This subject seems to come up a lot around here so when I read this scientific article I thought I'd share it ....

Girlfriend Experience.... emphasis on experience, I'm sure sometimes it happens but I assume it is all fake instead of pretending that the hot 25 year old girl is really turned on enough to orgasm by my 48 year old body.  I could be wrong but I believe the majority of them are faked.

When I was 18, I married a 38yo man.  You may not care if the ladies get off but some of us like to get ours too! I know I do 😀
I will agree that some have no issues with faking orgasms.  I just happen to suck really bad at that! Lol
I have no problem telling a man what turns me on so that we can BOTH have an earth shaking O.  
Yes, men do pay us to get off but some men get off on the lady being pleased  😚😚😚
XOXO  
TL

I am very fortunate, faking has never been necessary in fact as I have aged the question is how many more can I handle and if or when I should stop and short of physical exhaustion. "Do I want to stop"
I usually choose to stop but not because I want to.  Older partners have little or nothing to do with quality maybe on occasion duration.......but I love those Viagra cocks, so hard.
Suzee

but if he really is a jockey, everything about those guys is very small.  Hence, understandable insecurities with women.  

I have never had to fake an orgasm, and as I age, I'm cutting back to six or seven a week lately.  

I'm not insecure..... I just honestly don't care.  When I was married it was  a big deal to me, something I really tried to do and she never appreciated it.  Then with the girlfriend all was good, until I caught her lying about a bunch of shit and that made me question a lot of the things she told me.

I spent too long with the TOFTT wife. If I can't help you get it too, I'm going to someone who I can.  

we orgasm together, even better. I pick up on the subtle physical cues (increased breathing, slight body twitching, increased wetness, tone of moans, vaginal contractions) that she gives off and continue until her slow built up orgasm is released. As far as I know, it's real because it appears very genuine.

Just think about it. As a guy how many times are you goinging to blow a load??? Yea I know some can out perform others.  

Slowing down old man,

More time thinking about cocks than pussy.  Not judging, just an observation.

The more I read your post TL the higher you climb in my bucket list!  

I think you are probably making an assumption about something not in evidence.
I won't go into the background of the conversation but a couple of days ago, I was talking with a heaux that I know and she told me that some of the biggest cocks that she has come across, (yes I know), were owned by very short and skinny guys.

It's not about just getting a nut for me.  If that were the case I'd stick with masturbating or buy one of those sex toy thingies and fuck it.  I want to at least "feel" like you are enjoying the experience so if you aren't getting off, please try to fake it....lol.

Not in Valdosta anymore but spent a good bit of time there, it is a shithole

When you're 5-2 and 90 pounds, a smaller dick can look like a magnum compared to the rest of your body.   I have had some providers tell me that they thought that too when looking at the guy naked, but once entry was made, they realized it was not as big as they thought.   For the record, I'm probably build like you.  Chest 48, Waist 36?

It's unfortunate that I can't be fooled because that's the most important part for me. I can tell who truly enjoy it and never doubt it when I get her off. It's almost like a sixth sense. I would have a lot more repeats with many girls if they can easily be faked with me as you said.
 
Your suggestion is good. I always go in believing I am a gift for her, just not the gift that keeps on giving for the whole hour or more.

Had an ATF recently say the same thing - that it's frustrating to gals to have the guy control himself through the "natural" point of climaxing and then have trouble finishing.  I'm an old guy who has difficulty finishing in cover, so for me it's all about the journey until the cover comes off.  Sometimes the journey is to "Yes......Yes......Yes" and sometimes it's "Let's try this next."  But it's always fun!!

I'm not a jockey. hljockey is an anagram.