This is a huge subject for most men ,
I'd like to hear from my fellow men ,  
especially the ones who had it done .
- would you recommend it  ?
- pros and cons  
- would you do it again ?

and no plans to.  Never had any complaints and I'm not that big - maybe a bit bigger than average if you believe the published numbers on that.  

Very good answer

Sure, back in adolescence I thought bigger was better, but I've heard plenty of sad tales of sex the big dicks missed out on because they couldn't fit/it was painful for her/she could only take part of the dick/she could only do it slow and gentle and not for long. Nowadays I'm thankful that my thoroughly average-sized dick has not prevented me from having every kind of sex I like.  

I've definitely thought about it but was always too scared to do so. However after recently watching the cockumentary Private Dicks - one of the gentlemen in it had surgery and the results were quite impressive. I am definitely on the small side so would be nice to have BCD in the hopes I can satisfy the woman but also it would just give that extra boost of confidence knowing I'm not hung like an 8-yr old. Lastly even though I am in my late 30s I have performance issues like an 80 year old (even with all the Meds my Dr has prescribed) so I dont really care about the risks involved.

It is a huge deal breaker here and in civvie life. Drop your pants and a trunk falls out, I am out.

...you most likely already do satisfy the ladies you are with, with what you have. Incidentally, the majority of women come from direct clitoral stimulation and not just PV sex, so if you have a good mouth and tongue and can take direction and take notice of body language, you are already gold in many women's eyes.  

And do very much enjoy DATY. But I would think that most ladies would still like to enjoy actual intercourse. It's like if all a guy got was BJs, sure it would be good (though I don't enjoy them) but he would still like to have sex.

And here I thought the "subject" was a little smaller.

But a horse cock is the wrong answer accordilng to many women.

I remember having a conversation with a girlfriend once who said she loves big cock. While a decent girth is nice, huge cock holds no special attraction for me. Then she said "I think I have a big vagina". I had never heard this sentence utter ever before and never since. So, I asked her why she thought that. She replied that no one had ever told her it was tight. Since then I've wondered if size queens have loose pussies.

Wouldn't even consider it, especially at my age.  My understanding is that the technology is just not really there yet, and that most results are not good.  This procedure is much more problematic than breast augmentation - and in the early days of boob jobs, there were lots of bad results.

I've met a number of men with small cocks who are overall better lovers because their ego isn't tied up in what a great fuck they are. They hone their oral skills and hand play and take me to the moon!

I know nothing about this surgery.  But I do know to ask about possible side effects of ANY surgery, especally elective surgery.  A nicked nerve that can leave you large but with no sensation, a scar that doesn't heal to the level of your satisfaction ... ASK FIRST.

Thought that mighta been be at first glance! But I'm not that tall or weigh that much

Just a bit shy of 4 inches. It isn't very wide ether. Plus I have ED from nerve damage from a life saving necessary surgery. But I still can please my partners when they are open experimentation even when it doesn't work that well.

If a guy told me (as I tried to wrangle with a fore-arm sized cobra) that he'd had enlargement surgery, I'd think three things: 1) This a**hole knows zip zero about womens' bodies, 2) He must be REALLY superficial and/or insecure, and 3) He is a bigger tool than his tool!

until I had some nerve damage & gained weight.  
But I can still get an erection...  if I could not get an erection even with drug assistance, I'd consider an implant.  I would consider weight loss surgery.  Not not penis enlargement on a functional unit.  There are horror stories of surguries gone wrong & guys wishing they'd left well enough alone.  If it still works & you have sensation...  size does not matter much.  

With a dick too big, not so much.

I could live without screwing altogether just as long as a man loves to eat pussy.  

Amen! I totally agree!

I will tell you a secret, the most sensitive part of a ladies private is on the outside of it. That organ is the clitorus. Many woman can only orgasm though that organ is the clitorus. With proper positioning even the smallest and thinnest dick can stimulate it.  

could care less if she ever got fucked again...but oh man, oral is the bomb. A good tongue and mouth....unfriggenbelievable.

for some women.  

Haley -