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Truck21 24 Reviews 2087 reads
posted
1 / 25

Recently I seen a provider for 1 hr then another time for few hrs  only saw her twice so far, today she texted my phone saying , Can I ask a favor? My phone bill is due the 19th and it's 80$ can you help me pay that so my phone don't get cut off  please....    Have any of you ever helped a provider what can possibly happen ?? Should I bother to help her ?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 764 reads
posted
2 / 25

BBBJCIMNQNS for and you'll give her $200

That or if you want to help, but don't feel comfortable just dishing out money, if you didn't sign up to be a SD, request an appointment

Back_In_Black 643 reads
posted
3 / 25

Guy no offense but you saw a girl for under 200 . Sorry but what could happen , nothing or a lot ! Why take the chance . You really need to go to the newb board . Sorry but that's how I feel .

Retired-Guy 663 reads
posted
4 / 25

If you want to help her out just schedule another appointment.  Then she can pay her phone bill.  If you want to give her $80, then give her $80, but don't expect it back.

The good news is if her phone gets shut off, she can't call you to ask for more money :)

 
Posted By: Truck21
Recently I seen a provider for 1 hr then another time for few hrs  only saw her twice so far, today she texted my phone saying , Can I ask a favor? My phone bill is due the 19th and it's 80$ can you help me pay that so my phone don't get cut off  please....    Have any of you ever helped a provider what can possibly happen ?? Should I bother to help her ?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 678 reads
posted
5 / 25

That's funny

Posted By: MT91151
If you want to help her out just schedule another appointment.  Then she can pay her phone bill.  If you want to give her $80, then give her $80, but don't expect it back.  
   
 The good news is if her phone gets shut off, she can't call you to ask for more money :)  
   
   
   
Posted By: Truck21
Recently I seen a provider for 1 hr then another time for few hrs  only saw her twice so far, today she texted my phone saying , Can I ask a favor? My phone bill is due the 19th and it's 80$ can you help me pay that so my phone don't get cut off  please....    Have any of you ever helped a provider what can possibly happen ?? Should I bother to help her ?

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 694 reads
posted
6 / 25

She call her phone company and make a payment plan

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 586 reads
posted
7 / 25

If she needs money, tell her to get a second job or that you will see her when YOU are ready, and she can make it then. She should not be texting or calling a client out of the blue for any reason much less a fkin loan. If she can't even come up with 80 bucks, she is in the wrong business.

Robertini 4 Reviews 495 reads
posted
8 / 25
macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 578 reads
posted
10 / 25

there are gentlemen,,and there are suckers..choose wisely..

Posted By: Truck21
Recently I seen a provider for 1 hr then another time for few hrs  only saw her twice so far, today she texted my phone saying , Can I ask a favor? My phone bill is due the 19th and it's 80$ can you help me pay that so my phone don't get cut off  please....    Have any of you ever helped a provider what can possibly happen ?? Should I bother to help her ?
-- Modified on 8/17/2013 9:11:45 AM

buck1848 41 Reviews 499 reads
posted
11 / 25

I hate to say it, but I have helped out a provider that I’ve seen.   We had a great connection and really enjoyed each other’s company.  She asked for an “advance” of $400 with the promise that she would make it up to me, off- the-clock time, extras sessions, etc.  She had asked for financial help other times also, but I always said no.  $400 was enough.  I have yet to see a return on my “loan.”  In Feb. she moved out of the state and that is that I guess.  Although, she does text me and call me from time-to-time when she is in the Cities.  I’m glad I could help; it’s not the money, but I know I was a sucker and too trusting.  

I’ve heard horror stories where guys are hooked for thousands of dollars.  I’ve made a new rule if a provider asks me for an “advance” or help the answer is going to be no.  And that would be my advice to anyone out there who is put in a similar situation

april_luv See my TER Reviews 544 reads
posted
12 / 25

espect your privacy .
We don't contact you ,you contact us for our services.  

It's not your responsibility to pay another adults bills .
Posted By: buck1848
I hate to say it, but I have helped out a provider that I’ve seen.   We had a great connection and really enjoyed each other’s company.  She asked for an “advance” of $400 with the promise that she would make it up to me, off- the-clock time, extras sessions, etc.  She had asked for financial help other times also, but I always said no.  $400 was enough.  I have yet to see a return on my “loan.”  In Feb. she moved out of the state and that is that I guess.  Although, she does text me and call me from time-to-time when she is in the Cities.  I’m glad I could help; it’s not the money, but I know I was a sucker and too trusting.    
   
 I’ve heard horror stories where guys are hooked for thousands of dollars.  I’ve made a new rule if a provider asks me for an “advance” or help the answer is going to be no.  And that would be my advice to anyone out there who is put in a similar situation.  
 

HangingwithBears 548 reads
posted
13 / 25

You want guys to suggest a provider use her own money to pay her phone bill? Hahahaha, sure, lol! No, that's not how it works in provider land, they call and beg us to pay their bills and we're so smitten, we become stupid asses and do it. This is the way it works in this hobby.

J/K...

HangingwithBears 559 reads
posted
14 / 25

Spoken like a true non-bullshit artist. You're gonna piss off a lot of providers with your blunt honesty but go right ahead, you have my full support, lol.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 538 reads
posted
15 / 25

Give someone a fish, feed them for a day... teach someone to fish, feed them for a lifetime.

That's just enabling. If I'm going to look out for another lady, I'm not going to tell some dude to enable her.

Cute joke though, lol

escalade1964 65 Reviews 634 reads
posted
16 / 25

I have helped with several cars in shop

a water heater

Gas and Electric Bills

Phone bills

Shoes for her Civie job

and prepaid her incall ( this actually came off my donation)

The others, I was NEVER nor did I expect to be repaid. LOL

ArthurDent 32 Reviews 603 reads
posted
17 / 25

Go ahead and feed stray dogs and see what happens.  Virtually the same thing.  Next she'll ask for a sugar daddy.

oldtedsalias 588 reads
posted
18 / 25

It won't be the last request from her.

april_luv See my TER Reviews 572 reads
posted
19 / 25

Give from your heart and don't expect anything in return.  

If you can't afford to lose it don't give it.  
Posted By: oldtedsalias
It won't be the last request from her.

harborview 10 Reviews 558 reads
posted
20 / 25

for a "loan".  Frankly, we've had many threads on this here.  Some guys do indeed get paid back, probably an equal number do not.  80 bucks should be easily accomplished by a provider...  if she pays attention to her business.  
I recall as a young working guy, picking up hitch hiking co-eds from a local university who rented in my neighborhood.  It dawned on me than often I saw a car in their driveway when I dropped them off.  Eventually I grew curious & was told they were h-hiking to save the money so they could go out & party.  Now, I was just a year older, college educated & seemed to have common interests yet I couldn't get a date there.  I stopped picking up free loaders!

Back to the topic at hand.  I have gifted my Fav ladies on special occasions.  I also help them out...  by calling up & booking their time at their standard rate.  It's much better to stay on a cash basis...   Again, some gals will complete the transaction.  A true emergency is different.  But the poor financial discipline will not improve & next month the same problem will occur.  Oh, yes, once they have your money, paying you back in cash or time is no benefit to them.  Seeing others and getting paid increases the money in their pocket.  
Once a gal...  or anyone...  finds they can get the money without doing the work...  they are less likely to work & more likely to scam.  Applies to home improvement contractors s well!

it's your money but IF I wanted to help her, I'd book an hour & she can pay her bill.

ROGM 686 reads
posted
21 / 25

I've only known my current Provider for 5 months. She is so Nice and Sweet that I've helped her out when she's short on Cash for a few things. She treats me very well and is so nice to me during a Session. I don't mind helping her out every now and then. If you like your Provider, helping her out with $80 for her phone would be a nice Gesture on your part. If you don't like her that much, then I'd say don't help her out.

harborview 10 Reviews 419 reads
posted
23 / 25

I have given straight out gifts.  "Loans" are a mine field.  Maybe my booking a session is the safe way out but it avoids the mine field.  Do not loan money you can't afford to lose.  But if she burns you, she'll stop taking your calls.  So you lose a provider you like AND don't get repaid.    

Posted By: april_luv
 
 Give from your heart and don't expect anything in return.  
   
 If you can't afford to lose it don't give it.  
   
Posted By: oldtedsalias
It won't be the last request from her.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 560 reads
posted
24 / 25

The funny thing...it is usually the "I am so in demand and in the Top 100 hookers" pulling that lame ass shit. What a way to blow your image. I would have a garage sale before I ever called a client for 80 bucks.

Back_In_Black 508 reads
posted
25 / 25

I agree with everything you said , except I believe its a big headache and if she owes the phone the rent is due too. And who knows what else . Pass , sorry can't help and move on . Have a good day.

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