It's traumatizing to have someone contact you via your website, exchange a few emails, and then have him suddenly say to you, "[your real name]?" and when you finally get them to admit who they are, it turns out to be the SO of one of your best friends.
It's also traumatizing when you get an email from some random person asking the following (Xxxx = my real name, Yyyyy = my younger sister's name): "Hey Xxxx. I know your website says you don't negotiate, but would you be willing to see an old schoolmate for $150? I was in Yyyyy's grade." No explanation as to who he is, just a vague proposal which I interpreted as soft blackmail. And no, I didn't see either of them. But when you go to great lengths to protect your identity and you're exposed for one reason or another, yeah, it's fucking traumatizing. But way to jump to conclusions. Sounds like someone is still a little resentful about high school.Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
Is close to someones name I know in real life. Some identical. Anyone else come across this?
If so, care to share?
You have a family member called "Saliva"
and her stage name actually has her first name in it. We were both in the same graduating class in the West LA area. Went to several parties that she was at and banged one of her good friends too. What's weird is she is about 22-23 IRL but lists her age as 28 for some reason. I thought ladies doing the opposite was more common... I thought about contacting her for shits n giggles but decided against it lol.
Yeah DO NOT contact her. That's happened to me twice now and it's fucking traumatizing.
So it's "traumatizing", meaning it was traumatizing getting contacted by someone for your escort services that you went to high school with that maybe was a nerd or loser who had a crush on you, but never had a chance with you, then actually meeting that person face to face for the 1st time since high school and realizing how things turned out for both of you since high school, then having to give that guy a blow job, get eaten out by him and get banged buy him.
Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
She doesn't HAVE to do anything of course.
Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
I would imagine it's just the fact that someone knows the connection to your real name and escort name. Would you want anyone from your personal life knowing that you see escorts? I wouldn't.
Tobi is a very sincere and sweet young woman and I don't doubt the nerd from high school who had a crush on her would have his mind blown by a couples hours with her if it didn't jeopardize her safety.
providers working hard for a future in another business don't want people from their personal lives meeting them for this shit. surely you can't be that fucking stupid? has nothing to do with how the guy looked, but the fact that he could out her later in life as being a hooker and ruin everything she is working towards now. she is in school you know. i doubt she is paying all that money for nothing.
Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
Bonus points for anyone who knows what movie I just referenced.
Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
It's traumatizing to have someone contact you via your website, exchange a few emails, and then have him suddenly say to you, "[your real name]?" and when you finally get them to admit who they are, it turns out to be the SO of one of your best friends.
It's also traumatizing when you get an email from some random person asking the following (Xxxx = my real name, Yyyyy = my younger sister's name):
"Hey Xxxx. I know your website says you don't negotiate, but would you be willing to see an old schoolmate for $150? I was in Yyyyy's grade." No explanation as to who he is, just a vague proposal which I interpreted as soft blackmail.
And no, I didn't see either of them. But when you go to great lengths to protect your identity and you're exposed for one reason or another, yeah, it's fucking traumatizing.
But way to jump to conclusions. Sounds like someone is still a little resentful about high school.
Is that what you mean by "traumatizing"?
Dear Ms. Telford:
Just wondering, how many time has it happened when you had reasonable suspicion to believe you knew a potential hobbyist in the verification process? Also during this time do you usually confirm it through work verification information,versus confirmations through other providers? Also have some of them meet your prerequisites in term of the verification process as well?
Twice I've had people address me by my real name when trying to set up a meeting with me. One other time I discovered through screening that a guy who had contacted me is a close friend of one of my brothers. That's precisely why I want real first & last names. I don't want a friend of my brother's, a colleague of my parent(s) or someone connected to me otherwise to know what I do.
Just wondering, how many time has it happened when you had reasonable suspicion to believe you knew a potential hobbyist in the verification process? Also during this time do you usually confirm it through work verification information,versus confirmations through other providers? Also have some of them meet your prerequisites in term of the verification process as well?
but her RL name sounds like a stripper's handle.
Don't tell me Beverly Fisher's real name is Cherry Cockburn!
Bev's stage name is actually an homage to the famous Kitty Fisher, noted 18th century courtesan to many an English nobleman.
She is the one who icily replied to one jealous wife who met her at a soiree where the wife complimented her fur stole and asked what it cost. Kitty's reply was: Why don't you ask your husband? He's the one who bought it for me.
The name of the street you grew up on and the name of your first pet.
I grew up on Mahogany Street and my first pet's name was Thunder. Mahogany Thunder!! Totally misrepresentative of what I really am, but a great porn name for someone packing Shaq's forearm in their pants.
ROFLMAO!
I did a character from one of my favorite movies + the street my sister used to live on.
Clit Eastwood .. LOL.
He was (passed away) a race car driver.
Starring that Master Thespian Tom Cruise? His character's name was Cole Trickle
...seem to be related to either Jack 'Daniels' or Captain 'Morgan'. 
Personally, I enjoy a close relationship with Mr. Robert Mondavi and his Reserve Chardonnay. However...if there is a Mr. Far Niente, I would ditch Bob Mondav in a heartbeat, for FN's Chard!
Happy New Year!!!