Why is it that some providers are willing to take a shower with their client, but the majority of the ladies I know decline the idea? I think its like "frosting on the cake" to close out a session with a nice shower together..but a number of the ladies I have seen turn down the invitation.

Hair, makeup, dry skin, doesn't want to, thinks you're a dork, etc.  Take your pick.

If it's an incall situation, she probably has a set amount of time to ready for her next client, and that timeframe does not include blow-drying and styling her hair or completely redoing her make-up.

Kate

Personaly I love the shared shower though it has always been my preference to start with a shower though at the end can also be fun (as it stands I take a shower after appointments any how).

Though as pointed out already in responses with some ladies it could be anything from not wanting to get hair wet, or limited amounts of time for drying and  styling hair etc.

What you might want to do is schedule for sessions of 2 hrs or more and maybe after you have seen a lady the first time mention your preferences (we are normaly more comfortable talking of such things with repeat clients)

Good luck and party safe.

Shower time is rather intimate act in most ladies point of view; it's also their "alone" time. They have done their part and would rather you just leave and not try to continue the session. So for the ones that do, consider yourself lucky that she may enjoy something about you than your money. It's basicially about chemistry and we can't expect all of our lady friends to click with us.

We all have em`

1- I wont go on boats, etc, or shower/bathe with anyone new I am meeting

2- Men want to mess our hair and try to wash it.. Our hair may be looking good that day and we dont want it all mussed up for our client after you...

3-Makeup- we dont want our makeup ruined or washed off...

we take our showers very carefully and wear shower caps.. We dont look very attractive in the shower like that... LOL ..

PS/  You may not like the idea of a client after you, but, alas, we do. We more than likely had one before you as well

a BIG LOL TO Dickus !

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"See what Brown can do for you"  !!!

I do with some of my clients but, of course, it depends on the situation.

If a client books plenty of time and I am comfortable with him, why not?

I don't wear much make up I don't need it. I am one of those women blessed with a great soft skin all over.

I wash my hair before and after seeing a client and I don't need to style. I have great hair too and I don't use gels, hairsprays, curlers, hot irons or even hair drayer.

So, having some fun in the water is not a problem for me at all, actually is erotic and hot.

MMMMMMMM make out, caress, touch, suck each other, masturbate and explore... Is that anything better than have someone soaping your body in a sensual way? Fucking in the shower is just amazing.

Then, get back to the bed and massage each other with lotion and get the juices flowing again.

It is intimate and is great when is done with someone we enjoy...definitely is not fit for one hour appointments...you need two or three hours to have water play incorporated to the session without worrying about the clock.

Love a mutual shower at the beginning.  I'd consider not returning if it wasn't available (the session would have to be pretty spectacular for me to forget about the mutual shower).

I think it has more to do with makeup rather than an intimate act.  I don't think it's intimate at all.  I say about 10% of the girls pee on the toilet sometime during the session without me asking.  That apparently isn't that intimate either. I had a lady shower after I showered, and I watched her shower a little.  Only 1 person has showered with me, but I don't request it, so not an issue.

I'd prefer bathing together over a shower (for the sake of the hairstyle....) with mutual massaging together...Willing to compromise on shower with detachable shower head, though!

I only do overnights.  Always start things off with a shower or bath together.