This is for the ladies...

Guilty confession

Once I booked a date for two hours. Deposited the money as instructed on her bathroom counter in her bathroom in the appropriate amount for a two hour date. Had a great time.  

But I am very good friends with a provider and the stories I have heardof being shorted or begging for a discount is sickening

Sometimes things can get informal and...

And you don't consider that getting cheated  LOL

I have zero sympathy for a girl that bitches about getting shorted when she choose not to collect upfront. If that is her policy not to look at the money until after the john leaves, so be it. Just own your policy and don't BMW about it.  

Shorting them by any amount regardless of what you were doing is deeply insulting. You didn't buy her vagina. You rented time. If you returned a rental truck past the return time/date, you'd expect to have to compensate for that time and possibly pay a penalty fine. Or, if you didn't pay for what you DID use, you would be blacklisted with their company and no longer able to rent from them until the bill had been paid. she should not have to chase you down to force you to hold up your end of the bargain that you deliberately misled her about. In the rare occasion that there was legitimate problem, you have 24-48 hours to repair the issue before I begin implementing repercussions.

If you feel the amount he gave you was fair, then that is one thing.... but the two of you should have AGREED to that amount; he should not have just gone ahead and given you less based upon activity.  

I have resources to make sure that you never get shorted again.

Sitting with a reg OTC and he tells me about another girl he saw last minute the week before. Included info about her flaws and issues and overall lack of capatibily, but no you are better, he says , BUT she charges $50 less... OK cool. Her business not mine. He wanted me to change my rate for him. His test was our last meeting. He felt OK with50/less donation. And I will be OK with not seeing him again. He valued his wallet more and that is all I needed to know. Everything else is irrelevant. No sense in having my time wasted and be short on top of it.

Billable hours in any other profession, the percentage is miniscule.

Ok what is I was stupid enough to pay a provider head of time for a session? But she never show up for it we tried three different time and no show on her part. I just gave up trying to get her to show up.  Wrote it off as a bad experience on my part and never trust a girl again. How can I black list her so she don't do this to another guy? Pay I as I go you show I will have the right amount for you until then I will not pay ahead of time.

But if you have embarrassing foot fungus that is still on the plate.

I've never heard of that before but it's extremely wise.

just make sure on the next date you use the ALARM feature on your smart phone to set the appropriate reminder.

I can only see a particular paid companion once every two months on the clock. I can only have one paid date a week but with as many ladies as I wish. A paid date can be no longer than two hours. Exceptions can and have happened with prior appoval. Shared dates with the wife don't count.

Hey if you can afford the luxury of running your business based on pride then congratulation you must be doing fantastic!

But wise advice.

If someone does not respect her enough to give her the full donation rather than shorting her $50, why should she see him again

You got that right I wont do that again ever. But texted me saying that she needed money right away and promise me that she would put towards our next session. Well it never happen, that is what I get for trusting a girl.

The only problem with black listing a provider is that she can change her name and phone number once she finds out that she been told on. Then it does no good for future guys meeting with her. What can a guy do, live learn and move on and try not to make the same mistake twice.

He tried to negotiate her down, she said no and was willing to dispense with him. She felt her service were worth what she asked. He did not...parting of the ways.  

when the hooker goes off to count the money.  

Historically, regulars are the only ones who have ever given me problems with mon$y. Never new clients. Regulars either get way too familiar, or take us for granted, or don't respect that time=energy=money, or just know they can get away with it. Or, some combination of the above.

...less time for anything but the activities.  

...I wouldn't care if she counted it in front of me.

If I ever pick saving $50 over excellence I hope someone takes my 45 and shoots me in the damn head. Are you serious $50 dollars? That fucking idiot needs to find himself another hobby, like kite flying or something.  

Okay so I'm still fairly new to this whole game. Feeling a bit worried reading all the comments. There is a particular provider that I see regularly (once every week if possible). After seeing her a half dozen times I inquired if she ever offered a preferred rate for regulars. I reminded her that I was fairly new and didn't know the customs and the answer may simply be no which I was okay with. She replied giving me a special rate and assured me I could feel free to ask her anything. Shortly after she put up an advertisement offering special rates for repeat guests. We both seem to truly enjoy our time together and I always show up with a small gift of sort which she seems very appreciative about. We even have planned a 5 night getaway for next month. The truth is if I offered her what I feel she is worth I'd have to stop seeing her or go broke. Am I worrying for no reason or should I discuss this concern next time?

You are more than welcome to leave when you're done. I've never heard of a provider that bitches when her date leaves early, as long as he's paid the rate he requested.

when at at incall, I drop the envelope and hit the shower, it gives her time to ensure my envelope is correct and gives her piece of mind that I'm fresh.

This makes me feel like a model client, my envelope is always correct for the date I've requested, and I'm the clock watcher, if any one is.

Good chemo + Good rates = Precious. Protect that shit. Pay up, don't fall in love (repeat: don't fall in love), and let the good times roll for months/years. Rare thing that is. Worth keeping.

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Thanks so much and you are right, pride and self esteem are what I do have... Unlike what most think, I never got into the hobby for poor finances or need of money, but the extra cash for sucking dick comes in handy for my leisure and recreational life...  

Has it happened? Of course...I think it has happened to EVERY provider at one time or another. The gent who claims he thought the rate was "xy", when it's really "xyz", or someone you've seen before at a special rate, coming to see you 6 months later, and trying to pay you that same rate (knowing it was a special at the time...but they'll try). The solution? ALWAYS get paid up front, no exceptions (except for certain long-time regulars). In the past before I knew better, if I was shorted, once you point it out, 90% of the time, the gent pays you what they were short right there on the spot. A couple did not have the amount they owed, and hence, they were not allowed to book with me again unless the next time they booked, the amount they owed, plus the amount for the next session, was paid at the beginning of the next appt....and everyone except for 2-3 people followed through.  

You are free to leave at any time. There are ladies that prefer short visits and offer half hour apointments. I like the chit chat with the ladies and book enough time to do so. I like talking to interesting people. It isn't rare for me to be found breaking bread with a begged off the street. I like learning about people. That is me. But not everyone does, hobby your way. As long as your cash is good, you are clean and respectful there is a lady that is into the kind of sessions you perfer. My wife for example loves the cumulative and goes she sees.

How long has that been in place?  Has it evolved or stayed the same?  I'm so curious, I've really never heard of anything like that.

Much of it my idea. We both see professionals and we'll I was worried I couldn't compete with the pros. I was the hesitant party. I wasn't worried about her clients as she doesn't choose them, but the pros she does. I now realize I have nothing to worry about but the rules work for us, why change them?


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Many thanks! Good advice... much appreciated

I can testify from many years of doing this that if you follow that advice, 90% of the time you will be rewarded with long term exceptional service

BTW as you know, I am VERY well qualified to talk about drunks. lol

Good for you. Don't know how you put up with it for that long. Again SOME MONEY IS NOT WORTH the hassle and the feeling of wanting to strangle them in their sleep...lol

There has to be an actual session to be able to write a review about it. TER's rules are simple although flawed, No session = No review.

be sure to out the lying cheating bitch by name, none of this cowardly "PM me for details" and THEN be sure to remind your local community whenever her name comes up in conversation.

I like to keep my sanity in tact! I like people, so I can look past a lot and also realize their flaws and vulnerabilities... And find some acceptance. I got how he was wired when I first saw him. It was discovering the extra shit and him feeling justified in giving me less than I asked because of what he felt my time was worth. Ultimately I told him that was his decision to make, not mine, but I would not entertain him at the level I provide for less... It was comical to him that I said I provide quality companionship. Now he can figure out the difference. LOL!

There is a contingent of crybabies who need the money portion hidden or they feel like they are paying for sex...hang on they ARE PAYING FOR SEX. This is a pay up front deal (so the hooker can count the money) and if some sappy john can't deal with that, go to Joanne Fabrics and start quilting.

Tells me plenty about her.  Some just are more paranoid than others.

A hundred fell under the bed while I was counting out the money and I didn't notice. I was mortified when she called and said the envelope was light because I knew I had just counted the money out before the session AND I didn't want her to think I did it on purpose. (I can be an ass, but I'm not that kind of ass.)

and I have seen it happen MANY times first hand in countries where prostitution is legal. Cheating a hooker in those countries is just like walking out on your bar bill or restaurant tab, the woman has every right to call the police and file a complaint

...saying they think it ruins the mood.  

Being on this board and all I can't help but admit I'm indeed a trick... though I wasn't aware of the difference between a true trick and a false trick! or for that matter what a true trick is supposed to say...

Yea..in other countries....not here in the U.S. unfortunately (except at the brothels in NV). There were actually 2 cases here in Madison, WI about 1.5 years back where once the guy called the police, saying he had been ripped off & once the lady doing it....end result was they were both charged with soliciting a prostitute & not sure what the lady was charged with.