. There is a guy out here for every woman, regardless on what she does.
I have found in some instances that they can't do the basics that well.
Not to place too fine of a point on it, but fellas remember that there are some that would engage in certain behaviors and acts because it is too late for them. You can probably fill in the blanks. This hobby is risky and the mere fact that someone will do something is not necessarily a great thing. I do enjoy it however and will only see a BBBJ provider but there are inherient risks. But god does it feel great.
could someone explain why a provider will do BBBJ and CIM AND swallow but then not allow BB full service????
You know they just might do that. I have had some providers inquire if I always use condoms with others providers and the SO. They also ask me if I have been tested. I have always used condoms since I started to hobby.
much lower risk of AIDs, etc with BJ than FS
Nothing feels better, and damned if it doesn't look nice
