I was at the mall doing some Xmas shopping and saw a regular approaching.  I did happen to notice he had no SO with him so I smiled and he did too. I wouldn't have smiled if an SO was present.  It was cool but very awkward at the same time.  I know I was blushing but couldn't help it! How many of you ladies and gents has this happened to?  Was it a good, bad or indifferent experience?  I know this subject has been brought up before but I'm relatively new to the boards so I'm curious.

Just because a SO not next to a person does not mean they are not in the area.

...... why I now keep my "office" an hour away from where I live & socialize most.    

Everyone knows that hookers don't leave their incalls...ever!  

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

...... why I now keep my "office" an hour away from where I live & socialize most.    
   
 Yes, it can feel awkward, but you both handled it well.   Likely, if it happens to you more, it will start to feel less awkward.  
   
 I've had the type of encounter you describe, but I've also had too many that went bad.  So I now actively avoid that as much as possible.  
   
   
 Once, I was out to dinner and happened to notice a client at another table with a woman I assumed was his SO.   I ignored him.  BUT, after going to the ladies' room, I exited to find him waiting for me, demanding to know what I was doing there!    
 Because naturally, the only possible explanation was that I was stalking him.  Sigh..... gotta love the narcissists.  LOL.    
   
 xoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxxoxo  
   
 

well, maybe #3.  The safest thing is to look away & give no recognition.  It is commonly recommended that if you must, that you can give a nod as you pass...  as you would give an amiable stranger.  You can have a laugh about it in your next meeting BCDs.  
   
One never truely knows is the other party is alone...  SO, children, aquaintances...

LMFAO! You're too cute Debbie!!

I can get flustered easily and can actually be rather shy at times.  Not embarrassed just an unexpected encounter.

t just like escorts have normal lives and go shopping and to restaurants, etc. ...  

Ask him to buy you something.

I don't have a SO, so she could walk up to me and give me a big sloppy kiss if she wanted. However, the best approach is as you've described, react as you might to any other person on the street.

Completely understandable.

That will keep you safe!

Ads clearly state that many ladies are available 24/7.  So how is it possible for them to have any free time?  

Seeing her -- my ATF actually -- in street clothes in a CVS was just an incredible turn-on.  I wanted to pounce on her right there.  And I mean that in the nicest possible way!

I have run into hobbyists at work and mall.I smile and keep walking.No strings attached business.No reason to have problems at all.

Re: If i see an escort out and about i discreetly hand her an envelope...I'm so well trained

LOL I LOVE IT!!! You're priceless!!

Thanks babe,  much appreciated!

It's uncomfortable especially if I'm with my friends.... If they say hi I usually play it off .... "Oh hi" ..... But with my all time ATF since we live so close I just relate to my friends he's my neighbor ....   I've gotten messages from past clients that they have seen me out but didn't want to say hi cause I wasn't alone...  I'll be pleasant but won't make the first move...    

👍  At least you're man enough to admit it ~  😋  

As I read this thread it amazes me that although we are having hot sex with these ladies during sessions, then if you happen to see each other in public that you should just act like she has the plague and can't even offer a simple smile from a distance. I understand that each has their own life outside the hobby but a simple quick smile shouldn't be a problem.

The first time I saw a client out was when I was at  the shelter rescuing a dog.
He saw me first I didn't even notice him I was with a relative the client walked by me and in a low voice said Jaydalee and just kept walking.Relative didn't notice (well at least they didn't say anything).

I live pretty close to where I've seen clients but I tour all over. One thing about where I live is that most hobbyist don't come here since it's not a hobby friendly city plus I'm a homebody. But I did see a client in a hotel going to see another provider we just smiled and greeted each other. He actually booked me that same night after he left her since it was his birthday lol.

Best thing to do if you see the client / lady from a bit aways and recognize her / him; stare straight ahead, and continue on with whatever you're doing. Afterwards, text her / him and acknowledge you saw each other.  

Unless the two embraces and starts DFK in public there's nothing wrong with a nod, a smile or even a hello.

he (He?) could be right around the corner.

You can't know for sure that he was alone.  Suppose his wife or even one of her friends were a couple of feet behind him?

Mr.Fisher, you left yourself wide open for a good joke but I decided to pass on it, lol. Merry Christmas

I would be freaked out if I was with my mom and someone came up and used my stage name because my mom doesn't miss ANYTHING!! She would ask questions incessantly and even go as far as to bring it up a few years later at some random ass time and in some random ass situation like  while she was waiting to be seen in the emergency room, and she does that stage whisper so everrrrryyyooonne can hear her!!  SERIOUSLY!!  LOL

Dear Jaydalee:
Considering your experiences as yourself,  how guarded are you about your personal space and life?  Does it get to the point at times that those in your real life that don't know about your other persona suspect that you might have one?  Are there people in your life that might have reasonable suspicion about your activities in this demimonde?  The instances that you describe are similar to Julia Stiles, when she plays Blue.  There was a scene when she goes to her son's school for a Parent Teacher conference and she immediately recognizes the Father of the other student as a client with his wife.  The non-verbal communication was so intuitive it was not funny.  There are also other instances of this throughout the series as well.  In another case were Art imitates life Belle runs into an old School Mate as a client.  Not that she was aware of it, but the client said that he recognized her from school.  Also during the final episode of the show, the lady who ran the agency had the Judge for a client and the case was adjudicated favorably.  These are cases that show that being in this business there are times when both worlds collide although we do our best to prevent that.

Deb when you first got into the business did you know that your life changed?  Also with the fact, that you chose to have the incall several miles from your house, you know that you have to be very careful.  In fact I dare say you are extremely sensitive in everything that you might do.  I dare say you do this because of the fact that people have an enormous propensity to discuss things of a revealing and salacious nature and I dare say that one of the reasons that you are so careful is that you don't want to get anyone hurt around you.  Although I don't know if you have a professional life outside of this, but you want to keep your options open for opportunities in the future while making moves that will put you in a better position in life.  This is an interesting concept because although your stage name is the nooner girl, there is nothing intellectually that says you are coming to the party late because you know the ramifications of most of your choices and decisions while working as an Adult Companionship provider.  
 Although you screen well, I dare say from time to time that you might come across an email from someone in your personal life that you might know casually that might want to be entertained by you.  At that point, you might ask some questions that only you would know the answer to in order to successfully eliminate him from any further consideration.  Continue to be guarded and calculated as it tends to serve you well in life as well as in the game.

Boston is a small city...
i keep poker face on, unless he reacts first regardless if SO present or not...

wow, seriously, you have no need to blush, you are gorgeous!

did you say, "eating"?

luckily for me i'm in an industry with a lot of different people whom i meet all the time.

as long as you don't mind doing her in front of the williams sonoma

She dropped the subject but she was looking like...yeah I know there is more to it.
She asked one more time as we were walking out the store.She found it strange someone would come up to me and act so familiar.I stuck with the story...they say you always have a twin out there...I told her obviously she was mistaken.She let it go

I like to keep work and my personal life separate.

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It's too early in the day for me to see it.

I was solo grocery shopping and one of the store managers is a client of mine, she also knows my wife. We were chatting when a provider I know drops by and says hello and give me a big hug.... I just introduced them and said the provider was another client.

It's probably true!  "Won't he be embarassed when he sees the real friend next!"

....if he wants to shoot an email or text later on saying it was nice seeing you then all good.
I've been lucky to have only had this happened once but was because he was having breakfast in my hotel after our date had long been done lol.

Now I'm REALLY blushing!!   Thanks for giving a good laugh before bed sweetie!