I responded just within the context of the previous posts, but your thoughts are a logical extension of the real issue...lack of respect and/or communication.

Have seen several guys of late say "Hey, we are paying them, they should do whtever we want.  End of story.".  Yeah...maybe if you are dating a robot instead of a human being.

I'm not sure restrictions is the correct word simply because it can be taken out of context so easily. Respect I feel is a better way to view this, along with common decency. Truthfully I have no concept of the kind of individuals you ladies have to deal with at times, I do know from the area of work I'm in that if you as a woman "restrict" most men from something it can become quite ugly. If you are in tune with another person then you will know what is acceptable and what is not, just goes to show how many unfeeling and self-absorbed people there are. I guess I'm just a little weird, I feed off of the woman I'm with, the more pleasure I can give to her the better I feel. I get a huge rush when I can get them to reach that orgasmic plane that is beyond their normal grasp. It's such a high when you know it's the real thing, and there are ways to tell  There is no excuse for not being clean, if you aren't it's simply because of laziness and a lack of self-respect. Any woman has the right to decline anyone anything in any situation, especially when bodily contact is an issue. Health and safety first and then lotsa fun !