hahahah ok well just as long as you eat the beans on the WAY OUT peeee yeeeeeeeewwwww
hahaha :P
Chemistry and great performance keeps me coming back for more. This weighs more then anything...
A girl that goes above and beyond. As well as a girl with no pimp.
Some you click and the more you see them, the experience gets better. Something like going steady.
Really, after the first visit, the awkwardness goes away. Three may be four.
True story. The first time, we hit it off and were talking about all sorts of stuff including music. I told her I'd burn a CD with relevant stuff. A few weeks later, I was in the neighborhood and called the apartment. She wasn't there but I asked if I could drop off the CD: don't even let me in or open the door; I'll just slide it under the door. Nope. They wouldn't even buzz me into the lobby. So I simply HAD to go back to give her the CD (and have gone back several more times without CDs).
ahh thats sweet, I love when clients do little special things just for me 
I forgot another one! I already posted the story in General Discussion forums (a few threads below / earlier than this one) as "Of-age Cute-and Ninja Turtles", yesterday, I think. I experienced a stealth ninja cloaking and had to go back to see how she did it! I had to solve the mystery!
A few more considerations:
Is she traveling and will only be around for a short while? (I have repeated due to "urgency" but ONLY when I knew I was up to it. I wouldn't repeat for this reason if I was tapped out in one or more ways. So "urgency of schedule" is sometimes a minor consideration.)
Fallback visit due to some other cancellation. I haven't done this, but it would be more for convenience or being pre-screened and doesn't emphasize personal attributes. (Hence, a minor consideration.)
My MAIN desire and MAJOR reasons to repeat all have to do with the personal connection part. No doubt about that. A genuine comfort level. A feeling of having nothing to worry about.
Uh oh. Now I think I have to go lie down, crawl up into a fetal position and cry for a while.
Just this past week I saw someone for the first time on Tuesday, and then had to see her again on Thursday before she left town.
There were lots of things I liked about her..she was sweet, sensual..etc..but mostly she gave incredible head and seemed like she couldn't possibly get fucked hard enough! It was quite a workout.
You have to keep it new and fresh each encounter..the first time is new, fresh, exciting, and unknown...but when times 2, 3 and 4 are the exact same thing it becomes stale and you go try someone else...at least that's me!
which can be accomplished by kissing like she means it, looking me in the eye, addressing me by name, making me feel the "connection"
The high performance part is self explanatory I guess - I love fast cars and faster women lol
But that's only good for getting me to visit again out of curiosity.
The very very (very) few women who have managed to keep me visiting for any time at all have been very different but have had one thing in common - they seemed to me to take a genuine interest in me as a human being (and to allow that interest to be reciprocated - yes - within reasonable boundaries) IN ADDITION to continuing to make me feel "Wanted" and offering High Performance
Really - I'm "easy" LOL
It's a combination of 3 things that will keep me coming back for more ...her attractiveness, performance, and "chemistry".
I also enjoy longer sessions, sometimes overnighters and I've taken my favorite lady on vacation with me a few times. So, "chemistry" is a very important factor for me.
and the choice about repetition is not based on simple considerations. there are several ladies i repeat with or with whom i wish to repeat. the factors involved include:
simply liking the person
delightful conversation skills
therapeutic massage skills
superior companionship skills
each lady i enjoy repeating with has a different mix of those qualities.
Physical/emotive synergy so profound words can't describe really how good it is for both of us.
Plus she's funny, smart, and empathetic. We have a rolicking good time in and out of the sack, me and my ATF.....
I have no desire to really see anyone else at the moment. I'm not looking for variety, been there and done it. I'm looking to play hard the way I need to and she has a very similiar way of wanting to do it. We are a good fit.......
Smouldering sex.
Great sex is great, but if we aren't able to communicate with each other, and find something to like about each other, it doesn't work. Simple as that...
Ladies who ARE the ones in her current pictures.
Who provide good services as promised for the donation promised.
Who go the extra mile... ie when I explained about my partial spinal cord injury, said "That won't be a problem"... and made sure it was not.
Who is a nice friend to be around.
jtp
because she and I just clicked and she's a great person.
And I'm afraid that while some have found the combination on their own; I'm not going to give it out for gratuitous use. lol
Like I know where I prefer to dine, and where I dine at the people know me and my tastes so very well, so it is with my ATF. She's 95% available when I call. She's just a short drive. And, she reads me well, and adjusts our time together accordingly. Plus, we know a lot about each other, and I'm not concerned about any jealous SO's, on her part, causing any drama. I came to close to that happening early on in my hobby experience. And, she is extremely discrete. I prefer returning to her rather than sampling the unknown, though I like to keep my options open. Of course, the fact that she's a pretty hot spinner type is a factor also.
Boils down to personality and level of service. That's usually why it's like an interview process for me. Since I'm deciding I want that level of service and their attitude and personality will make it all the more fun. That in turn means that they are someone I would want to see again instead of having to go through the whole process all over again.
Just my humble opinion and point of view.
truely makes the date seem like a real date and not just a service (no pun intended), shows interest in me as more than an ATM machine or another dick to suck or play with, etc.--all for a fair price (a variable that depends partially on location in the US or elsewhere).
Sometimes I just don't click with a provider regardless of how attractive or skilled she might be. Occasionally, my schedule and the provider's schedule just don't align to make a repeat date possible.
For myself, it's not about the "performance". It's about the certain emotional and intellectual connection. My guess would be that most hobbyists that repeat are seeing someone with gfe services.
Seen some fantastic ladies who are willing to heat things up even more so on my next visit, from a BBBJ to a BBBJTCIMNQNS, from FS to FS+Anal!!
When I know things are going to go from "great" to "absolutely fantastic", then i repeat.
usually thats when a woman is REALLY int oyou when she does that
