What features or qualities about someone after being with them in person (not pics on a website) make you feel you absolutely have to have them, and have them right this very minute?   And since I know this will come up, no, a big fat envelope is neither a feature nor a quality lol

your eyes meet...then in that moment she smiles wantonly and you realize...she wants you as much as you want her.

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First and foremost is chemistry.  With some gals I just get smitten by something about them, something tangible that I can feel like I inhale.  We call it chemistry, and that's probably as good a term for it as any.

Second is the attitude of the person.  If they are an erotic type of person and that comes through in the way they act, talk, etc., that will seal the deal.

Lastly is their ability to embody that erotic attitude in their deeds, i.e. performance

Down the list come other things:  Appearance, intelligence, personality, etc.  They are also very important to their being and to whether or not I'd want to be with them, but the question is, I take it, asking about eroticism, (Since this is The Erotic Review.) and so the three I listed first are those I focus on

"A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside."
-Denis Waitle

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Yet, that ol’ standard 36-24-36 (+/- slight deviation as long as it's hour glass figure) in measurements and then maybe the way she struts her stuff, you know the walk, the sway (all visual stuff for sure), which is lust at first sight.

I often thought about it, woman can be born to be sexy; it’s in their genetics compared to other woman not born sexy, as they physically evolve into either a straight arrow or a rotund a body. (And I didn't mention beautiful face; there's plenty of pretty faces in all body types that are not shapely), but when a not so pretty face is attached to a shapely body; lust happens more often than not. So, when you feel that lust in your heart where you want to fuck her; your evolutionary instincts take over. (And, forget about individual variations like in height, hair, and skin complexion, etc.; it's the shapely body that matters.) It’s scientific: Hour glass figure with symmetry.

The performance is a difference story, so not all is lost. Many can make up for it in attitude. The outcome: Work with what you were born with; then make the best of it. There's enough good love for everyone. (but it may not be lust at first sight, and then there are those who pay for it).

 
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But neck has to be shaved gentlemen  

Iam soo surprsed to see in the city so many men  with  to shaved necks and  not clean shoes.

That would routine ANY outfit for man .
 Same as if woman would wear nice dress yet  would have  
 dirty feet and old sandals or have wrinkles on her stockings.  

 No one dress would help

 As old french satins states - better have wrinkles on the face then on your suite - that for gentlemen of course  

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when the door opens, if I can see her tits through the lingerie, I know I have to have her.  Not any more complicated than that.

For me it isn't so much physical. Can you get in my head?

 It's vocal inflection, attitude, wit and the way she moves. Confidence maybe?

Some women have a walk that will melt you down. Especially, if she's wearing a pair of those back lined stockings, GOOD LORD!

 I'm sure most providers pull off the second part quite nicely since its directly related to being in touch with her own sexuality and the wardrobe to compliment it.

Her eyes and smile!  After that comes her personality.  A girl can be one of the most fantastic lovers on the planet but if she has the personality of a flea, guess what?!  That won't work for me

D.

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half black?
I love "old french satins."