and she won't waste her time until you get to DC and show further interest closer to the appointment. Many guys that book way in advance from out of town are NCNS.  Just a a fact.

I emailed a provider, from Eros, in DC to inquire about availability during a weekend in mid-October. I'm in LA.  I said if she were available that I would send more info.  She emails back and says she would likely be. I said great and that I would call her next week, and asked if there was a time she'd prefer me to call.  Her response was that I need not call until I was in town.

1. I'm a little surprised that she didn't want to speak to me in advance (screen--although I gave enough info to Google me).

2. I'm wondering why she wouldn't have filled her dance card by then..

Thoughts?

I don't doubt what you say...I have reached out to several others, so if they respond and we actually speak prior to my trip, odds are I would go with one (or two) of them, rather than the one who can't be bothered...

Let's assume she Googled you and you gave her reference information.. ( God I hope on both sides) Mid october is 3 weeks from now.. I try to keep my appointments open for my current friends. She may hope to hear from you but, Often times that is not the case.. So,, If she filled that spot for you and you forgot or your trip was canelled.. then what?

I suggest for meetings more then 1 week in advance for My clients that we keep in touch between now and then date.. just to keep the fires burning....

thank you missjess,

I would be satisfied if she handled it like you would have, and been happy to check in periodically with updates.  My guess is that when I call on arrival in DC, I'll find she has in fact booked her time with regulars.

I guess I'll see what's what at the beginning of the month when the trip is closer and credibility may be higher.

until screening is completed and I am confirming the appt
Usually the day before
Unless I feel that screening dictates a telephone conversation
I would confirm the appt now and advise her that you want to confirm again the day before
Simple enough
Don't worry too much
And yes google is one of my best screening tools along with Linked
xoxo
Sexy

I can almost guarantee that if you call her while she is in town, that she's probably not going to be booked.

I used to always try to prebook when I was traveling and then be ncns'd like mentioned above.  It's grueling.  It's really a pain to spend so much time going back and forth with a man and then him do that.

Although I don't travel hardly at all anymore, with the exception of Chicago, I don't make a strong effort beforehand to book weeks out.  And that could very possibly be her excuse.

I commend you, though, for wanting to find someone wonderful to spend time with and do it in a timely fashion.  That would be my first preference.  But sadly, others have messed up by not following through on their commitments and then we as escorts get a little (for lack of a better word) shy at trying to get all of the "i's" dotted, etc,. long before a trip happens.

And it's possible that she's going to go there IF she has a certain amount of interest.  There's a chance that she might not be going to DC at all.

Hope this helps!
Elisabeth

Thanks E,

But you misunderstand, she is the local and I am the traveler...  I get that there is a lot of NCNS, but that is not me...I want her to be totally comfortable having me over and will go overboard making that happen..

I do want to ensure the trip includes a good experience, or two, and would like to lock it in in advance...