Then we spent our time clothes shopping at the mall. The term GFE has been so overused that it has lost any meaning. Many ladies have recognized this and found other ways to communicate what time with them would be like.
Some read like a resterant menu, others are so coded you would need to work for NSA (no such agency) to figure out what is being said. Might I make the following suggestions.

1. Never make overt promises.
2. Explain what your sexual likes and dislikes are within the context of your personal life.
3. Post a draft of a Penthouse Forum letter (or two) you are writing describing your fantasies, or your last date.
4. ALways include disclaimers; include that our milage may vary.
5. Check other girls websites to see how they handle these issues. There are some very smart and imaginative ladies out there.

your suggestions seem too complicated.  With VIP search features here, in my book a provider is not a GFE unless BBBJ is on the menu.  

I cannot imagine many experienced hobbyists who would see a gal with disclaimers (I don't want my mileage to vary) and who fails to make overt promises.  

That is what this site is for.  I use this the same way I use Consumer Reports.

Although I love BBBJ, I really dont feel that that is what makes me a GFE. GFE is not a list of what you do, but how you do it. It is the desire for  real connection that has nothing to do with the sex.

so your point is????

8o)

But more about the emotional exposure - if you will, without a condom for the personality.  I've been with one lady who while she provides incredible sex... after 3 visits, I know that she kayaks.  That is the sum total of what I know about her as a person!  She might say 3 sentences in the entire evening... mostly when I go to leave.  This is in contrast to a GFE - who - to be honest - I could leave the sex behind and just take out for an evening... Dinner and maybe a show.... or an evening with friends... the sex?  An incredible bonus....

And some?  well, they provide this seamlessly!  and I enjoy myself immensely - And await the next opportunity to see them!

This is probably one of those gender differences; the twain never meets.  Yes, the HOW matters (human v. plastic doll) but for most guys the WHAT is primary concern.

Why do you think this guy-created site allows  searching for BBBJ, CIM-spit, and CIM-swallow?  Few of us care (or remember), for example, what color a gal's eyes are, yet I see that mentioned in many provider ads.  Eyes and their color are something women notice; for most males they are not an item of attraction.

And to complete the GFE experience I'll let you take me to dinner where I'll order the most expensive thing on the menu even though I know you don't get paid for two weeks.  Then I'll nag you about your driving all the way home.  And then complain you never bop me.

NOT...

Giggle,
TS Jamie

LOL!  This got me to thinking ...

... How come we never see the IHWE (Irritated House Wife Experience)?  You'd think some guys on long business trips might miss the comforting home life experience.

Any suggestions on what this would be like?