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Providers- best lube?
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I had sex with a civvy girl last night using a condom and it wasn't as good as being with a provider, because neither of us had lube! The condom dried out. Providers more often than not use a lube on me, then the condom goes over the top. I never honestly thought of it before, but when there is lube on me, then a condom over the top, it feels moist and warm against my skin even though I have the condom on. I guess I just got used to that and when I was with someone and neither of us were prepared like my P4P girls are, the sex was awful with the condom on.    

What is the best lube to use? I see so many different kinds available, like oil based, water based, and I don't know what to buy for myself...I thought I would ask. Any suggestions? I'm looking for something that would be for me, under the condom, more than for her. I know some girls are weird about lubes so what ever you think would work best the way I am using it.  

Thanks!

I can't answer your basic Qs but I must point out a safety factor.  

Never use a petroleum based lube (mineral oil, vaseline, ... read the labels) with latex condoms. The lube will weaken and dissolve the latex leading to problems mid-thrust. Always use water based lubes (KY, Astroglide) with latex.  

There are many other options besides latex these days, so read the labels to know what you are using and follow the recommendations on the package. The condom package, not your package.

Posted By: surlyboy
I had sex with a civvy girl last night using a condom and it wasn't as good as being with a provider, because neither of us had lube! The condom dried out. Providers more often than not use a lube on me, then the condom goes over the top. I never honestly thought of it before, but when there is lube on me, then a condom over the top, it feels moist and warm against my skin even though I have the condom on. I guess I just got used to that and when I was with someone and neither of us were prepared like my P4P girls are, the sex was awful with the condom on.    
   
 What is the best lube to use? I see so many different kinds available, like oil based, water based, and I don't know what to buy for myself...I thought I would ask. Any suggestions? I'm looking for something that would be for me, under the condom, more than for her. I know some girls are weird about lubes so what ever you think would work best the way I am using it.  
   
 Thanks!  

my ATF turned me on to this and we're going strong 10 months later. It has an amazing scent that really is wonderful with pussy.

No problems with latex as we use it on my cock pre-cover and on her pussy pre-entry. Perfect viscosity for lube as it serves its purpose but isn't too slippery.  

Turned several other gals on to it and they love it too. At CVS and frequently 2 for 1.  

Great medicinal value for cuts, burns and scars too. I knew that forever but never thought of its carnal value. But who gives a shit about that on a fuck board.

 Thanks babe

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I am reading that any Oil based lube is a no no with latex like impposter said. Are you sure its safe with latex? I am also reading that women can get smelly after using oils as they can get rancid? Best I can tell is using a water based lube for latex and with out glycerine as it can cause yeast infections in women. I also read that silicone is good with latex, but can irritate some women, will react with silicone toys (not an issue for me, I dont use any) and is hard to clean out of sheets and clothing. Liquid Silk is the best option I am seeing so far?



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but rancid is not an issue. I also use the oil on my cock as a preventive treatment for irritation ( in hand jobs, some self-inflicted)  

Also, you'll never smell a sweeter pussy. And my lady has been using it for years and she's very health conscious ... just my two cents and HO.  

Let's just say I have no interest in changing and leave it at that ...

What are the characteristics that you like with the vitamin E oil and also is the interaction compatible with her harmonal biology?  Those are the characteristics that you tend to identify with and be observant of as you begin to progress in various stages of your copulatory activity.

I'll play nice ... she turned me on to the E-oil. I think I mentioned that.  
I like everything about it ... her pussy smells and tastes like ambrosia ... if you've had ambrosia, you know what I mean  

It works for us and we fuck a lot. Hope that helps.

North but when you bust that Nut you always say" Reunited and it feels so good". I am sure she will verify that/

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It tastes great and is not filling.

 
Thank You
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hobby bag in the trunk of my car, which includes everything I might need during or after a session, including lube, condoms, disposable razor, small bar of soap from a hotel, sample size toiletries, comb, toothbrush, mouthwash, etc.  I found this also comes in handy on civvie dates that end up going well where you unexpectedly find yourselves between the sheets.  I also keep a new toothbrush kit for a girl to use in case I find myself in a spontaneous situation that SHE was not prepared for either. All have been very appreciative that we didn't have to stop at a store before going to a hotel.    

Adopting this would prevent the kind of situation you just had.  Many of my hobby friends do the same.

...olive oil, the slippery-est & best tasting oil that I know of & I have not noticed any deterioration of latex condoms, & it's rumored to be good for the hart.

...lol...that is exactly what I was going to say!  
The Oooey Gooey kind ;)

as my almond oil reacted to her skin for some reason.

It worked fine.

Good stocking stuffer for a 2nd Amendment type

They don't dry out the way water based lines do, and most of the new ones on the market are formulated not to damage toys.  

Also, a little on the pricy side but my all time favorite is a new lube on the market called Uber lube, and it's incredible. It's neither water or silicone based, but some new formulation they won't disclose.

Thanks for all the advise! I think Im going to try that Uber lube, since I can get a small bottle on amazon to try for $18.  

Posted By: elainaamhurst
They don't dry out the way water based lines do, and most of the new ones on the market are formulated not to damage toys.  
   
 Also, a little on the pricy side but my all time favorite is a new lube on the market called Uber lube, and it's incredible. It's neither water or silicone based, but some new formulation they won't disclose.

New info on their website: it's silicone based.

http://www.uberlube.com/ask-uberlube/

Posted By: elainaamhurst
They don't dry out the way water based lines do, and most of the new ones on the market are formulated not to damage toys.  
   
 Also, a little on the pricy side but my all time favorite is a new lube on the market called Uber lube, and it's incredible. It's neither water or silicone based, but some new formulation they won't disclose.

...they never forget you :)

I only use silicone lubes, they're safe with condoms but will ruin sex toys (so I use water-based with those lol). My favorite silicone lube is WET Platinum. Stays nice and wet forever! Literally until you wash it off lol

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