Read their respective ads/sites and contact them in the manner (email/text/phone/etc.) that they specify.
How did you intend to confirm an appointment with these two ladies, if you hadn't contacted them? Also, if I were traveling somewhere to meet with specific providers, I would make damn sure, before I made any travel arrangements, that they are going to be available and will see me (screening?).
I have done this on a number of occasions, and never got any blow back over it.
If you feel you must, just tell them you have to be in that town on business, and let it go at that.
If having strange guys reaching out wanting (and having) sex from them is fine by them why wouldn't having a guy coming to town especially just to see them seem creepy in any way, if anything it should be flattering that you would travel a significant distance JUST to see them.
My advice is to contact them and be SURE to tell them you are coming to town just to see them and make sure you get an appointment set in stone, even get a deposit from them if you can. (Ok, just joking about the deposit. lol) but I am not joking about being sure they know you are coming all that way just for them. Hopefully both of them will respect your time in the same way you would respect their time if they were coming to town just to see you.
is the OP, "Janet", a man or a woman?
it is Janet (it's random...it popped in my head when I joined years ago. I'm a man.
Tell both girls what your plan is, and that if it was only one of them, you would consider a FM2U date, but since there are two of them and one of you, it seems more practical for you to do the traveling, and with the money you are saving on the second airfare, you will be able to do a longer session with both of them. There is zero creep-factor in this approach.
With that said, it doesn't guarantee that something will not still go wrong. Always remember that for providers, its about maximizing their income opportunities, just like it is with any other BUSINESS. If you set this up and you have a date on Saturday with provider A, and after you have boarded the plane on Friday night, she gets a customer who wants to do the whole weekend for $5000, what do you think is likely to happen? So despite your best planning, in this biz there is always something that can go wrong at the last minute. This is why I can't see myself flying to another city JUST to see providers. I will wait until I'm in that city on business, even its going to take a year, and make my booking to coincide with my visit for business reasons. Then I usually have a few backup choices if she bails on me for any reason once I arrive.
I think the ladies should be flattered that someone would hop a plane JUST to come see them.
I do agree with everything else in your post. I HATE making a special trip, even if it's only a drive of an hour or two without BOTH a plan B if my date flakes out on me AND another reason for making the trip besides just seeing a hooker, even if that reason is that I am bored and feel like hopping a plane to go somewhere. lol
Janet? I assumed that it was a Scandinavian or Icelandic Jan Etjkapp. "Jan" pronounced "yon" = John. I think that Etjkapp is some kind of Arctic moose = "John, hung like moose."
Posted By: janetjkapp
Re: Before I make another mistake . . . .
it is Janet (it's random...it popped in my head when I joined years ago. I'm a man.
To mention that you're going to that area just to see them, well to me it is.
Why even tell them that you're going there just to meet them, is it brownie points you're after?
I dunno, I just wouldn't mention that, say you're there for business or whatever...
I appreciate your reply. That's why I posted the question. To answer your question, "is it brownie points you're after?" What i'm after is accomplishing my goal of actually meeting these young ladies. I've seen my share of providers and it's always tricky when you're not local. I agree with saying that i'm there for business but it defeats the purpose if one or all of them flake on me not knowing that I travelled specifically to meet them.
If meeting them is the sole reason for traveling there, and you’re not comfortable telling them that, then figure out another reason for the trip. Especially if you are concerned about cancellation. Pretty much anywhere I’ve been, there’s something there worth the trip, maybe not so much with COVID. I mean like restaurants, theater, concerts, museums, giant balls of string....
Book them on the day(s) you want to see them. I don't think some drawn out letter professing your love and want to see them is going to get them all giddy and have their stomachs filled with butterflies. Not to come off a-hole-ish but you're a potential dollar sign to them, nothing more. I've been down that path, did the whole reaching out thing, wasn't met with the same enthusiasm, ending up being so-so. A few years back I set up a few dates in advance in my home state via P411. Everything was laid out, when I landed I reached out to the first lady, no response, next day the second lady, same thing. I ended up calling it failed mission and hopping back on P411 and scheduling with two new ladies, one ended up being a memorable experience and the other was a good time as well. Not sure how deep in the hobby you are, just temper your expectations, these ladies get more than their fair share of emails, texts, phone calls from potential hobbyists wanting favorable dibs.
If I push your reasoning further, you should only make appointments to see those Providers that you don't want to see to avoid feeling creepy about it.
Posted By: janetjkapp
planning a trip to a city with the sole purpose of seeing two specific providers. how can i reach out to these two providers and explain that i am visiting their area specifically with the purpose of meeting them without creeping them out. is it a crime to be picky?
Just explain to them what you said here without the creepy parts. Specific days available to you; traveling (limited time to reschedule); hope to be able to schedule a meeting; etc.. If you start slobbering that could creep them out. Do not say, "Please, please, please with a cherry on top. I simply must see you!" as that might creep them out.
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Here's a question for others: I think that you should NOT say, "I am traveling and might not ever have another chance to meet you!" You might think that will make them want to meet you even more: after all, this will be THEIR only chance to meet YOU. Don't flatter yourself. They might be thinking, "This guy will never be repeating with me so I'll humor him but I won't worry if I end up canceling the meeting if a local regular reaches out."
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BTW ... are the Providers based in that city or are they touring to that city?
Is excellent advice, obviously based on your own experience. Sometimes, trial and error is the best way to learn things. Thanks for sharing a past failure as an example. Lol
and of course having respect for their requeriments to contact them, working time and rules on their ads.
it is not weird at all, specially these days that airfare isn't too costly, and hotels aren't too pricey (on some locations).
Planning a trip for a date with someone you like is self care 
in times where we dont know what would happen next.
Live and enjoy life to the fullest !!
And she seemed genuinely happy about it. I booked in advance for an outcall a day for four days straight. Hotels were cheap, I hadn’t been to the beach all year, and she was happy to accommodate the fact that I made her mouth my destination. Business had been slow for her with the pandemic and all, so I made it worth her while. It was certainly worth mine! I made four awesome vids to add to my private collection too!
Now I’m just waiting for Christie L’amour to add the DMV to her new touring schedule so I can make my next video, but I digress, hehe!
Back to the point, at least for the providers I’ve made the reason for the destination or had as part of my travel itinerary, they seem pretty happy and flattered about it. Personally, if I were in a provider’s shoes, I would take it as a compliment. Why should it be creepy when we are talking about P4P anyway?
if you call them to say you will be in town on such and such and you
would like to book for whatever their donation is probably both would see you.
Just don't mention your basement dungeon conversion and you should be fine!
Most likely you're not the first to even do that for them.
Just fyi I mean that WAY NICER than plain ol' text is probably coming off .
There are guys who drive hours and fly cross-country.
Imo you don't even have to really explain why you're coming to their city unless they ask.
They've probably heard all the reasons anyhow esp if they've been around long enough (*waves*).
Follow their screening req's and have fun.
Posted By: janetjkapp
planning a trip to a city with the sole purpose of seeing two specific providers. how can i reach out to these two providers and explain that i am visiting their area specifically with the purpose of meeting them without creeping them out. is it a crime to be picky?
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I had someone recently do this.
I was touring Philly he drove all the way from Maryland to see me.
He let me know he was traveling there for the purpose of seeing me.
I didn't find it creepy at all.
I actually felt honored that he would drive all that way to see me and I made sure he was well taken care of
Just my .02
