what does this mean?

Have you seen her before? Is this before a date? Is she coming from out of town and working and doesn't know anyone

and there is no $300 price tab for that..

With out more details, I'll need to consult with a Psychic, but if you know her pretty well, she's probably just looking to meet you for a drink and hang out...no sex...no $ exchange.

It means just that.. She wants to meet you for a drink. She thinks you are a nice guy.. Trust me when I tell you... We don't meet clients on our off hours unless we feel like you are a friend!....

If I have nothing to do after an appt. I often ask if the guy would like to go have drinks or dinner. If she is asking just to have drinks, and you don't have a date booked, hmmm.

-- Modified on 4/24/2013 10:19:12 AM

only diff was that after our appointment, on the spur of the moment I asked her to dinner.
she showered & got herself together while I waited in the lobby. We had a great dinner (til restaurant closed) & got to know each other outside our hobby roles.  Sure we flirted, held hands, & made out a lot (car, elevator, parking lot).  But no $ was requested nor exchanged.

Providers, like hobbyists, can't really talk about certain things with their civie friends or families.
Usually it is "chat" before or after a session - but sometimes can be OTC like you mention.
Maybe you are a very good listener and she just wants someone to talk to as a "friend". I would just take her up on her offer - maybe even ask if you could treat her to dinner. Don't over think it - just treat her like any friend.

it doesnt " mean " anything..i am always up to have a drink with a beautiful lady..sure beats watching TV..

Club after a date I payed for lunch, had a great time now were friends. Go for it man!

Afterwards went back to her place around the corner. Looked some stuff online then I was off. Nothing happened. Looking back I wondered if she was wanting a P4P or was offering a freebie if I made a move. I guess I'll never know.

I'm a cynic.

Exactly

Yup. Her mom needs an operation I'll bet.

Damn and I was looking forward to that good bubbly you were going to bring. lol

I can't speak for anyone else, but I have drinks, dinner etc all the time with providers, it's just not that big a deal. Sometimes it leads to something, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes "drinks" isn't code for anything, it just  means drinks and some friendly convo.

Some people act like hookers are people first, and just like everybody else they get hungry, thirsty and even lonelier than the average person if they are in a town all alone.

You probably have never been asked out on dates before so it may seem awkward. Look she is most likely from out of town, knows nobody there aside from her clients and is bored to death of sitting in that hotel room hour after hour and day after day. Unless you are married and have a wife that wants an explanation for your whereabouts all the time, I suggest you be a gentlemen and go have some champagne with her.

If so im guessing its screening or to see if shes comfortabke or if the two of you will have any chemistry.
If it is a orovider that you've established a rapport with maybe she just likes your company and want to spend time with you off the clock.
i have gone for lunch or dinner with clients who i happen to just like their personality. It in no way says im planning to fall in luv with them or them with me, lol. Just that we enjoy one anothers conversation.

Watch out if she brings a cooler chest with her.

But don't worry too much, at least you have two kidneys.

Looks like a lot of loans have happened in this situation out there.

My luck she would be hunting two kidneys.

she could be trying to form a connection to empty your wallet.

I have done it if I like someone. What's to lose? If she says anything you don't like can't you just leave?


Samiam

I'm not sure how u meant that but who gets drunk with a stranger?

Honestly the paranoid n fatalistic approach to this game makes me wonder why some do it at all.

Samiam