Before I write a review labeling a girl as a clock watcher…get ‘em In/Off/Out, I’d like to get a ruling of when the appointment starts if the provider is the one running late. Here’s the situation:
Scheduled a 1 hr “high-noon” first visit appointment with a provider. I called from the parking lot at 5 minutes before scheduled time. She was just getting ready and said she’ll call back in 5 mins. At 20 past the scheduled time she calls and invites me up. (to be fair she texted me at 15 past the scheduled time. I didn’t get the text until we were actually talking on the call back. Less than 5 minutes from the call back I was in the room.
At the 25 minute mark (from walking in the door) she is looking at the clock. At the 40 min mark (top of the hour) she offers to stop doing what we are doing to get the job done by hand as we’re running out of time. After I say “what’s the hurry there’s plenty of time” and without any answer, she proceeds to remove the raincoat and begin manual stimulation. 2 Mins later she picks up her phone, mid-hand job, to text her body-guard she’s Ok -running late. I finish the job with a bit of assistance in plenty of time to dress and say bye. There was 5 minutes still on the clock before the 1 hr is up (as measured from the time I walked in).
As far as I could tell there was no back to back appointment. Other than the time issue she gave a reasonable, albeit businesslike, performance. All smiles, no visible sign of agony or annoyance or abnormal body language.
IMO the appointment started at the time I walked in. To her it appeared she felt the appointment started somewhere between the scheduled time and the moment she texted the OK.
Don't expect a BI-partisan response.I hope I,m wrong.The minute you walk in the door.
your hour should start when you walked in the door and not before. You, honey, got jipped, in more ways than one! Sorry you had such a mediocre experience. Hope your next provider treats you better.
I can't believe you think ladies would side with the provider here. Give us a little credit please. She was TEXTING for Gawd's sake. UGH! There is simply no defending that.
...and you should feel free to note her poor time management skills in her review.
If *YOU* were late, the appointment would start at the time initially scheduled...unless I have the time and feel that you apologized profusely.
In that case, I will start the time when you actually arrive.
If *I* was late, the time would start when I arrive or when I greet you at my incall door.
It's quite simple: excellent customer service is essential in this game.
Xoxo,
Gia
You got shorted. The clock starts ticking when you walk through the door. If you were the one running late, the rules change, but you weren't.
If i understand correctly even though the appointment was started 1/2 hr late you still got 1 hr but were still going strong 45 min into the appt. She may have been watching the clock by this time. In my experience the sex is ususally done if you only have 5 min left. This unexpected delay may have completely changed how things played out. Before labeling her a clockwatcher you might want to cosider that she was trying to make time foy you when perhaps you would have had a better experience if you or her had r.s. instead.
The original poster said that at the top of the hour, which would be roughly 35 minutes into the actual session, she's trying to get him to pop, pulls off the cover and proceeds to try to finish him off quickly with her hand. Then (this is the part that really torques me) actually starts TEXTING. Geeze louise, no wonder the poor guy took another 20 minutes to finish. I pity the poor guy trying to set off fireworks under those circumstances.
Even though he did get a full hour more or less, she was trying to get him to finish up when they were barely half an hour into the appointment. Yeah, that's clock watching. When she pulled that cover off, she was trying to get him out the door ASAP, and texting her pimp, body guard, whatever to tell him she wasn't ready for the next guy. Just her bad luck that it took another 20 minutes.
you read it right the first time - thanks for the reinforcement!
There are too many people who reinforce the generalization that a provider's time is nothing more than scheduling encounters with hobbyists. Perhaps she has a sick child to get home to and not another client to "do". Generalizations aside, she was in the wrong.
Xoxo,
Gia
UGH. SO sorry that happened to you. She was totally, completely, inexcusably unprofessional. Furthermore, there is absolutely no doubt that her behavior was caused by sandwiching bookings one on top of the other (gross).
If she is running late, then your time starts when she arrives. You paid for an hour, you are entitled to an hour, period, end of story. Her piss poor planning, or more likely greed on the part of her 'body guard' (I'm using that term facetiously), is not your problem.
Write the review and don't hesitate to be blunt, and good luck with your future adventures.
I pace myself to finish near the close, not that she would know that.
On the other hand, if I can't get the job done in the allotted time I don't hold the provider responsible to put in extra time for free. Some ladies actually insist on completion- god bless them! (tip-I go back to those and bring nice gifts)
I just wanted some reinforcement on the start time aspect to make a judgment on whether the rush was called for.
Sounds like she is the one who is confused, time should not have started until you were in the door.
When I offer incall to a new client I like to talk for a few minutes and get comfortable with each other. When that is the case, I don't "start the clock" until we are actually in the bedroom.
Hmmm...Strictly speaking if you got 55 minutes then I am hardpressed to say that you had been shortchanged. Since all was taken care of with only 5 minutes to spare, it sounds like she was right to speed things along. If she hadn't done so you would probably have run over.
But if she makes you feel that your hour is rushed than she is not doing her job. Then again, in this case you may have been overly senstive to the issue because of the late start. I mean you were looking/expecting to be time-shorted and that skewed your perception of the evetns. It was a self-fulfilled prophecy.
And based on complaining about 5 minutes, I go with the self-fulfilled prophecy.
will not see me a second time.
Regardless of when the session starts lol
I am so sorry this happend to you. I have to agree with Gia.
I am sitting here trying to wrap my mind around her giving you a hand job and texting at the same time? I am real confused right there.
Again, I am sorry you had a not so good time.
Yeah, I had to take over running off a batch by hand while she was texting. I thought it was a little rude. I once had a girl take a call while in the middle of the act...If it's your wife it's kind of fun to slam it home while she's talking....see if she can keep her composure... but not so much fun when your on a timer and paying. She's young- if she plans to stay in it she'll need some coaching.
She should have told you this an allowed you to reschedule with no penalty or to do a half hour session for whatever her rate may be for that (Roughly half I'm thinking.)
In any case, she displayed poor judgement. I doubt very much you will be calling on her again.
sometimes a few minutes later because there are some ladies that do not start the clock until you move to the bedroom after the "get to know you chat."
Be sure to write an honest review. Also, it might be good to write a mini-review on your regional board in case there are guys who might not see the full review.
I have found this type of behavior (more time management) is more common with younger providers.
I know that if a gentleman is late and I have someone booked where we might run close it is a little upsetting. I never book that close though. I can never do an hour and most know that up front. Some tip me for the extra time others don't. Me i'm just happy we had enough time to know if another meeting would be in both our best interests.
Gentlemen know up front if their being rushed an can feel the tension. It's just like someone putting a time restraint on me to get them off because they need to be somewhere at a specific time.
Kisses Haley
you should not be the one penalized for it! This is a perfect case in point for my 2 envelope idea that none of the providers liked on a past thread
about the donation, envelope etc. In this case she would have gotten the first half, and could kiss my ass for the second half! Kinda like the providers who start on time, but if they get you off in 20 min their hour is done! and they want the $$$.
I do hope you write an honest review of this lady to let others know about her. That's just BAD business and poor "customer relations"
She's an idiot and should have just cancelled instead of doing that if its a lack of organization. If it's because of unforseen circumstances or an emergency, I sure as hell would have cancelled. This is the last thing I want to deal with if I'm upset or in a hurry, a polite cancellation with a discount for the rescheduled appointment would have been offered if it was me.
