I am a non smoker, and while I don't discriminate against who do. I find it rather unpleasant to taste someone's mouth right after they smoked. Even after they mouth wash. I can still taste it. The main problem is that it gives me a headache.
From the hobbyist point of view, do you care if the provider smokes? I noticed a few ads where girls advertise as "non smokers", but then some reviews mention how the room reeked of smoke, or her mouth etc... For the girls, do you care if the guy smells like cigarette smoke? and for the guys, is that a deal breaker?and you are right, mouthwash simply does not cut it.
I won't say it's a complete deal breaker, it's all a matter of degree. If all I can taste and smell is cigarette smoke, you can bet I won't be returning.
Yes it is a deal breaker,I don't like it .
I'm actually quite impressed with how they cover it up.
I do not smoke but I find it hard to believe I can't tell as I'm sure at least some of my dates smoked.
Never during session please though! Love that question...:LOL
that being said, it should not affect the overall tone of date. If you smoke before a date and your date does not, do it outside, with different clothes than your wearing, brush your teeth, wash your hands, etc. to minimize it as much as possible. I know many people who don't smoke who are not sensitive to the smell, but I know many who are. Many of the guys I see smoke cigars and it does not bother me at all. I have pretty much tried to cut down on regular smokes and swap out with an e cig, but when I drink I am going to smoke lol.
Asking someone not to do something before they see us or vice versa, is ludicrous. The provider is not being paid BEFORE you meet her, and the client is not shucking out the money for that time so neither really has a right to ask the other party not to do something on their off time. That's like asking a client not to fk his wife or GF before he sees us. I would not suggest smoking crack before a date bwhahhahaah, but you get my meaning.
Like take a shower and be clean before hand? What is the diff between asking not and asking to...both things before being paid.
I have on my website that I ask a guy not to consume garlic...it can make me feel really nauseous and thus prevent the date period. BUT if he chooses to he has driven all that way for nothing
What someone does on their own time is their own business IF...it doesn't affect me.
Smoking is a deal breaker for me for I like to DFK.
What if a John got drunk before seeing you and was a mess when he showed up at your front door? You wouldn't be slinging this shit then, I am sure. Lol
Do whatever you want in your free time that I don't know about. But if I know about it AND it adversely affects our time together, then you have made it my business, and all bets are off.
so, you won't mind if stop off for a B&G from the local crack whore, before our date. Don't worry I won't hit her piece since I don't want my lips touching anything that's been in her mouth.
because that is one of the dumbest things I think I have ever heard you say.
Others have already explained what wrong with your little choo choo train of logic and I am sure once you re read your post you will agree it's not one of your best. Even so, glad to see you here. Don't be such a stranger.
I mean she "rented" that 6 inch deep cooch for all those years...why not "sell" her 11 digit handle? LO
Asking someone not to do something before they see us or vice versa, is ludicrous. The provider is not being paid BEFORE you meet her, and the client is not shucking out the money for that time so neither really has a right to ask the other party not to do something on their off time. That's like asking a client not to fk his wife or GF before he sees us. I would not suggest smoking crack before a date bwhahhahaah, but you get my meaning.
Unfortunately your analogy is flawed. If some guy has sex with his wife it has no effect on you. If you smoke it does have an effect if some guy is "smoke sensitive,"
If you smoke it does not matter if you soak in the tub for an hour, brush your teeth twice, gargle or put on perfume.
Because of the nature of smoking it does not leave your body as soon as you stop smoking a cigarette. Think of it as having shit on the floor. You can spray paint it and put perfume on it but the smell of shit will quickly come through.
When you smoke the various toxins in cigarettes are stored in your lungs, glans and pores of your skin etc.
I'm not smoke sensitive and I don't have asthma but if you had a trick who was smoke sensitive there is the possibility of triggering an adverse reaction during something as intimate as sex. Most smokers try to hide it but it's always obvious when having sex with a smoker.
So yes the person paying you has a right to ask you to refrain from smoking for a certain period of time prior to seeing you
I agree with you as a non smoker myself. I have also seen those ads and experienced it also. I prefer a non smoker
I detest smoking, frankly I think anyone who would consciously damage their health in that way is a fool. I don't know if mouthwash ever masks smoking, but if I detect smoke on a provider's breath, I always mention it so she knows I find it distasteful.
Someone who reeks of cigarettes in a room that has a stale blue cloud of smoke is a real turn off and I would probably leave...
A faint scent or indication that they'd had a quick smoke before the date, in an otherwise clean environment, doesn't bother me at all.
I do, however, check to see if my dates check non-smoking on their profiles, and she'd better be really hot and priced right if she's a smoker.
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Smoking or kissing an ashtray is a big turn off for me. My favorite smokes and sometimes when I have seen her she smells of smoke walking in the door. Yes, a lot of times she doesn't smell or taste of smoke and those times are very enjoyable. I am very sensitive to smoke and used to dread going to clubs that allowed smoking because I would get head aches and nausea after about 20-30 minutes
I'd prefer my dates to be non-smokers. I smoked for 28 years and now I can't stand smelling it on a date although I'll tolerate it if I really want to see the girl.
but I can't taste nor smell e cigs
But if I had to choose between garlic and smoke, I will take smoke. Garlic to me is positively revolting. I do not smoke so the john need not worry about me.
Mouth wash also cannot stop garlic odor because the odor is in the blood stream. I know that I cannot order a provider not to smoke before hand, but smoke breath will keep me from returning.
No reason to discriminate against smokers...Sex workers not going to turn down money business over cigarette smoke.
Plenty of hookers turn down plenty of johns for a myriad of reasons. Smokers being one of them. Not all money is good money to some.
Sex workers in the business make money that's how sex workers survive.Go vistit sex workers without payment see what happen..Ok sex workers turn away hobbyists for smoking.I dont go to appointment smelling like smoke.Freshly shower.and fresh breath.Thanks!
are you related to mtndewkng? If so, please let us know where our prophet has gone. Thank you
I never know whether or not my providers smoke, but I always go with the assumption that they don't, and take a strong breath mint on my way to her room. Even if I didn't smoke, I would still do the breath mint thing just in case I have a problem that I'm not aware of.
Recommend some mints to give my smoking friends.
my wife and many of my lovers do smoke, and smoke just before and after we have sex.
So now the aroma of cigarette smoke gets me turned on, or I'm a Pavlov's dog
about those of us that like old broads, leaves more young 'uns for him...
based on the responses here, you and I get all the smokers to ourselves...
I quit 15 years ago and swore I'd never become a holier than thou born again non-smoker... I'd rather cigarette smoke than 2-1/2 gallons of Topaz perfume
I can usually smell it as soon as a provider meets me. Smoke lingers on clothes and in the hair. The mint or piece of gum they almost always have right before meeting does little to hide the fact that you "hot boxed" that cigarette on the way here. I love the providers who claim to be "non smokers" but recently "just" started smoking again. It seems to be a lot of them.
Its nice having a cigarette together after the fun time.
I do understand people who quit smoking, are sensitive to the smell. Totally understandable
I prefer not kissing someone that smells of smoke, but it's not going to make or break the appointment. Most (3 out of the 5) providers I've seen have been smokers and I've had a fun time with them.
they can't always go by the TER profile or even what they read. I have read reviews that said the provider smoked but the room didn't smell like smoke. That is a good use of PM to get other hobbyist's opinions.
Yes, I have seen providers who smoke. As long as I can't smell the smoke or taste it on her breath, then I am fine with it.
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