providers or clients?

Poor, lonely, maladjusted guys who fall for the GFE fantasy.

there's your answer as far as inclination -    

Ask yourself this these two questions.......

I guess some guys GFE fantasy threshold is a lot lower than others.

but yes, using this board as an example, it's definitely clients. "I've fallen for a provider and cant' get up" posts have to outnumber "I've fallen for some old fat bald dude" posts by at least a hundred to one.

Someone should make a song with those words as lyrics and repeat it over and over again.

I am in love for the full 60 minutes.  On occasion 90 minutes.

Speaking of MacAI, too bad we can't change his handle to MacAS. Instead of (suffix Mac) and AI as in artificial intelligence, it would be artificial stupidity. If we were all robots, MacAS would be a toaster.

Lol Def Lepoard kinda did.  "Love Bites "

Generally, providers see far more men than clients see providers, so we fall for guys probably much less often, but it definitely goes both ways.

I want to draw attention to the phrasing of the question: "...fall in love with one another?" Since providers socialize with each other much more than hobbyists ever get together with other hobbyists, and since providers often engage in lesbian activity especially in doubles, it seems far more likely that providers would more frequently fall in love with each other than that hobbyists would fall in love with each other.

And then, of course, there was the J. Geils Band.

I have had LTR's with more than a few providers over the years and I KNOW at least a couple of them were completely in love with me. Several of the others were either looking for a meal ticket, just having fun, or outright trying to play me, but there were at least a couple that I would bet my life were in love with me. So from first hand experience I can state for a fact it happens.

But the OP's question was "which happens more?" and I think it's pretty clear that the guys fall for the women a LOT more often than the other way around.

I'm certainly not always one to get sarcasm, unfortunately I'm also not very good at dishing it out.  

Speaking of circumcision, I'm uncut.  Does that make me an undesirable client?

Before I got into the hobby there were probably a hundred women who I slept with, not counting one night stands. I sure wasn't in love with every one of them, and I doubt they were all in love with me, but the thing is, none of them EVER asked me to pay to sleep with them.

id like to know your penis size, annual salary and general physique please, thanks............lol

and women get hit on every day, probably even more in this line of work

They mate for life

So, for their edification, here it is:

If you view the famous documentary March of the Penguins, they clearly point out that penguins generally choose a new mate each year.

The males do take an equal role in raising the chick they sire.

Some other birds do, however, mate for life, but hardly all.  Many are just as promiscuous as.....humans!

I think most of us who are self aware and honest with ourselves can tell when another person's feelings are genuine.

Keep in mind I have been with hundreds of civvies and thousands of providers, over a very long period of time. I do have the law of averages working for me. Even if only one in a thousand women I have been with ever fell in love with me, well that still means more than a couple. lol

But while I agree that taking money out of the equation, I have had many providers that I have seen without any exchange of money at some point in our relationship, only a very small handful of these women ever had feeling that ever approached actual "love"

When you find someone that you feel a real connection with, it is really not something that you can often help. It happens to men and women, and I am sure neither of them went into the situation hoping to fall for the other. They were just both there to have fun and were open to forming a connection in hopes of enhancing the experience, but not looking for love. However, when you open to forming a connection, sometimes that connection formed is really strong and happens really fast.