TER General Board
She needs to be boycotted
In addition to making a stupid threat, she is making a stupid business move.
What if some guy decides to out her to get even with her? If she wants to play "chicken", she might consider her own vulnerable position.
-- Modified on 10/26/2007 11:04:20 AM
This was on the Chicago boards and caused quite a stir among hobbyists (at least through private PM) Apparently, a provider posting on her website, listed personal information about a client who showed up for their appointment, talked but did not pay. Below is the listing she posted (I have deleted all the personal information, which the provider had filled in completely ) To me, this was TOTALLY UNPROFESSIONAL and I am sure will cause this woman to loose a tremendous amount of business. If you are unhappy with a client, simply post a general message on the board and have providers send you a PM
As always, thoughts are welcome as to this approach.
BAD CLIENT LIST:
IF U MAKE A APPOINTMENT AND DONT SHOW UP OR U LEAVE WITH OUT PAYING I WILL POST YOUR INFO IN MY BAD CLIENT LIST:
10/23/2007---name: phone: phone_type: Cell address: city_state: . employed_by: Own work_address: work_city_state: work_main_number: work_number: work_ext: age: self_description: I'am , weigh . I __ a week. I like to __and __ aroung a lot. I love going to or any vacation for that matter. new_client_yes: checkbox rs_name2: rs_contact_number3 On website rs_contact_ : GIRLS DONT SEE -- HES SHOWS UP TALKS TO U THEN LEAVES WITHOUT PAYING.... GUYS HAVE FUN W/ HIS PHONE NUMBER...LOL
It is just as rude to not show or to play and not pay.
I responded to the Chi-town board. If interested you'll find it here:
I hope it costs her every TER client she has. After reading this I wouldn't book with her on a bet.
Yes, the client was guilty of bad behavior! But, to post his information on a "public forum" is in very bad taste. This hobby requires trust. Unfortunately, that trust does not always go both ways. Just as it is not appropriate for a provider to post a gent's information, it is not appropriate for gentlemen to do the same with a provider's personal information.
There are many "private ladies forums" out there where this information can be posted. By doing this, she can share her experiences with other providers and, hopefully, prevent this from happening to another lady. She can also send him an e-mail asking him to make explain a "no show," or a "shortage," etc. Or even leave a voicemail on his phone. What she should never do is break the confidence he has shown her in providing his personal information as it makes all of "us" look bad and causes clients to distrust ladies and not want to cooperate with prescreening which is critical for our safety.
Good response Sin!! I agree totally. We have to have confidentiality.
Back channel sharing data is one thing. This is another.
A fair number of reviews from Aug 2001 until Feb 2005. Since then nothing. My guess would be that either she isn't getting a lot of attention from the TER membership or those that are seeing her are regulars who are not posting new reviews. Of course she could have requested that those that see her not review her...
Her reviews during that period are generally good, averaging around a 7 (I did not bother calculating them precisely).
You really have to wonder what she is thinking...
-J
What she did is unforgivable.
She's outing guys for NCNS? It's like summary execution for jaywalking. I wouldn't give her my third cousin's middle initial with that in the contract
and there might be serious revenge. Not good...she, and all ladies need to think about it. Not every man is just a "dufuss"....some are / can be "bad guys."
Grew up in East Coast City...I know of what I speak.
I'm sorry ladies, but this is exactly why I won't ever give out my personal information. All it takes is one bad apple in the bunch to ruin our lives. The damage she's done to this guy is way beyond the damage he did to her. I know I'm missing out on a lot of nice providers but so be it to protect my privacy. For those providers who would never in a million years consider doing something like this, all I can say is she's hurt your screening efforts badly. She's done just as much harm to providers as she's done to this guy.
This act is bad beyond description. This is violation of trust of the utmost order. I hope she LOSES EVERYTHING. The client didn't physically threaten or harm her. He's a flake and guess what, many other providers are flakes too. Does that mean we hobbyists out them? I don't think so.
As mentioned earlier, she's making it bad for other providers who are trying to earn the trust of clients to anty-up the info they need for their own safety. It sort of makes a guy wonder if it's worth the risk. Especially us married stiffs, we see providers because we feel can depend on them not exposing us to the public (and our wives) to get into real trouble.
The free sex out there in the bars is too risky and too much baggage, it should be safe to pay to play.
And as far as seeing any clients that know about this, I'm sure she's done.
That's just crazy.
In addition to making a stupid threat, she is making a stupid business move.
What if some guy decides to out her to get even with her? If she wants to play "chicken", she might consider her own vulnerable position.
-- Modified on 10/26/2007 11:04:20 AM
Speaking as one of the ones who gave it to you, yes you can pass it along ten-fold. At least you admitted that there were at least two men who did hold your attention.lol That puts you way, way up on this "lady".
She should never have had posted that in public...that's what provider boards and blacklist sites are for.
Really stupid move on her part.
Hello folks,
I have recently found the Craig's list erotic section, which is how I heard about TER. I like the review system, sort of like Ebay feedback which is good. This provider can hang up her thong, I would never book her to even walk my dog.
I followed some of the provider links and saw that questionaire about my employer, phone numbers, etc. and felt really queezy about giving out that much information to who knows who that could be used for who knows what? I too grew up in an East Coast city, where scary people used information like this for extortion on vulnerable people.
I am in my forties and would like to have the company of someone half my age, without making any committments or the possibilities of child support (18 years?). Stories like this make me think that masterbation is much safer. I don't want to be remembered like Jimmy Swagart crying "I have sinned" (but, I do want to sin!)
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