Shower at providers
Being new to the hobby I'm not sure of the etiquette about showering after a meeting at the providers incall.Is this a normal request or not.
Very normal request, especially if you are going back home to a wife or something. Just make sure your shower time fits inside the paid time. Don't think you get an hour of play, and then a 20 min shower also. If you are good with a quick 5 min shower, then stop playing at the 55 min mark. That is just respectful of the lady and her time.
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Five minutes, tops.
Dry off in the tub, don't get the flour all wet.
Hang the towel up to dry.
I sometimes shower before the appointment as well as afterwards. Yes, the time is part of the paid time.