For those who need to be reminded of the story up until now, go back to Part 1 here:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=651124&boardID=12&page=3#651124

ok, so here's how things played out:  I know some of you will disapprove or accuse me of having wussed out (although more on that in a moment), but I was really bummed by how things were going.  She has a birthday coming up, so I sent her an "advance" b-day gift.  Couple of days later, she gets in touch, thanks me for the gift, says she's willing to re-visit our original plans, agrees to a two-bedroom suite, and we had a wonderful two days together.  No chance her bf was still in the same city by the time our private time started, so I really don't care.  Our time together was ours, and it was great.

I know some of you think I should have dumped her and moved on.  The thought of doing that is something I'm not prepared to consider, partially because she's not really a provider in the classic sense of being a GFE escort; actually, she's a pro-domme.  BUT:  She's very unique, in that she's a pro-domme who offers FS (good luck finding that combo anywhere else in the known universe.  And don't tell me about "fetish-friendly" GFEs.  I've been to quite a few of those, and some of them are regular playmates of mine.  There is still a difference between the two, though).  What can I say?  She rocks my world in a way that nobody else can even approach.

So, I guess, Yeah, maybe I ate a little shit.  But a certain amount of that kind of comes with the turf when you're dealing with a pro-domme anyway, so I don't think this came out so bad, after all.

I know a lot of you will think I got pushed around here or something.  All's I can say is both parties got what they wanted, and that's all that really matters.  For once, there was a win-win situation all around--just wanted all of you to know.

Feel free to make fun of me now.  It's ok, I don't mind.  

Here are my small thought on the arrangement.
Two bed/two bath is the way to go.  You got your space, and so does she.  Giving her the space and bathroom of her own would be the way with a multi-day date.   You got your space and she has hers.  The time she may need early one would be different than yours.  For me, 20min excluding dump time, and I'm ready to go for the day.  90min for my wife is a different matter.  If you expect a woman to get ready to go out for a day in less than an hour, GOOD LUCK.  

no need to rub it in.  I cannot believe anyone would pay for a trip and sleep in separate beds.  What are you guys married to her or 65+ yo?

Making sense, that is.

Yes, if the OP had made it clear he WANTED to be treated badly, and that he was a sub, it all would have been much more clear.

Now he has taken any fun that I might have had ridiculing him away from me, as he actually got exactly what he was looking for. Of course maybe he is a "internet sub" as well, and wanted us to flame him on his earlier thread? You just never know what turns people on. Some people like fifty year old hookers for example.  Come on, you can't expect me to be nice to you three posts in a row. lol

Domme and your her Sub. Plain and simple. That's all you had to say in the first sentence of your very first post about this. She's got you wrapped where she wants you and then some as it typically is in any Domme/Sub relationship when the connection is there. It's not unique, it's how it should be in this kind of relationship if it's a true one.

Pussy Galore didn’t sleep with Auric Goldfinger, and Domino Vitali didn’t sleep with Emilio Largo.

Seriously, BOTH of you got exactly what you wanted, so all is well. You can't ask for anything more.

If I am going to be paying some woman to sleep, she damn sure better be curled up in my arms, AND she better not need a damn hour to "prepare herself" for morning sex. Now if I plan on us spending the day together as well, I do allow her whatever time she needs, which is usually a lot, to primp and preen in the bathroom until she has made herself sufficiently beautiful to go out in public.

Of course I will admit that I spent a couple of days with a tica a couple of weeks ago that only needed about 30 minutes in the "bano" in which to get ready in the morning. Of course she is only twenty and doesn't really even need makeup to look "bonita", in ten years she will probably be spending two hours in there, just like most other women. lol

Hey, even though you like to play ProDomme/sub games doesn't mean that you can't have a decent backbone and balls attached to you.  Frankly it is mandatory.

Posted By: CourageousCat

For those who need to be reminded of the story up until now, go back to Part 1 here:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=651124&boardID=12&page=3#651124

ok, so here's how things played out:  I know some of you will disapprove or accuse me of having wussed out (although more on that in a moment), but I was really bummed by how things were going.  She has a birthday coming up, so I sent her an "advance" b-day gift.  Couple of days later, she gets in touch, thanks me for the gift, says she's willing to re-visit our original plans, agrees to a two-bedroom suite, and we had a wonderful two days together.  No chance her bf was still in the same city by the time our private time started, so I really don't care.  Our time together was ours, and it was great.

I know some of you think I should have dumped her and moved on.  The thought of doing that is something I'm not prepared to consider, partially because she's not really a provider in the classic sense of being a GFE escort; actually, she's a pro-domme.  BUT:  She's very unique, in that she's a pro-domme who offers FS (good luck finding that combo anywhere else in the known universe.  And don't tell me about "fetish-friendly" GFEs.  I've been to quite a few of those, and some of them are regular playmates of mine.  There is still a difference between the two, though).  What can I say?  She rocks my world in a way that nobody else can even approach.

So, I guess, Yeah, maybe I ate a little shit.  But a certain amount of that kind of comes with the turf when you're dealing with a pro-domme anyway, so I don't think this came out so bad, after all.

I know a lot of you will think I got pushed around here or something.  All's I can say is both parties got what they wanted, and that's all that really matters.  For once, there was a win-win situation all around--just wanted all of you to know.

Feel free to make fun of me now.  It's ok, I don't mind.  

if one has sleep issues, then separate beds might be a good idea.  Otherwise, I'm gonna go with the majority here & say same bed.  If we use separate rooms, separate beds, I'm gonna want a wake up call.  There's no reason it can't happen.  Agree the night before where the next play session will be.  
I'm glad this worked out for you to your satisfaction.

it would be you.

Well, I guess it is cheaper than marriage. For a few hundred or few thousand dollars a man can find a woman to treat him badly, or he could marry some bitch and then give her half his shit like most other men do. I guess maybe he is the smart one after all.

I've known a couple of ladies who demand high fees and demand their own rooms on trips.  
I've never known why a man would think that is OK - unless it is the guys request (which has happened to me on a couple of trips)

disappoint. Ok, not really LOL.  

but the two are not mutually exclusive, IOW it's possible to be both, and I think the OP has achieved that. He is being a wuss in public and a sub BCD. We really can't fault him for the latter, but yes I suppose he is fair game for the former.

BTW where did I ever say "like"??? just that you were making an unusual amount of sense lately

and one other thing, is it 50? or more like 50ish? lol

Sorry, but if you book an overnight with me be prepared for me to be in bed all night with you!

LOL, wonder if he has a brother. I could use another SD bwahahahaha.

well I didn't mean 'like' then...did I say that? I guess I should reread the original post. I can take that back can't I?

but she is not very subtle in letting him know he is not wanted around at certain times, which I guess I can understand. She needs her time to poop and primp, as most real women do lol. Sorry, but in the morning, I need a good hour before I am in a good mood. I will blow the dude, but if he thinks I am going to lie there and chat after it, think again. I need my coffee, my morning shit, and then a long bath so I can pray. Just sayin.