No normal guy in his twenties can get "all the pussy he wants" unless he doesn't really want that much pussy.

Like you, I got plenty of pussy in my youth, but I was and still am a fucking horndog that could never get enough. I have been fortunate enough in my life to have plenty of disposable income during much of my youth to be able to afford to see lots of hookers. To most normal guys in their twenties there is no such thing as "enough pussy"  Even if I were able to pull three different civvie girls in a day, I would still have wanted a fourth.

so why do you pay for it now? Are you that "butt ugly, scared of girls, or have absolutely no personality", or are you just old with no game left?  That question is every bit as fair as the one you asked of the young guys, but not quite as insulting as your question to them. I promise to try harder next time.

FWIW my first "hooker" was at 15, by the age of 18 I had fucked hookers in a half a dozen different countries, it didn't have the slightest impact on my ability to score with civvies. Then or now.

Not everyone had the charisma you seem to embody (I hope you get the sarcasm here) and the notion that there must be something wrong with a man who seeks out P4P at whatever age is the flip side of the coin that says a woman who provides must also somehow have something wrong with her. Lighten up and try not to be so self-impressed.

Majority of men under 30 are still trying to develop a career, escalating the corporate ladder, some of them are even new college graduates making somewhat great money in their first job, they are under pressure and don't have time to deal with all the drama, the time spent, and the emotional expenditures (plus financial) of trying to either date or sleep with a girl.. Think about the dinners, the flowers, gifts, activities etc until she decides is the right time..  
So that is when we come into the equation, fantasy, same results, no strings attached, no follow up calls, text messages, drama, needy or clingy attitude.  
You get the same amount of fun, less stress, less expenditures.. Plus maybe we can teach them a couple of things so when they have a real relationship they can wow the girl...

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regardless of age. Has nothing to do with how much game or no game a guy has.  

everybody pays

Even if it was just the cover charge and your drink, well some may be lucky enough for her to buy the drink, then she's paying.

But you ignored the reason why quite a few men who can attract "free" pussy pay for it instead.  It's called NSA for a reason.  I was married when I was 25 to a woman that I had already lived with for four years.  I was looking for some strange by the time I was 28 or 29.  Back then it was streetwalkers but eventually it evolved to escorts and agency girls all of whom will take your money, rock your world and then go away.  It's not always about being able to "attract" a woman.  It's more often about keeping the one you've got at home while having a little fun on the side.  Affairs and bar pickups are a huge risk.  Simply paying for it is much less of a risk.

It's not even that I was getting laid more than an average amount in my 20s.  It just never occurred to me to go find a hooker.  Oddly, though, I recall reading James Michener's "Hawaii" when I was about 16 and there was a scene in which a boy that age was taken by his father to a hooker for his first sexual experience.  I remember wishing someone would do that for me.
Later, when I was first married, I decided even when the sex began to dry up I would stay faithful.  My choice.  Once I left it was "World of Hookers" for me.
And, hh, I, too, found the way the question was phrased to be condescending.  I don't look down on anyone who goes to see a hooker, no matter what age.  Some young guys are just socially inept, or suck at the bar scene, or aren't good looking enough to get the kind of girl they're interested in fucking.  So what?
Remember when everybody wanted to be Joel

...so I don't know what other men look like, but if I remember my youth correctly, there were a lot of butt ugly guys back then who weren't getting any. I assume that eventually, when they could afford it, they'd have a few visits. Next time you get groceries look around and see how many truly attractive people there are in the world. Most people are drab and listless.

And of course, depending on career hazards, military service, genetics, lifestyle choices, things happen. And perhaps before 30 one's physical appearance can be altered overnight.

Then there were guys who saw hookers so as not to impose themselves on the women they worked, studied, socialized with. I don't think there are many of those around nowadays though.

I started rather late in life, but from age 17 I had always been in very committed relationships. Maybe I was just lucky or maybe I was a really cute young man, but I've always been aware aware that my situation was atypical.

If you live long enough, you, too, will one day be butt ugly. Enjoy life while you can, how you can. Mortality is a bitch.

and they weren't any of the things you listed as to the "why". They just had a fantasy to be with an older, hot lady who knew what she was doing.

And the ones in their early 30s were oh so much fun.

Steph

I  was amazed while I was there in Feb. and March to see so many young guys (not sure of their ages, but some looked like they were college kids) who were also good looking or at least decent enough to get laid for free back home.
They were there for several good reasons:
1) the girls are insanely hot and the scene of 60 or 70 or them packed into a hotel bar ripe for the fucking is like an aphrodisiac not matter what your age.  It's basically a sport-fucking vacation.
2) several of them said the girls back home were shallow and money grubbing and if you didn't have a killer car and fat bank account you weren't getting anywhere.  That's not to say the Ticas aren't shallow and money  grubbing at times.  They're just grubbing for a lot less money.
3) they're sick of the drama and bullshit of the dating game, so even if they could get laid back home it's simpler just to "pay them to leave," as our patron saint Charlie said.

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Working really long hours as associates in law firms or analysts in investment banks.  They make good money, and have some $$$ left over every month after paying off the school loans, they have no time to date, so they go to escorts.  It scratches the itch, doesn't take much time or effort and it's NSA...  I bet some providers in major cities like NYC see a few of these guys from time to time...

Of course, there could be plenty of other guys who couldn't get laid even if they walked into a women's prison with a handful of pardons...

I just can't find the time to worry about why other men pay to see providers LMAO.  

You consider yourself a pathetic loser just because you're old, you are what you think you are.. don't let age define you lighten up things will get better for you.  

When I do become an old geezer I plan to be the coolest fucking geezer there i

had I started hobbying back then I probably wouldn't have wasted time with some of the wildebeasts i banged back then. I almost wish I would've found the hobby back then, I probably wouldn't have wound up in some of the LTR's I wound up in, just because I wanted some steady pussy.