and incorporate the best into my repetoire.

No new techniques but learning what ladies like, what some like more than others and what some don't like at all is a never ending process.

I really love to give oral but I never realized how into it some ladies are until I was with a particular provider a few years ago...I was "south of the border" with a particular Brazilian lady  that I was seeing for the first time when she wrapped her leg around my head and pulled me in closer to her pussy and started grinding my face.  I knew she was into it and that got me more into it than I had ever been.

Some girls like a finger in the ass while you eat them, some don't.  Some like fingers in general and some don't.  Some like you to move around down there but most like you to find the "spot" and stick with it.

What I quickly learned is that the gals I'm with who love oral also tend to orgasm and orgasm often. Getting and receiving oral is the best part of the the experience for me and it's something that is pretty much non-existent at home.

I've got nothing against books or videos but I'm a big fan of hands on learning.  It's always worked best for me.

Use the standard answer. I found it on the internet. Did you like it?
-J

Why Try And Improve On Perfection...

LOL

I could barely type that with a straight face!!!

Of course I try and learn from every experience I have in life good or bad.

You take the Good, You take the Bad, You take them both and there you have....sorry.

I always try to incorporate moves that work into my go-to rotation.  Some are universal, and some are lady specific.

It is the most fun trial and error you will ever have if you find the right lady, and I have been lucky enough to find several ladies that loved to experiment as much as I do.

Any ladies out there that would like to schedule some lab time with a willing and teachable partner should feel free to PM me at any time.

Since every lady is different, the learning capabilities are endless, if you just pay attention to them. And don't limit your learning to love making. Learn what you can about foreplay and arousal, including different techniques of sensual massage. Thai and Shiatsu both have different techniques with lots of gentle touch that will bring wonderful results. There are countless books on both, and lessons are available almost anywhere you live. My son teaches several styles of Asian massage, and has taught me a lot.

As I have been married for a long time (15+ years) I will honestly admit that I have not added any new tools to my love making game in a long time.  It’s high time that I did (and others may be interested as well).
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Pitiful.  High time indeed!  I'm sure your wife might have appreciated this kind of effort some years ago before the sex life atrophied. Now I know that some providers here will applaud your desire to please them, but since you're the customer that's their job.  Your main job is to show up, be clean and respectful and pay your donation.  Anything else is icing on the cake.

I don't normally endorse anyone or anything, but David Shade has a book called Masterful Lover.  

Let's just say before my SO read this book, I never squirted......

A download copy is still available I believe as well as the hard copy.  

Kari~~

Once in a while I will thumb through a magazine at a newstand.  I prefer to let the ladies show me the way.

Sharing is caring!

If I try something and like it, then *of course* I want to do it again... and will gladly share the experience!

I must say that I've encountered quite a few new techniques that I'm pretty sure I would never have come across if it weren't for this hobby of mine Maybe the same could be said for some of the gentlemen I've spent time with...

As far as outside the hobby, I'll admit that I watch a lot of porn, lol. I know most of the stuff is done mostly for the voyeuristic effect of it (voyeurism is it's own reward anyway!) and not really so much for the pleasure of those involved, but occasionally I see something that I can't *wait* to try.

Maxine