it sounds almost like one of my dates except

we both get all excited erotically and i wind up getting lucky. sometimes she gets lucky too. you might try longer dinner dates so that can work out better for you. then there is time for many forms of fun on the intellectual, spiritual and physical planes.

but as long as your approach works for you, great! it wouldn't work for me though. it is TOO one sidedly intellectual-spiritual for me. just as the purely physical wouldn't work with a terrific body that had no one home in it.

see..... my mind and body are in this together. there is no chemistry and nothing is doing unless BOTH mind and body are appealing.

you with your intellectual approach and the guys with purely physical approach are fortunate to be so easily satisfied hobby wise. i'm not and as far as i'm concerned, i like it that way. complete packages, total women please.... (thank you very much to my faves).

I have to admit, a smart woman is a total prerequisite.

Have you ever read "I sing the body electric?" Or Shakespeare's sonnets?

Incredible stuff, and a woman familiar with that sort of stuff (though she doesn't have to be familiar with that specifically) is amazingly attractive.

SO attractive, in fact, that we might just have sex.

Pussy!

Are you fucking serious?!

I'll tell you what. NEXT time, you pay, I'll play. How's that?!

THEN, you two can talk about authors, poets, politics, the state of the economy, world hunger, and all the other plights that infest this God-forsaken mudball called Earth while I clean up and hit the road.

Shit! Talk while she and I are in mid-coitus for all I care!

I'll send you a 'Thank You' card! LOL!!!

I got you beat!

I did everything you did twice a week for a year and then I married her.