I was wondering why so many providers prefer not to turn the bed
down and just do it on top of the bed cover? Rather a turn off for me.I even had one lady go to the trouble of laying towels down first.She commented, "we don't want to lie on a dirty bed spread",not that it was dirty, being an upscale hotel.
Maybe it's a New England thing.Is it me or is anyone else bothered by this too?
Thankfully my current ATF likes it the old fashion way.In the bed,not on top!

My solution was to buy the largest, fluffyest cotton beach towel in the store and bring it with me. Soft clean springy cotton (polyester ?, fugedabowdit!)is incredibly sensuous. The subtle stimulation of nerve endings is so far superior to lifeless hotel sheets or plastic feeling bed covers. My ATF has the sweetest natural scent and wears a light perfume. The towel absorbs these and holds it for days. When I get home I like to sleep with the towel in bed next to me and inhale her aroma. Great way to keep the memories fresh. Go far dark primary solid colors, they are sexier than pale tints or distracting patterns.

Cheseuncook's comment about the bed spread in an upscale hotel not being dirty could be wrong.

I worked in a hotel long ago and we only changed out the bedspreads every couple months and blankets monthly.  And this was a 4 star AAA hotel.

Also, I remember seeing a report on one of those primetime news shows about hotel/motel cleanliness.  They used the black light trick and took swabs, similar to crime scene testing.  They found urine on walls and carpets.  They found semen stains on the bedspreads, blankets and matress.

These hotels/motels are not nearly as clean as people think.

Hi sweetie, I like to get in between the sheets too and on top of them.I love the feel of crisp clean sheets and a warm man to make love to me!!

I have always assumed that providers did not want to have to change sheets after every appointment. Most providers I frequent place clean cotton towels on top of the bedspread prior to each client, I hope!?

It was the 20/20 special report on hotel bedspreads and how they are rarely washed... anyone have a link to the article handy? It grossed me out in a major way. I think it is true even of upscale hotels (except perhaps 5 star hotels, but I can't afford 5 star hotels on a regular basis) that they only wash their comforters/bedspreads either a few times a year or if there is an obvious stain. So ever since I read that I have tried to figure something else out. I'm pondering bringing sheets of my own with me... but I dunno about silk or satin sheets, I think I might get bounced right off... or slide off... or something! =:O

Any suggestions?

Hugs*
Nicole

I would think the provider does not want to sleep in the "wet spot"

And has more then one client in that day she will not turn the bed down for the first client.Second client she will turn down to blaket.Third client she will turn down to top sheet.4th client she will turn down to sheet.Thats what I was told by some of the girls.As for outcall sometimes we just don't want to dirty your sheets that you have to sleep on that night.We are just thinking about you.I also heard that some girls bring their own sheets and pillow cases to incall.They are trying to keep it clean for the clients.I don't think a client would like it if he notice that the sheets were dirty from the last guy.Also a lot of girls clean up the bathroom between clients.Gotta be clean you know.

Because I live in a very secure building and my screening process is pretty tough, I feel comfortable working incalls out of my home.  It does get a little annoying, changing the sheets after each client, but I wouldn't have it any other way.  I don't even sleep on sheets that haven't been washed from a session!!!  I just wouldn't feel clean myself if I didn't change the sheets before another appointment arrives.....

I only entertain on an outcall basis. Having said that, there is no way in hell that I'm getting busy on a hotel bedspread or blanket. Hotel blankets and bedspreads are just as nasty as airline pilows and blankets...yuk, yuk, yuk! I always politely ask if I can turn down the client's bed. Not a single client has declined, but then again, perhaps they adore sleeping in the wet spot when I depart

I once got white spots on my back from using a tanning bed that was not cleaned properly and bumps on my butt when I was dancing from sitting in chairs with a bare bottom.  Since then I am very careful about where I put my naked body.  When I am at a hotel I tip housekeeping enough for plenty of extra sheets and to keep quiet about it!  I always ask the person to turn the covers down when I visit them at a hotel.  Yes, even the five star places. At my place, I lots of extra sheets and just put them on top of the blanket or turn the bed down and put a fresh sheet on each time.  It is more sanitary and just feels nice!

KristaNewOrleans

It's kinda off the subject, but how do you get rid of the little white spots on your back from the tanning bed???

I'm glad to see the majority of ladies agree with me,so far. Being on top of the spread is just so nasty.I'm not sure what my ATF does, but the sheets are always nice and clean.
Seventhson suggestion about a nice beach towel is a good one.I like the idea of savoring there beautiful aroma afterward.

I like to rip the sheets off the damn mattress and drag them to more interesting areas of the room.  Pitch a tent using chairs - make love underneath in front of the window.  Bed is for sleeping.  At least it is at home.

At my place, I always turn down the covers, and I always put fresh, clean sheets and pillowcases on the bed before each visitor.  I also put out fresh towels and a clean robe, and I clean the bathtub and toiletseat, at the very least.  I would want no less done for me.

At hotels, I like playing on top of the sheet that covers the blanket, although I am happy to crawl under the covers, if he suggests it.  Never on the bedspread (yuk!).  I know we are going to get the linens wet from playing and probably oily from the massage oil, and I like for him (or us) to have fresh sheets to sleep in afterward.

Excellent idea!!!

Laurel and Jaclyn, I love you!  That's what I call class!  I'm a bit of a clean freak, so changing sheets scores real points with me.

Before my ATF moved me from the "customer" bed to her own bed, she would always change the sheets while I undressed and took my shower.  She would would then hop in the shower herself to be clean for me.  I'll never forget that.