I just got back from a trip off the rock and had 3 really great sessions and felt really good about the girls I chose. On the other hand there are girls who I really wanted to see but for me they just made it a little to hard for me and or how they wanted to do things made me uncomfortable.

and then I just move on wthout a second thought.
No point in obsessing over some stranger who's barriers are ouside my comfort zone, when there are thousands of hot strangers who operate well within it.

Wouldn't those be the barriers that keep you or some other gentleman from seeing a lady.  

best answer so far.

I too run into this same shit all the time, but like you I don't really give it a second thought. I simply move on to the next woman on my list (and my list is a long one) without stewing over the ones that make me lose interest in them with their ridiculous demands.

Why do so many guys feel the need to bitch, moan and groan about the hoops that "some" hookers want them to jump through, when like you said "there are thousands of hot strangers who operate well within your comfort zone"??? If every hooker out there had the same demands and I was having trouble getting laid because of it, THEN I could understand all the bitching and whining, but when there are so many hookers available that are not BSC or overly demanding, I just can't work up the energy to be mad at the ones who are unreasonable.

Call me bitchy,whiny whatever just sayin. I am not mad at any girl who does things as they deem fit, it just makes it hard for me to see them if they interest me.

and that's her business.  If she wants the gift left in a hermetically sealed bag with all fingerprints removed left in a drop box hidden behind some shrubs near mile marker 69 -  fine.  If she wants $1 million per hour - fine.  If she insists all body hair be plucked before arriving for a date - fine.

Typical standard in real life is a girl won't have sex with you until after you have taken her out (to dinner) at least three times.

but I have no problem if they want to meet up for dinner or drinks to scope me out to see if we will mesh before committing to a session.

Your handle fits you just fine as you bang your head against the wall.

I was talking to Jstgttnstrtd, and giving him a compliment as he has been giving advice for months like a seasoned vet and not like someone who is "just getting started" You could actually learn a lot from this "newb" as seems to have grasped this little hobby of ours in record time.

and for someone who isn't mad about the way some women see fit to run their business, you do seem to spend a lot of time bitching about it, as do a lot of other guys here on the boards. Don't get me wrong, I agree that it's a lousy way for them to run a business, and it undoubtedly costs them business, but it's just like the bitchy whiny hooker that comes on here bitching about guys who don't wash their ass, it doesn't do a bit of good to do so here. The ones that you have the issues with will never read one of these posts and think to themselves "OH shit, he is talking about the way I run MY business, maybe I should change my ways?" lmao

Oh, and I am quite chill, I got laid well before I ever logged onto TER this morning, so MY mood is just fine TYVM. Remember, it's you bitching on the boards today, not me. lol

laid today (sigh)! And thank god I do not have to change my handle it was hard enough for me to come up with this one lol.

I know everything, didn't you get the memo? lmao

In all seriousness though, I DO agree with your "bitch" but feel obligated to agree with "the newb" about how pointless it is to whine about it on the boards.

Honestly, do you really think that any provider is going to see herself in your post and vow to do better? That's about as likely as some dumbfuck who's mother never taught him how to wash his nasty ass is going to read a rant by some pissed off hooker going off about guys with hygiene issues and realize it's him she is talking about and then resolve to do better?

I do hope it made you feel a little better to get it off your chest though.

You couldn't even get laid on the first pfp date with a lady.

That's pretty much my standard reply to him

You say don't pay a deposit up frontto which I can agree with you on. However in the you felt the need to direct me to YD. You baisicly payed a deposit in person.

always busy with appointments all day so yo might be taking business from them.

that's the only reason everyone's being so nice to you. lol I started with jstkpnmyhddwn.

Lots of Land Tuna around, so why even inquire about the gals you refer to?  I don't.

I frequently have dinner and/or drinks with gals but I never, ever pay for it.  Those of  you who know me know my creed is, "I will happily pay you for sex.  But I will not pay to watch you eat or watch you sleep." Since I don't do overnights, the latter point is moot.  As to the former, I have no trouble finding gals who, after we've played, are happy to join me for dinner -- which I am happy to pay for.  And I always take them someplace nice.  Actually, I've had a couple of meals with gals they insisted on paying for, because I'd been very generous with them earlier

And you know the answer to the question, why is divorce so expensive?
A. Because it's worth it.
I speak from experience.  Twice.  
Never again.

He could just be profoundly retarded

You are now almost completely incoherent.  Are you're not only retarded but drunk at the same time?

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I should've been a little more clear.  If a provider wants to meet a new client for dinner as part of her *screening* process, I have no problem in buying her dinner.  But that dinner would have to be off the clock, or no deal.  

Yups… doesn't change a thing. I'm typically rez to go after screening. If I feel so sketchy I want to meet in a public place… doesn't happen and IIIIIIII move on. If we share a meal or drinks it's because I enjoyed your company already in private. IME given the opportunity men will say or do something to fuck it up, best to stick to screening, make his head spin and pat him on the ass on the way out.

It's the fucked up way you put them together into sentences that makes them impossible to understand at times.

can barely speak English! ;o) - Might take 1/2 an hour to figure out she was just trying to say hello! ("sorry, excuse me, I didn't understand, 'haroo'? 'habo'? Oh...., I got it...)

I'm just seeing this because…short bussssss. But funny you mention it…I actually do pretend my English isn't up to par quite often. Strange thing is it only turns me on more???? WTF? No Goodbye or goodluck, just chow lover… Whatever makes us moist I suppose...