Posted By: Courtney.Ova
People like me work very hard to be extremely accurate, while also jumping the hurdle to be discreet enough in our photos, so no one in town is like "Hey, he's with Courtney Ova from TER!"
It's a very tough thing to make perfect, and quite honestly, I've done what I can, and am going to let my hard work do the rest for me.
I understand you are trying to avoid being like some guys - self-proclaimed escort ethics vigilantes, scouting out high end providers, and jumping and screaming when they found a flaw, or don't look like what they imagine a 9 or a 10 to be... (or literally stalk them and find them to see what they look like in real life, which I am sure happens... then write a fake review...) Or trying to avoid posting things like bad reviews just to lower her score to what HE thinks her score should be. (After all, these guys think they are gods, and know everything about beauty - including what another man should think about that specific woman's beauty. Psst. That's a control issue when a guy is lusting at a woman so much, he isolates her from other men discreetly and gets a power high from holding something over her head.)
But you - no - if this case is what you state, (not person in picture, doesn't provide services as promised, etc.,) you are not being a bad person. This is what reviews are for. If you didn't literally seek them out for the sake of the hobby, just to find flaws while you still have sex with them anyway, then write a bad review to discreetly and blamelessly isolate her, or give her a bad reputation because you hate women - you're fine.
Carelessness is one thing, where people just pop up reviews with no thought of the woman, they just do it for free VIP... whatever... but it sounds like you want to utilize the review system as it was intended for.
I say write one, but if you think you'll feel bad afterwards, give yourself a few days to think about how you would want to approach it fairly. And by fairly, I also mean within the 3 month time frame from the date you saw them, because - as TER says - a lot can change with a provider in 3 months. Shit, I went from cheek bone length hair to below my collar bone in 5 months. (Mid back with real hair extensions, which I couldn't wear until the hair hit my shoulders..)
So anyway, some things to think about. Again, if you're not trying to save the day by purposefully seeking out flaws to shout on the rooftops, then I personally think you're just helping the community - and us girls who really do see the importance of accuracy in service and looks, and also actually put the work in to do that. Don't always assume malicious intent on their part. Don't be malicious. Just be fair.
If the girl wants to do well, she can start advertising properly, or escape the pimp she's under. A lot of these women don't even see their ads if they are under a pimp or sometimes even an agency. And definitely not her reviews. That's also something to think about.
-- Modified on 9/20/2015 11:39:48 PM
