So I am about to see a well-reviewed provider for the first time today and I send the standard confirmatory text. Now I booked a nice long 3 hour incall but I get a return text suggesting that unless I'm in the mood for lunch, 2 hours should be "sufficient". Am I alone in thinking that it's kinda weird a provider would want less time? Or do providers prefer a shorter window for first meets in case the guy is sketchy? Thoughts?

then stay with the 3 hours. Otherwise, take the two hour appointment or find another provider. More then likely she will be rushing you out one way or another before the 3 hour mark.  

She may have gotten a request from another hobbyist for time right after a two-hour with you, and she's trying to squeeze in both. If she can get you to pay for an hour of lunch, then it's not quite so bad turning down the other guy. If she can get you to agree to a two-hour, then she gets more money.  

It's not a matter of sketchy, when you get past 2 hours some providers want a meal in the mix someplace rather than just 3 (or more) hours of unrelieved work, even from repeat and well liked clients.  Notice of more than a couple hours would have been nice, but I don't know what the conversation looked like, so maybe something made her realize you both had different expectations

She is probably thinking WTF am I going to do for 3 hrs with someone I don’t know? Apparently she thinks, she can’t fuck continuously for 3 hours so, don’t take any extended stay hard on drugs

I like at least 2 hour dates. I always bring, or have on hand a bottle of wine and a bowl of cut up fruit (supermarkets have already done the work for you). It has been appreciated EVERYTIME. Many times you are meeting after work, and between traffic and possible distance to the location, you don't have time for dinner. Having fruit on hand will typically guarantee an unrushed experience

You know, when stock broker Vin Diesel holds the doctor to just a 2,000 share buy?

Her session is a two hour experience. Buy it or don't as you like. You are overthinking it.

If you still want to see her. The word "sufficient" was a weird thing to say.

...I would move on. This wasn't a suggestion by her of a different time (1 pm instead of 2 pm) due to schedule conflict or Monday instead of Tuesday but a change in what you wanted to book. If I request 3 hours and she counters with 2 hrs and dinner I'm not interested. That wasn't what I wanted.

When for some reason she did not think she could deal with three hours of sex. We don't know if she says in her pricing structure if the three hour package included some down time to eat and of course give her body a rest, mostly the rest. Geez fucking a dude for that long that is possibly not attractive really reduces the natural lube and some guys get all cattywumpas if a hooker reaches for lube during the deed.  

Have a first time hobbyist for that length of session. If she is not right for him, he is out money and if he is a nightmare she then most likey will suffer through it to the best of her ability.

and set something up for the next month.

Granted, I'm still new to this, but so far when we've reached the two hour mark, none have refused to go for three. Maybe it's because I'm an easy date.

...You had already booked a 3 hour date sometime past. I missed that at first though your first sentence makes it clear. (wonder if others missed it too) She is recommending a change after everything has been set when you sent the confirmation communication for today's get together. That to me is more odd than what I thought which was in initial contact she recommended something different from what you requested.  

In my experience, when a dude books three hours, it's because he wants a totally relaxed date. This usually means sharing some wine and conversation. I love me some 3hr dudes. They're always chill.  

this guy had already booked a 3 hour date. Sounds to me that this provider's website had that option of a 3 hour date. If the provider didn't want to have 3 hour dates, then why did she have that option on her website in the first place? Duh!!

I believe that you are correct that the provider had a 3 hour option on her website, regardless of pricing, the guy picked the 3 hour option. Provider turns around and says that she can only do a 2 hour session. That doesn't sound very cool on her part.  

but it does sound to me like the OP was looking for a "totally relaxed date" just like you said, but  the way she phrased her words that two hours would be "sufficient" I think he would be in for anything but a "relaxed date" My suspicion is that he would be rushed out the door well before even his two hours were up, I have to go along with those who suggested he simply move on and find a different lady.

The wording is what gets me…

If you meet a new lady for a typical session. 2 hrs is about the max before you get board and it is time to go. Early in my hobby life I met a lady for 2hrs with the understanding if we were having fun to go longer, we went 3 hrs. (yes she was compensated for the extra time) But rarely will you want go longer in the bedroom.  

If they sell multi hour packages some are very good at making sure there is something other than screwing included. Not many ladies can handle 3 hours of fucking without a break.  

I have no problems with watching her eat...I simply won't pay her for that privilege.  

if you requested three hours in.

Again, we did not see the conversation; therefore, it's impossible to know the pre-date arrangements that very well could have advanced as the date drew closer.

And I thought about you when I posted it....LOL. Enjoy the Memorial day holiday!

Just had to throw it out there however.

And you're right it should be available but I question this, I doubt we have  been told about the entire exchange. He might have said a few things that she balked at and instead of just letting the guy go, she might have thought, "Oh well I can handle two but not three hours with this monger". We will never know.

time- yor posting at 9:20am.....cud the simple most logical answer be, youve set the appt. for 10am...& noon is a regular standard time ppl eat lunch? If someone has had breakfast at 7 or 8am, tryin to force a quick snack at 9:30am just ins't going to be a solution...
If ya would have set the apt. for 2pm for 3hours, possibly the answer might be different.
I know this is our job & that's all ya see us as. But in reality we do need to eat, sleep, shower, etc....
I personally enjoy long appts. but meeting someone for the 1st time, Id rather save someone thier money rather than waste it trying to pretend like I'm having a great time when theres a personality conflict.  

If things go well for a two hour, she'd probably book you for three on follow-ups.

What in the fuck does TSTTT mean?

at least you can still talk to trees.