So someone just took a jab at me on another post I made and I was curious as to what are some possible reasons you would allow a guy to go overtime. I mentioned how I see this utr girl and she sometimes gives me extra time even when I tell her time is up. And not just extra time hanging out,i mean extra time doing the deed because she wasn't finished.is this such an odd concept that people can be so glib about it, like it never happens?i am shocked more then anyone when I am allowed to go over time, and the thing is this girl knows I only bring her rate, nothing extra and she has never asked and it has happened a few times.feel free to post with an alias as I am sure you don't want a bunch of guys seeing you EXPECTING extra time. Would you ever go extra time knowing there isn't anything extra in it for you?
It happens! So what's the big deal? Ladies don't have to have a reason and if you are thinking that she thought you were the stud to get her off this night, lucky you. As for the "extras" you are getting, show some gratitude and put something extra in the envelope or you might find her looking for the next big thing.
Maybe people take jabs at you because you simply say stupid shit. Ever think of that? No...of course you haven't.
So you got extra time. Wow. Alert the media. Happens every day, and to some it will never happen.
What is the mental malfunction you have that won't allow you to just enjoy it, STFU about it, and let it go?
Now you want an entire post about it, and for ladies to chime in? You're just another guy who has this compulsion for getting into their head and wanting to know what makes them tick.
They're WOMEN. We'll NEVER know what makes them tick...even if they attempt to tell us.
Just be happy you're getting the extra time you are. Apparently you've found a lady with zero douche detection skills.
Not obsessed, but when something out of the ordinary happens(i have gotten extra time before as a lot have as well,just shooting the shit, just never extra play time),i get curious and my inquisitive nature kicks in.nothing more, nothing less. Just a pondering.i don't get what the big deal is and why people come back with insults and lectures. ITS JUST A FUCKING QUESTION for crying out loud. But I know the saying, opinions like assholes, you know the rest. Thank you madison for responding.
And fyi, yes,i am well aware that a woman can tell me exactly what she is thinking/feeling and I would still not have a clue.i think all men are in agreement on this.
The answer is of course I will spend extra time with a gent if I am enjoying his company.
My question for you is why do you feel it is okay to go over your agreed time? If you want to spend extra time why not pay the lady?
I have had one guy take advantage of my kindness. The first time I let him stay way over (his one hour agreed time). The second time he expected it. He complained when I started getting dressed after a hour and half.
Madison
And she wants him to stay it is on her. If he asks her to stay past her allotted time he should pay. If neither of them point out it is time it is a grey area and misunderstanding can arise. He was willing to get dressed and leave and she knew he had no extra money to pay her, so he owes her nothing as it is her idea.
A simple fact, I am the one who always points out it is time for me to go.sometimes it wil be one hour on the dot, sometimes maybe 50 minutes, and sometimes over. I never expect it.Again, it is not me who is looking for extra time,i am the one who is saying times up cause I don't like to over stay my welcome, hence the reason I only bring what is expected of me. My question to you would be,even if you knew you weren't getting anything extra what would make you keep allowing certain people to Spend a little more time with you?or is that first time you don't get extra an insult and you are done with that client, be it with over time possibilities or just all together?Is it because you are always expecting to be paid, even if it is your decision to go over when the gent has told you his time was up? Nothing wrong with it of course, as you are Running a business, and yes I know I Will get the you cheap bastard remarks, but think of it from a guys perspective: I gave what was asked,i was kind and polite,i told you my time was up, you still wanna do stuff, and you still give extra time on future engagements.never expected, never asked for.
My question for you is why do you feel it is okay to go over your agreed time? If you want to spend extra time why not pay the lady?
I have had one guy take advantage of my kindness. The first time I let him stay way over (his one hour agreed time). The second time he expected it. He complained when I started getting dressed after a hour and half.
Madison
You are not going to get any ladies posting here admitting that they let a guy go over on his time for any reason. This is how they make their living.
Does it happen? It can and does-most often with UTR or low volume ladies. I wouldn't expect to see any providers posting about it though. And, by the way, never mention it in a review either. You are not doing a lady any favors by hinting to other prospective customers that you will get more time than you paid for.
....I have let absolutely EVERYONE have that privilege and it is more likely to happen if we are having a really good time, or I see you often and I know you dont do it all the time; or, frankly, if I "like" you.
Now, I do not do it for the tips, or the reviews, so much as I do it for the repeat visits. I would like my guys to remember, "hey, you know, she was kind enough to let me finish even though I ran up her time a bit more. I should go see her!"; I want them to think of me fondly. I dont book a bunch of appointments in a day and I usually dont even go and make any plans until way afterward in case we are having too much fun and he wants to extend the session, so it usually doesn't impose upon anything. Sometimes, they are real gentlemen about it and are kind enough to toss in an extra 40 or 50 bucks, which is very nice; however, when they dont, it means me no never-mind. I do this because of money, yes, but perhaps just as important I do it because it is fun; I love it! Plus, hell, I am good at it!!! Ha ha!
Besides, honestly, we get paid the same wages doctors and lawyers do, I dont know about anyone else, but I can stand to lose out on the equivalent of a hundred bucks or so.
Just sayin'....
Dani
I agree 100% with everything Dani said. If I took the time to write out my thoughts, I would just look like a copy-cat.
*note the following answer may have absolutely no basis in reality, but really seems to be what the original poster wants to hear.*
She let's you stay over fucking her because, you are the most fantastic sexual partner she has ever had.
Your penis is perfect, and fills her just the way she likes, it hitting her G-spot with every thrust.
She also can't keep her hands off you, as you are the most handsome client she has ever had.
She has fallen in love with you because of your sexual prowess and good looks as well as being the most charming and witty, engaging personality of anyone she has ever met.
Because she is hopelessly in love with you, she cannot bear to see you leave and just needs to keep your dick inside her a bit longer.
when you leave she sobs herself to sleep where she dreams of you and your fleeting time together.
She masturbates to thoughts of you, and counts the hours until she can again be in your arms, your dick shoved into her balls deep.
There you go...the answer it seems you really, really want to hear...
That is exactly what I wanted Lol. Pretty funny. I got a little dick and don't know what I am doing...but I am quite handsome and charming lol, not. I have ben called a nerd and a dork, but yup,i am one charming mother fucker. Its a simple question from a science nerd is all.if I thought all that I think my self esteem would be much higher, but I like one ladies response, repeat business, plain and simple and makes sense.in retrospect, perhaps I shall keep my musings to myself next time. I am well aware pondering a womans intentions and trying to dissect the intention is a fools quest.so I guess I am a fool.no problem,i own it, excuse me for asking an asinine question. Thanks to those who responded.and just an fyi to one if your responses,i do finish at least once hence the reason I am always willing to shut things down when my time is up, cause I already got off once.
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haha balls deep! reminds me of the song from the Cleveland Show
I mean no disrespect by my answer.
Truthfully, does it matter why she gives you extra time? Don't try to overthink things in this arena. As long as you don't expect it, and are grateful when it does happen, express your gratitude, and in my opinion, offer something in return, then it's all good, and keep it to yourself.
What happens over and above between two people should remain there. Others are right: this shouldn't be in a review. Others shouldn't expect for more than they pay for.
I think you're getting razzed because it *feels* like you think you're getting something special because of something you do or who you are. I don't think that's the case - you're just asking a general question as to why this happens. It can be a multitude of reasons. Don't worry about why, really....just enjoy that it has happened, and roll with it. Keep those kinds of things to yourself, however.
That's my two cents.
Hey Anthony -
Stop clock watching and just enjoy yourself.
She is watching and knows EXACTLY what time it is - no need to worry yourself with it.
Maybe then you can relax and "get finished".
Trying to figure out what your issue actually is.
I think some replies to it are simple and straightforward. No, no one should ever go into a session expecting extra time. That is no different than going to a restaurant and expecting the owner to give you a complementary bottle of wine.
Why does it happen? Almost impossible to tell with certainty, but I would ask what others have, why does it matter?
Could be business; she feels you are a good customer and wants to show her appriciation. Or she thinks you might become a good customer and wants to convince you to do so.
It could also be that she is enjoying the time with you and is not in a rush to leave. That could mean you are the hottest stud on the planet but it probably does not mean that. I have gotten lots of longer than paid for sessions and in my case I know full well it is not my studly traits. The biggest reason ladies stay longer than schedules is the guy treats them well, treats them like a person not a commodity. And because there is some interest, friendship, etc between the two.
It is always her choice, it is always something that should be unexpected, and just because she does it with you one time does not imply it will happen again.
Very importantly, as others have mentioned, NEVER mention it in a review. It is fine to say "she never made me feel rushed, and when I looked at the clock as she left I saw she had stayed a few minutes over", but "she wound up spending four hours instead of the appointed two" is actually putting her at risk because some Neanderthal will think "you gave him two extra hours, you need to give me free time as well".
Now, what question were you really wanting answered?
you do seem to be obsessing over why and trying to see wat makes the ladies tick.
Did you ever think that maybe she gives a little to get a better return rate.
I have a few clients who the clock ticks a lot slower for but they see me every week or bi weekly. I have fun they are easy respectful and a pretty much guarantee that they will be calling again and again.
They don't expect it and if I dressed and left at the 2hr or 3hr, or what ever point was agreed upon, it would be ok too but its ok with me so its smart for business in some cases.
Is it ever expected, No, and you shouldn't expect it either. Yet if you appreciate the favor it wouldn't hurt ya to tip the lady once in a blue moon even if thats not expected, yet would be appreciated and may allow this favor to continue on. It would be a shame for you to show up next time to a clock that keeps very good time for her lack of feeling appreciated.
Its your call.
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All I know is that it has never happened to me with girls who's agency has them booked back to back. However, it happens frequently with utr, or low volume independents whom I see on a regular basis. And, that's probably as much as you really need to know. And, I agree. Don't go spreading the word that you're getting treated special. It doesn't do her any good, and it may come back to bite you in the ass.
If and when I do, you sure as shit won't hear about it.
Sorry, pal. Some things are better left unsaid on a public board. Know what I'm sayin'? 
My ATF IS my ATF because there is not strict limits on play time. We always finish what we start, no matter how long it takes... it might be on time, it might be a half hour over (usually one one client per day makes this possible). We might separate promptly... or visit for another hour...
Then again, we had a session interrupted by (her) family crisis on a few occasions over the years. I gave her privacy but she insisted on my not leaving...
So a couple of my lady FRIENDS, apparently enjoy my company enough that we don't define our play or company by a clock.
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