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Sick via people
lester_prairie 12 Reviews 102 reads
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We see a lot of people every day, spouses, girl and boyfriends, children, parents, coworkers, the general public, shop workers, schoolmates. We catch things from them. That's life.

Last week I saw my ATF and I was super healthy.  A day after our meeting, I was feeling sick and it turned out to be mono. I wasn't around anyone else unmasked or intimate with so it could have been her.

Has anyone experienced this and what did you do?

I got sick from an ATF the week before Thanksgiving.  Lucky for me it was not COVID.  She fessed up that she was a bit under the weather at the time of our visit.

Nothing serious happened so I did not belabor the point.  She has made it up during our visits.

It happens given the interment contact between two people. Part of the package if you are going to play.

Steve_Trevor94 reads

the incubation period for mono is about 4-6 weeks. Thus it’s unlikely you got it from the provider you saw the day before you felt sick. It’s more likely you got it from someone else… and you exposed this provider to mono.  

 
So you need to let this provider know you have mono (and didn’t know it when you saw her) so she can get checked.  She may not see symptoms for a few weeks, but if she got it from you she could unknowingly pass it on to others even when she’s asymptomatic.  

Thanks- I will look into that although, she is the only person I have been with for the last 6 months,

There is simply no way you could have gotten Mono from your escort that presented itself in only one day.

Steve_Trevor98 reads

But if you’ve been seeing this provider for several weeks at least, then it’s possible you got mono from her awhile ago.  You should still tell her you have mono—just don’t presume you got it from her.  

Steve is right about the 4-6 weeks. Also, she may have been exposed but isn't and wont get sick if she had been previously exposed to the Epstein-Barr virus (the main cause of mono) and has antibodies. Most adults have, and I would think anyone who is engaged in regular DFK with multiple partners is more likely than the general population to have been exposed. I am surprised that you hadn't been exposed already. It is spread by saliva, but that means it can be spread in other ways usch as sharing utensils or glasses.

Then I decided it was better to die with a smile on my face than be celibate.

From a stripper in Phily once and another time from an agency girl.. i let the agency know.. they could care less

I got sick from strep throat. Was 100% sure that it was COVID. Turned out it wasn't.  Only intimate contact was SB I was seeing at the time. I saw her exclusively for 10 months.. Longest I've been with the same woman.  Our kissing sessions were like wild animals..  

 
What did I do? Nothing.. Took medication and laid low for 2-3 weeks.. Told her that she gave me strep.. She said Bullshit.. I have no symptoms.. Truth is sometimes people are asymptomatic. This was back in really dark days of COVID. So I was like 100% careful with everything (except this) so it was easy to figure out how I got it.

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Back in 2017, I got Pink Eye in my left eye from a kgirl; I know it was her because I hadn't any physical contact with anyone other than my cats for a few days.

 

The next morning I went to Kaiser to get medicine.  The kgirl was off the work roster that day.

 
The Pink Eye in the left eye went away in 5 days but dumb ass me infected the right eye.  I missed 10 days work.

 
My one hour girlfriend hasn't been seen since.  I'd be totally game for another session with her.

 
Whoo hoo

 
YEMV

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You can get pink eye from yourself and / or your cats

I've never gotten sick from a provider, but it's one of the risks we all take.  All we can do is hope that both the providers and clients have enough common sense not to book sessions when they are knowingly ill and can potentially pass their bugs on to whoever they come into intimate contact with.  Although, the biggest risk is when someone is asymptomatic, but there's not much anyone can do in those situations.  

We see a lot of people every day, spouses, girl and boyfriends, children, parents, coworkers, the general public, shop workers, schoolmates. We catch things from them. That's life.

illnesses being any more of a nuisance from providers than from the population in general.  When it comes to providers, my only concerns are STI's, which you can't get standing in line next to someone you don't know at the supermarket.

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Black Friday 2020 I saw one of my ATF’s 1B.  On the following Monday I started to feel achy and sick, went and got a Covid test and it was positive. By Tuesday I had 102 temperature and was in full blown Covid misery.  Had five really tough days and almost brought myself to the hospital on day four of the five day stretch.  Stuck it out and started feeling better in two days later.

After my positive Covid test, I immediately contacted the agency to let them know they should have this provider tested.

They responded really fast, and said that provider is just fine.  After that email she did not post for over three weeks.  When she did start posting again, I set up a session went to see her and she denied ever having Covid.

She is a really sweet young lady, and a terrible liar.  I just let it slide and had a great session.

Several providers in that agency also disappeared during the month of December. The girls worked out of several apartments with 2 to 5 providers at each location.

That appointment on Black Friday was the only time I let my guard down in a long time.  It was the only place I could’ve caught Covid.

I was actually Strep. Lab was wrong about mono Feel better now

I resumed hobbying in July 2020, which was still during Phase 4.  Needless to say, neither me nor the lady wore masks during the session. I was totally fine afterwards, no symptoms at all. I live alone and answer to no one. But if I were to live with a ball-and-chain, I'd blame it on a careless store worker.  In my area, once you go past a specific expressway from the downtown, it's like 2019: *nobody* wears masks or social-distances.

Conversely, when I met up with friends for dinner that night, everyone acted deferential toward me.  That is, they hung on to every word I said, and went along with my suggestions, like where to go for an after-dinner drink.  I had "the scent"! :D

We are being intimate so there are times we are going to give each other a cold is not so surprising.

I find it odd that you even felt the need to create this post. Of course there is a risk of exchanging pathogens anytime you have close contact with another human being. While we are all (I hope) doing our best to limit spreading them from person to person it is an inevitable.  

I will tell you exactly what I tell others when they are having anxiety about such things. I recommend you educate yourself about the potential risks of any activity you are interested in and then take appropriate steps to safeguard *yourself* according to your own level of comfort according to the risks involved. Before engaging in intimate contact it is appropriate to discus the safety measures you would like to implement during that encounter. However, in this context it is not appropriate to ask for sexual/medical history because that implies a level of honesty and trust exists that is not appropriate for the kind of encounters we regularly engage in. Everybody lies. Especially if they need you to book them in order to get their basic needs met.

Unless you’re inhuman, it is virtually impossible not to get something at some point from a provider. ..and vice versa.  

I would even speculate that providers/hobbyist who have been doing this for long durations have superior immune systems than those limited to a single partner.

I agree. My ex was a nurse and said nurses are either sick all the time (rare) or have great immune systems. If a provider was sick a lot she could be out of business.  

It's good for immunity to be exposed to a lot of things.. I never stopped seeing ladies when Covid hit and kept up a good pace. Some ladies I wanted to see had stopped working but enough didn't so I was pretty busy.

Yes I got covid from a provider this year, I managed to dodge it since the outbreak, but, as soon as I recovered I went back for more.

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