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Sick or unable to perform?
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1813 reads
posted
1 / 23

Good appointment, but not nearly what you opted for or what she advertised...

Would you take money back for the appointment? If they were sick, unable to perform, etc?

Sure you wouldn't see her again, but if it happened to you, what would you do, have you done, if she did offer a refund/partial refund?

Though it's for time, it's about you, not us.

lungman 10 Reviews 533 reads
posted
2 / 23

That should of been brought to my attention before I got there!!
Yes, I would pick up the envelope and leave if NO services were performed.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 490 reads
posted
3 / 23

...and the guy didn't want to leave?

just wondering bc I don't know what to tell her

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 453 reads
posted
4 / 23

They do the deed, but not exactly what the guy had planned for. If a gal is sick as in throwing up and can't do a thing, the guy should get a refund minus the cost of the room (if she paid for one) and she will have to book next go round with that same fee if he decides to book again. I've never been sick during a date to the point where I could not perform, so don't know what to say. I would think most guys are sympathetic, but no, I don't think they owe her for that date.

lungman 10 Reviews 337 reads
posted
6 / 23
oldted 16 Reviews 295 reads
posted
7 / 23

Posted By: Courtney.ova
Good appointment, but not nearly what you opted for or what she advertised...  
   
 Would you take money back for the appointment? If they were sick, unable to perform, etc?  
   
 Sure you wouldn't see her again, but if it happened to you, what would you do, have you done, if she did offer a refund/partial refund?  
   
 Though it's for time, it's about you, not us.

FIDCUOF 512 reads
posted
8 / 23

and opt NOT to write a review.

ArthurDent 32 Reviews 313 reads
posted
9 / 23

...so maybe the client and provider could work out an alternative.  Assuming a legitimate illness or inability to perform.  I also assume she had extenuating circumstances.  Shit/life happens...

inicky46 61 Reviews 370 reads
posted
10 / 23

I had a session where it was the gal's first of the day and she'd forgotten her condoms.  She was smart enough to offer me oral only and at our next session see me for 90 mins. at her 60-min. rate. Worked for me.  Most good providers will know how to do the right thing.

Look2Me 15 Reviews 343 reads
posted
11 / 23

could happen to anyone. You pay for the portion of the date that happened, and whatever expenses were incurred IMO. For someone I know well and like, I'd have no problem paying for the whole session and maybe even springing for some chicken soup or providing some pempering/TLC. It's NOT a problem worthy of not seeing someone you like again.  

I think a good appointment is a good appointment and full compensation is due. Sometimes people aren't what we imagined them to be.. I see that as more a client issue than a provider issue. OTOH, egregious false advertising might provoke me to simply leave before an appointment actually begins and I will certainly not call again in either case.

russbbj 89 Reviews 304 reads
posted
12 / 23

The lady is a top rated provider, and for good reason I'll admit. The date started perfectly and a cup was served exactly how I anticipated. Unfortunately, as we were walking down her very polished wooden steps to her love den, I still in my socks and nothing else slipped and fell down some of the steps on my back and spilled my red wine all over her walls and steps. I felt terrible and as I was helping clean up the mess she noticed my back. I was hurt, not terribly, but enough that I couldn't get going again. It was a 2 hour appointment and we were less than 1/2  hour into it. We still spent the 2 hours together but no more action. Since the slip was entirely my fault I just spent the remainder of the time talking and admiring her awesome body. She insisted I take 2/3 of the donation back, because in her words I was ready and engaged to have some fun with her prior to the slip and she was going to make me have 3 cups. Even though I protested (the slip was my fault after all), she insisted telling me that she'd get it back in a future date. I haven't made it back to her city yet, but I can assure you she's right. She asked me to not write a review and of course I complied. I wish I could tell you who this was because it speaks volumes as to the person that she is,  but a promise is a promise.

To answer the OP directly, no I've never asked for a refund I just would never see a provider again that didn't meet the expectations based upon her reviews

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 302 reads
posted
13 / 23

To let people know that you are unless, you got sick 6o seconds before the appointment.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 375 reads
posted
14 / 23

They are sick is unrealistic. It only happens on TV and movies, not in the real world. Lying about being sick is like dog eating your homework. Doesn't wash.

Any other questions?

seduceurwife 325 reads
posted
15 / 23

I had one provider one time who didn't tell me that she was sick.  It was only a bad head cold.  But it caused 2 problems.  #1 she wasn't into it at all because it was obvious that she was sick.  #2 It put a huge damper on things for me because I think kissing is essential to a great encounter and I had no desire to kiss her while she was sick.  It was the most mechanical appointment of my life.  I still paid her, but let her know and her agency know about it.  The agency had been good to me in the past.

I have never encountered a girl being on the rag during our appt, but I would be pissed if it happened would not pay her.  Covered or not...blood floating around makes it way too risky in my book.  I realize that puts a lady on the sidelines for a few days.  But that shouldn't be my problem.  If she wants to offer some playtime that includes just kissing and BBBJ at a lesser rate,that is a good option, but I want to know about it before I get there.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 400 reads
posted
16 / 23

an hour into the appointment

Posted By: anonymousfun
To let people know that you are unless, you got sick 6o seconds before the appointment.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 401 reads
posted
17 / 23

and each case is individual and has to be decided on its merits.

In one case I came over and the gal was so upset about some personal episode in her life that she just couldn't go through with it. I stayed and tried to calm her down with some talk for about ten or fifteen minutes but it was clear she was just too distraught.  I had seen her many, many times; in fact I still see her.   I left without paying anything and she was fine with that.

In another case I opted to see a post-op TS, but I realized about 10 minutes into the routine that this was not for me.  I left leaving her the full donation, though she tried to give back most of it to me.

Yet another case with a gal I knew very well:  She was not feeling well and told me so at the start, but felt she could soldier on.  We got one pop into a two hour session and then she could not carry on.  She offered half the donation back but I let her keep it.  She more than made up for it in subsequent sessions we have had.

Yet another case that is weirder than the foregoing:  A gal cut short a session because she was not feeling well, and we made plans to finish it the next day.  She then called me at home very early next morning while I was still asleep (~6 AM) to say she still didn't feel well and suggested that she mail me half the donation back.  I agreed and went back to sleep for a few minutes until she called again to berate me for accepting her proposal. (I was groggy and obviously what she expected me to say was:  "That's OK honey, you go ahead and keep the money.")  She then contacted me a few days later apologetic, saying it was not her but the pain speaking.  We continue to see each other and she is very liberal about the amount of time we can spend together.

89Springer 334 reads
posted
18 / 23

If she's a real professional, she should run her business as pro's in other fields do. If she's feeling well enough to work, then she should do the job 100%. If she can't do that, she should let the client know and try to reschedule.

If a provider asked me to reschedule because she was sick, and the rescheduled session went well, I'd return. If she didn't reschedule and gave a lackluster performance, I wouldn't call her again.

ArthurDent 32 Reviews 270 reads
posted
19 / 23

I agree with mrfisher that situations are shades of grey and not black and white.  I support the view that it all depends on the circumstances of the appointment and the effort of both parties to come to resolution.  Well written, sir...

harborview 10 Reviews 251 reads
posted
20 / 23

I had booked with a FBSM provider...  who had a horrible head cold.  She was excusing herself to blow her nose, then wash up before returning to me.  I couldn't see into her bathroom but it was only steps away & I could hear everything.  My one hour was nearly 2 by the time we were done with the HE.  

I've had appointments where the lady was very upset...  in one case taking a call on her personal phone from her sister...  proceeded to argue (sis neglected to pay the landlord after taking over her lease so landlord was after her to pay)...   We'd barely gotten naked & I headed to the bathroom to give her some privacy & I needed to pee (and thinking if I could bale).  She demanded loudly "Where are you going!" So I lied & said I wasn't going to leave.  Well, it took an hour to calm her down enough to get a basic mechanical session...  but clearly her mind was elsewhere.  I hadn't left the donation but I really didn't get what I expected.  I still see her when I'm in her city.  (She doesn't qualify for TER  reviews.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 368 reads
posted
21 / 23

Panic attacks? Come out of nowhere, no?

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 335 reads
posted
22 / 23

provider. Way too dangerous. She may bite your dick off and your in deep shit trouble. But, they can be spotted easily.

Let us be realistic here.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 349 reads
posted
23 / 23

No question of hour into the hour. I think, most people do the same hence I don’t do any 2 hr minimum. Personally, having little bit of attraction to each other is important. It is also leap of faith to book someone for longer time based on their photo’s and review because both are not all that trust worthy.

I have booked multiple hours with providers I have seen and have a mutual attraction.

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