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Sex change operation
soccerfreakjr 2179 reads
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I have read somewhere - it may have been on these boards - that if you hobby long enough you may unknowingly end up having sex with a provider who has had a full sex change surgery - man to woman.  

Is this true? Has anyone ever seen that written anywhere before? I would like to find the original post on this, but I can't remember where it was.

If so, can this really happen? Does anybody know if this happened to them? How did you feel about it? How would you feel about it if it happened to you if it hasn't already?

It is kind of amazing what they can do now

GaGambler1097 reads

Fortunately I never had a "Lola" or "Crying game" experience, I really don't know how I would react, but I can promise you I would not be as "open minded" as MM. Sorry, but "Homey don't play that" lmao

I am by no means a violent person and I am hardly a homophobe. I am actually a lesbian trapped in a man's body, lol but I will have to say any tranny that tries to pass"her"self off as a natural woman is playing with fire, and is at least partially culpable if anything happens to her.  Some men react rather violently about the idea of kissing/fucking another man, I am not saying it's right, but it is a fact of life. To ignore this fact can definitely put a person's very life at risk. Anyone with a lick of sense knows this and I have very little sympathy for someone who pulls the tigers tail only to be eaten by said tiger.

Posted By: GaGambler
Fortunately I never had a "Lola" or "Crying game" experience, I really don't know how I would react, but I can promise you I would not be as "open minded" as MM. Sorry, but "Homey don't play that" lmao
lol...this homey don't play that either...In a roundabout kind of way it merely affirmed my heterosexuality. I was innocently hoodwinked and it most certainly was gotchya moment, but no sense of violation crept across my radar. It's pure comedy gold for me, besides, I wouldn't dream of hitting someone who already had my cock in their mouth. Ha!

I did wake up one time after passing out at a party and this dude who'd been eyeballing me all night was tugging on my zipper. A wee bit of the fisticuffs commenced as me wits were coming about

GaGambler1090 reads

and even if it wasn't I am the last person to judge, I try not to be a hypocrite, and judging other people's sexual preferences on a hooker/john board is the height of hypocrisy IMO. I can only speak for myself, and my preferences. I rarely even make fun of the OTHFB club anymore, but I haven't been able to quit cold turkey just quite yet, baby steps. lol

Oh btw OTHFB club stands for "Over the hill fat broad", Hey, I never said I was perfect, just that I was trying. lol

MartiniMagic1124 reads

The broader your experiences the greater you can appreciate life. lmao

'twas a most drunken, psychedelic hedonistic experience that evening so long ago...

I was really disappointed when upon noticing how shallow she was, I realized it wasn't a true vagina, and I gotta tell ya, I was in the mood for some vagina.

The blow job was the consolation prize.

Shit Happens.  

lmao

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GaGambler1071 reads

and I suppose it's better to just go with it rather than freak out, but that's easy for me to say as it's not my dick inside a guy that we are talking about. lol

GaGambler928 reads

Just because I referred to him as MM doesn't make it hard to know which MM I am talking to. It's pretty obvious, even to an admitted drunk like me. So what's your excuse?

Who says I'm not drunk? I enjoy my drink and partake very often including at this very moment.

I agree it's easy to know the difference, and no problem here I was making a point and giving you shit at the same time.

Maybe my new signature will be

The real MM, lol

hook-ups that take place, but I don't think it is all that common, so relax.

I once did arrange to see a post-op gal, but even though she looked beautiful and had an excellent job done (They even shaved the adam's apple.), my dick was having none of it and wouldn't perform.  It was kind of embarrassing.

I suppose some alcohol would have fixed things, but what's the point then?

Thailand, supposedly, has many pre and post-op gals so probably best to be more wary if you are there.

I enjoy playing with TS occasionally and had sex with one both pre and post sex change. The new "pussy" felt different a little to tight not the feeling. I preferred banging her from behind. It is possible to be fooled into thinking this a woman if you did not know better not sure it would be the end of the world.

and let the little one take over. Otherwise, you are pretty safe.  

Another thing to do is stick with known reputed providers

As a provider this is something that I never would have thought about. But I do find the subject fascinating since I happen to know a TS (not in the business though). I will say that I know enough that it is most certainly possible for something like this to happen and for a hobbyist to be tricked. Some of the transgendered girls are just absolutely beautiful in my opinion and may just rock your world. After all they most likely know how to please a man.
 With that said .....I agree that this is why everyone should check the reviews and reputation of the provider(s) and providers should be honest in there ads and profiles. (truth in advertising). I also must add that I have seen some female body builder types that could certainly have most folks wondering whether they were really female at all. Not putting them down or anything just saying.....   variety makes life interesting and not all varieties are for everyone.

Does nothing for me.  
 

Posted By: Autumn Breeze
As a provider this is something that I never would have thought about. But I do find the subject fascinating since I happen to know a TS (not in the business though). I will say that I know enough that it is most certainly possible for something like this to happen and for a hobbyist to be tricked. Some of the transgendered girls are just absolutely beautiful in my opinion and may just rock your world. After all they most likely know how to please a man.  
  With that said .....I agree that this is why everyone should check the reviews and reputation of the provider(s) and providers should be honest in there ads and profiles. (truth in advertising). I also must add that I have seen some female body builder types that could certainly have most folks wondering whether they were really female at all. Not putting them down or anything just saying.....   variety makes life interesting and not all varieties are for everyone.  
 

MartiniMagic1163 reads

Surprise! Surprise!

A bit shocking at first...

but then I said, "Fuck it, she thinks she's a girl, certainly looks like a girl, and sucks a mean dick."

I came in her mouth and chalked it up to the grand experience of life.



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I'm not sure she was TS, but the more I thought about it I believed she was.  She had a nice website, none of the site and none of her reviews suggested she was TS and she behaved and looked like a woman in all respects when we got together.   I am a fan of DATY and while her labia were well within the normal range her clit was decidedly different than anything I have ever had my lips on.  It was larger (ha, ha in retrospect) and wasn't as covered by labia as usual.  She seemed to like what I was doing, though.  Also, she gave me a back massage and she was unusually strong for a woman.  

I wouldn't have done it intentionally, and still wouldn't. I'm glad I didn't figure it out while I was with her, since I'm not sure I would have been able to perform.  I'm glad she aligned herself physically with what she felt her identity was as a woman, more power to her.  But I still felt funny about it.

I've seen some pics of totally gorgeous women who claimed to have been Post-Op.  If you didn't know going in (pun intended) and didn't notice a difference....?   The question is, can you tell a difference?  I have no idea.

Long ago I was in a massage parlor and negotiated a BJ.  The  woman wasn't exceptionally pretty but not bad and I was young and really wanted a hummer.   She went to work standing beside the table and bent over.  She was in a short skirt and heels and didn't undress as I recall.  I was getting close to popping and had the idea of running my hand up her skirt but SOMETHING in the back of my brain told me not to.  I finished off and she even swallowed.  Over the years I've wondered what I might have found up that skirt.   I'll never know and I figure it doesn't matter.  

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You can't really create the feel and look of a real vagina 100 percent, just like I would imagine a fake d*ck would still feel different. If it were really that easy, they would have them in boxes already. It is not being able to tell that is the issue...it is the deception. Watch "Boys Don't Cry" if you need further reasons why one should never lie about this. It can get you killed.

MartiniMagic1086 reads

There is no surgery replicating the fabulous musculature and lubrication of the vagina...

and in my case, "she," was shallow...

It was funny, she looked at me with that "Uh-oh!!!" expression when the ruse was up, but I shrugged it off.

Fuck it, as they say. lol

I had no idea you were fucking too. There is absolutely NO FUCKING WAY my cock would stay hard after finding out. I would have not only lost my hard on, I would have lost my cool. So me thinks you already knew and were okay with it. If that's your thing no big deal, but is certainly not mine.

MM

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Posted By: MagicMedic
I had no idea you were fucking too. There is absolutely NO FUCKING WAY my cock would stay hard after finding out. I would have not only lost my hard on, I would have lost my cool. So me thinks you already knew and were okay with it. If that's your thing no big deal, but is certainly not mine.  
   
 MM
It was one of those not everything quite adding up in time situations. Not that I really gave two shits. Not a matter of being okay with it either, you can draw whatever inference you like, but I didn't see irrational violence as being necessary. I certainly had nothing to affirm with myself by harming another.

I find it funny how threatened so many men are about this kind of what if. It's not a big deal.

You're crazy to think otherwise. It's actually traumatic to many, who don't just feel every sexual act is made for them. I would feel a bit off if I thought I was fkin a guy and it was a girl, but I can bet not as much as man finding out he was with a TS. I am truly bisexual, so whatever. Not everyone IS that way, though. Telling them they don't have a right to be freaked out is a bit nuts. I don't think violence is the answer, but others disagree and have beaten those to a pulp who pulled that shit. You don't trick someone into fkin you. That's one step below rape IMO.

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Posted By: London Rayne
You're crazy to think otherwise. It's actually traumatic to many, who don't just feel every sexual act is made for them. I would feel a bit off if I thought I was fkin a guy and it was a girl, but I can bet not as much as man finding out he was with a TS. I am truly bisexual, so whatever. Not everyone IS that way, though. Telling them they don't have a right to be freaked out is a bit nuts. I don't think violence is the answer, but others disagree and have beaten those to a pulp who pulled that shit. You don't trick someone into fkin you. That's one step below rape IMO.
You're blurring issues together. I never said someone doesn't have the right to be "freaked," but that does not condone an out of control violent reaction in a non-violent situation.

You are right, it is traumatic for many men, simply because they aren't as secure in their heterosexuality as they thought, they're not as far right on the "bell-curve," as they believed, therefore...you get the violent reaction simply because that is an act which re-establishes hetero-masculinity...fighting & fucking, ya know?

Yes, I agree deception is bad, inexcusable...kinda funny considering TER...lmao...

Nevertheless harmful, possibly deadly physical force, is not warranted under such a situation, ever. I wouldn't say I was tricked as much as I was fooled, most definitely looked like a girl, acted like a girl, identified as a girl, etc...definitely some shades of grey involved.

lmao

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