Providers who on their ads do not supply the donation.... so IF I call and ask, they tell me I am a turd for "asking sensitive information" and yet if I go without an understanding of the rate, I either bring too much or too little... neither which makes for a happy camper of me...

And ladies, ATMS dispense for the most part, $20 bills... so when you advertise a rate of 299 or 351 or 475 I know it is a way to get bumped up to the next 20 denomination which is why I like to bring the funding in quarters, dimes nickles and pennies....  but seriously, once I broght the donation in crisp clean, new $100 bills... and STILL got yelled at... long story... very long.

So ladies, as always provide 1) donation, 2) general location (ya know, state would be nice, preferably city), 3) preferred contact information - email, twitter, snail mail, FedEx, PHONE #! 4) dos and don'ts (in the language of luv, trip to Greece, stoping in France, with a quick light visit by the German police...... hummm????  5) finally, stats with a full frontal photo and one profile view (either clothed or naked, and no, you do not have to show your face)

That on topic enough for you??? is it huh!?

being very sarcastic and giving you my first thought and repeating to myself that I should not feed the trolls and maybe you are asking this question because you just can't help yourself..

So, just for fun. you will get both..
#1 some of us/msot of us Have websites.. GO DO YOUR HOMEWORK.
#2 No sarcasim here. I am sorry you are being scamed into the game of upselling but again.. you are the company you keep if you did your HOMEWORK most likely this would not be a problem
#3. preferred contact info. This is fair.. but again it is usually on the website and if her phone number is on the add It would be safe to assume you could call her. ( good luck,, never assume with a woman) I know that is unfair and for that I am sorry...
#4  What I do with Tom, and Harry may not be what I do with Dick.. sorry, It is not that simple and I am sure this is true for most?
#5.. pictures.. To each her own.. good luck.. but we are back to the DO YOUR HOMEWORK AHEAD OF TIME AND YOU WILL SAFE YOURSELF ALOT OF HASSLE, LET DOWN AND DRAMA. THERE ARE STILL NO 100% Gurantees..............

happen very rarely but are annoying. i've spoke to one lady (not in my profile) who advertised $300/hr o her personal site (which should be more under her control) and $350/hr on an ad site. so i called and asked which rate it was. she asked me the higher rate so i declined.

backchannel sources had told me that she used the difference / ambiguity in rates to charge more for clients she anticipated to be difficult.

i did my homework and i think BSD did his. some sites / ads simply are incredibly uninformative, rare, but not unheard of.

a YMMV provider who does different things with different clients (charging different basic rates) is perfectly entitled to do that. i am entitled to DNS any one chargin me more than her usual. if she needs that extra motivation to see me, it is probably going to be an unsatisfactory meeting.

and before I learned of TER (Almost a decade ago) this was more common.... however, there are ladies who kind of fit my profile and I would like to see them, but don't because some or all of the above are missin...  so IF you post all those things, that was clearly not addressed to you, it was addressed to the ladies who don't for "whatever" reason...

As to pictures, like many men, I am attracted to the "physical package" and a part of what I am paying for is the "physical package" so it needs to meet my desires if it is to be a part of MY PAID FOR fantasy.  hence the pictures... and notice, they do not have to be nude and the lady does NOT have to reveal her face....  What I like least is to walk in and see someone who has pictures that are either 10 years old, 300 lbs ago or both.... heck, I've even had a black chick show up when the lady advertised as Nordic descent! go figure.

Now, take me for example.  I just won't allow the little dissapointments of life to knock me off balance.  Go with the flow, and learn to just let these frustrations go.

I have done therapy with Zen teachers and learned to meditate thereby gaining insight into the reasons for my upsets which allows me to just dismiss them.

So as a result, I have no upsets in daily life.

Except of course if someone in front of me is driving too slowly.

And, of course, if the maniac behind me is riding on my bumper.

Then there are the little old ladies who block the aisles at the super market with their carts while standing there gaping at the bottles of laxatives.  (Just pick a fuckin' bottle grannie, they're all the fucking same!)

Then there's this twirp at the deli I have lunch at who can't get an order right if his life depended on it.  (How many fucking times have I told him the yellow mustard, not the brown?)

Oh, and if my computer freezes up for more than a half second, I'm ready to shove a gun in my mouth and pull the trigger.

Of course none of those compare to people who put the toilet paper on so it comes off the back intstead of the front.  Where where they raised anyways?  In some kind of Bizzaro universe?  (Sorry Bizzaro, no offense meant there.)

Don't get me started on the idiots who answer when you call tech support, but you all know how that works.

So, as you can see, just be like me and life will be like a day at the beach all the time.

(Though I hate how all that sand gets in my crotch.)