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6onmymind 7 Reviews 2060 reads
posted
1 / 20
Any Ideas or Advice

Need some advice. I'm pretty sure there's a couple of working girls in my apartment building. I'm fairly positive i've seen mongers come and go. I'd love to confirm and make an appointment. However, I've never met them and I don't have their "work" number. I also realize the potential hazards. They may not want clientele in the same building. If they get busted by the super they might take me down with them. etc.

How would you go about confirming their status?
And would you take the chance?

Just curious what y'all think.

thanks in advance

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 135 reads
posted
2 / 20
apartment "workers"

I do not think you should ever go fishing from the neighborhood pier. I am sure there are plenty less crowded and anonymous fishing that you can enjoy in your area without the worry of it disrupting your home.

RespectfulRobert 126 reads
posted
3 / 20
There is an old expression:

"You don't defecate where you consume sustenance." I don't know if thats the exact saying but I think it's pretty close. lol.

herbtcat 6 Reviews 120 reads
posted
4 / 20
That is such a bad idea, all the other ideas are pissed off!

Contacting them is just fraught with issues:  

 
1. They may NOT be providers, and you will be the asshole neighbor when you ask them to fuck!

 
2. If they are using that location as a trick pad, they definitely want to be UTR with the neighbors and landlord.  

 
3. If you "out" them they will probably have to move, incurring costs for breaking the lease and moving, and disrupting their business.  

 
4. You are suggesting an Uber Dick Move. Don't be a dick.  

 
5. Assuming it actually goes well; they are hosting in your building AND they are amenable to meet and bang. Now  
what?  What if they charge over your budget? What if they provide lousy service? What if you see them by the pool/in the laundry room/in the parking lot? How fucking awkward will that be?  

 
6. What if the Landlord (and LE) does find out and you are implicated? Is losing your home and possibly getting busted, and the subsequent legal fees and reputation loss worth the convenience of super-local pussy?  

 
Here's an alternative idea: Find ANY other provider using the TER search tool.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 128 reads
posted
5 / 20
Cold call

Unless you contact them through some "intended" contact method, you run the risk of soliciting for sex from someone who isn't actually a sex worker, and they can and probably will report you to LE.
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I don't think there is a big risk of visiting someone in your own building.  But approaching them without knowing with some certainty that they are, in fact, sex workers, is fraught with liability.

RespectfulRobert 116 reads
posted
6 / 20
You and Herb are spot on. Both great pieces of advice. eom


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John_Laroche 105 reads
posted
7 / 20
Would I see a provider who lives nearby?

Sure, but I wouldn't let her know where I lived.

 
How would I approach a woman who might be a provider?
I wouldn't directly,  but if I had a good relationship with another provider I might ask if she knows anyone  in xyz location...but that's a real stretch.  

 
Even if I knew they were providers, how could I otherwise find their contact info?
Virtually 100% trial and error, unless you actually saw them and recognized them from an ad. Not very likely.  

 
Maybe you could post an ISO on TER and every other escort site you can think of with very, very specific geographical limits.  

 
How about confronting the next guy you notice coming from their apartment? Take his pic and follow him until he confesses and gives up their contact info...No, don't do that.

RespectfulRobert 110 reads
posted
8 / 20
I agree with much of what you said except for the first sentence.

Remember the OP is about the guy living in the same building as the provider and not someone that merely lives "nearby." So if you saw a provider that lived in your building, it may not matter that you wouldn't let her know where you live as she might see you on a fairly consistent basis just in casual passing like coming into the building, leaving the building, chatting with friends just outside the building etc. That could REALLY creep her out and she could rightfully think you are stalking her even though in actuality you were not.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 122 reads
posted
9 / 20
If you have followed other threads . . . .

on this board you know there is an overwhelming consensus that giving too much personal information to a provider for screening purposes may sound like a good idea initially, but when things go South, all kinds of bad things happen.  If you start seeing them, sooner or later, they will find out you live in their complex, and what better way to get a start on all of your personal info than to google your address and see what comes up? They can get your name and your real phone number (not the burner we all use for seeing providers), and from there a lot more info is available for free and through subscription services.  The question is how much RISK are you willing to take for the convenience of having an incall you can use in your own complex?  For me, these would be the LAST providers on the planet that I would be interested in seeing professionally.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 117 reads
posted
10 / 20
Re: If you have followed other threads . . . .

Mr. Lion,  

It unfortunately looks like your delusional paranoia creeping up again. Are you having that dream again where you give out all of that RISKY personal info and the little green alien providers show up at your house to try and steal your netflix password????  
Now hear me out....maybe....just maybe....you could try and just speak for yourself? Your personal experiences? Your personal preferences? When you use falsehoods like "overwhelming consensus" and "everyone" it makes you sound insecure and as though you need to make a feverish attempt to convince people of something that is inaccurate.  
Hope this helps, and happy holidays!!!

helixir 54 Reviews 116 reads
posted
11 / 20
No--Just No--The Number 1 Rule of Fight Club

If the lady has an ad up, fine, answer the ad and let her determine whether she will see you.

Any other path to "confirm", as you say, puts her at risk.

Honestly, while I'm glad you asked, I'm pretty shocked anyone over 18 has to ask this question.

6onmymind 7 Reviews 124 reads
posted
12 / 20
thank you all

Thanks for all of the advice guys! I'm gonna forget i ever saw anything and be on my merry way. I think i knew this was the best option, but i'm glad y'all had the same thought.

impposter 49 Reviews 142 reads
posted
13 / 20
Howdy, neighbor!

I was in a similar situation years ago. I did not hobby back then so I never even thought of pursuing anything. The BIG problem was their clients taking my parking space!!!
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-provider-next-door-349846
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/i-was-the-neighbor-711039

Posted By: 6onmymind

Need some advice. I'm pretty sure there's a couple of working girls in my apartment building. I'm fairly positive i've seen mongers come and go. I'd love to confirm and make an appointment. However, I've never met them and I don't have their "work" number. I also realize the potential hazards. They may not want clientele in the same building. If they get busted by the super they might take me down with them. etc.  
   
 How would you go about confirming their status?  
 And would you take the chance?  
   
 Just curious what y'all think.
I agree with most of the others: back off or stay away.

LONGFELLA4YOU 3 Reviews 123 reads
posted
14 / 20
NWB (neighbor with benefits)

What they don't know is best.  Try and find them on a site and then make a date.  Don't divulge that you live in the building. If you run into them after the date just ignore and get on with your day.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 105 reads
posted
15 / 20
Peace is priceless, so no respect their privacy as a neighbor. Eom


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Dfusethesituation 128 reads
posted
16 / 20
Ideas or advice

So many questions...

 
You said you're fairly positive, how so?  Can you confirm they are who you think they are from an ad?  Can you confirm the people you've seen are mongers?  Do mongers have a certain look?  How big is your apartment building?  

 
There are plenty of platforms that you can check both locally and nationally to see they are working girls.  Of course that just depends on what level of the hobby they are at e.g. are they local STG girls, are they on Eros, P411, etc..?  Yes  there are potential hazards, and you have to think more with the big head than the little one.  If meeting is a must, I WOULD NOT do an outcall (them to you), rather get a hotel room somewhere other than the vicinity of where you live.  And if you did an incall, most definitely stay away from discussions like "hey I live right around the corner or in the same building".  But all those are big ifs, and as others have mentioned the juice may not be worth the squeeze.  Personally I don't think its something that you should want to get yourself involved in.  But that's without knowing your situation, your level of both maturity and discreetness, and most importantly how hot they are etc..

cks175 51 Reviews 101 reads
posted
17 / 20
Re: NWB neighbor with benefits (Fraught With Complications)

What they don’t know is best
The problem is her reaction when she finds out. She sees you at the leasing office, the gym, in the parking lot.  Are you stalking her? Keep in mind you have no idea how she’ll react to a stalker. Next thing you know, you’re getting jumped by a crazy boyfriend, or you show up to her incall and she’s not the only one there waiting to meet you

looking4918 13 Reviews 128 reads
posted
18 / 20
Easy !!!

I have a similar situation but in my case I am the landlord for two massage girls. Personally they could throw themselves naked and promise me the world and I will walk on by with a polite smile. You are a bit different, If you can easily replace your living conditions at the same or better rates ? I might ask a few polite questions our start a conversation ?      

Foodyguy 29 Reviews 113 reads
posted
19 / 20
Real Life information

If they are providers, you will be giving real life information and the ability to make your life miserable if it does not work out.

sexyasianlondon 128 reads
posted
20 / 20
sites

What sites are they likely to be advertising on?  Maybe start there?

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