I've been on the "Seeking Arrangements" website now for a couple months.  

It was seemed to me like you would want to take her out for a test ride before you invest such a large sum.
Just my two¢…

and it's not like it's an enforceable "employment contract", if it doesn't work out, either party is free to cancel without notice.

I don't see anything wrong with it personally. it sounds very affordable for you, very beneficial to her, my only gripe would be I would want more fucking, excuse me "intimacy:" lol But this isn't about me, it's about the OP and if he is happy and she is happy, I don't see any red flags that jump out at me.

Yes, as usual GaGambler, your reasoning & logic are impeccable as ever.  No one can contest that.
However, he did not actually elude to the fact that he Actually has 'tested the waters'...
I am sure that most men test drive the car before they even lease it.

It's a different situation here, but really I think he's getting a lot for his money if he's truly attracted.

Thank you for the replay, Ms FoxyNC,

...Gag was prob comparing it to other SA/SD/SB arrangements.

but nothing about those times being overnights.

If they are, and there are MSOGs each time, then I'd say this is a pretty good deal, even if only twice a month.

On the other hand, if those "times" is a one shot and we're done, then, not so much.

And who is paying for the hotel?

It also seems odd to go out on a date with your paramour and not have some "intimacy"; just sayin'.

The devil is in the details, so to speak.

Hello Mr. Fisher, thanks for the reply.

If it works for both you, and it appears it does, what do you care what the rest of us think.  Everyone plays differently, someone mentioned it'd like cbj or bbbj. Whatever floats your boat.  

The only concern is  your paying upfront.  If she flakes  on the intimacy visits, or  dinner dates then your screwed.  Take in consideration things do come up and she has to cancels a particular date.    What assurance to do have that your getting what you expect.   You  could agree to pay her  for each intimate  visit; bear  in mind if you cancel then you should  still honor the agreed amount.

Yeah, well, I paid the $900 upfront.  I understand the risk that she may flake out, but it do think it is a small risk.  But if it happens, then lesson learned.

Comparing apples to oranges in the sex worker industry…

Interesting arrangement.  I think if I were in your shoes, I'd try to firm up some of the conditions.  For instance, when you go out on a date, what is the minimum and max time for the date?  On the intimate evenings, same thing....and whether it will be full service, will protection be used etc.  

ou: I made this arrangement with a SB and now she’s screwing me. We agreed to 4 social outings a month + 2 or 3 nights at a hotel for sex. I’m paying for her time 6 to 7 nights a month and now she’s avoiding me.  

even after having several dates, then that does not bode well.

For me, I have a good sense of the chemistry on the first date.  I've seldom been wrong about it, and those I have good chemistry with are the ones I see for years and years.

I think you should back off of this offer and see the gal on a one date at a time basis so you can keep yourself open to setting up a SD relationship with someone that you really click with.

you don't even know what service level to expect?   and "two or three" ?  that sounds pretty uncertain...    

I get it breaks down into a good hourly rate I guess but for me I would rather be with a highly reviewed provider who I hopefully get along with well for the social aspect of things on her hourly. Also as far as variety I still have the option of switching things up with seeing other girls and again for me it's all about the quality of service most civie girls do not give head or service you quite like a provider can and will just sayin!

3-4 months of seeing each other 1-2-3 times a week (or, whatever the # is they’ve not explicitly agreed upon) allows a lot more time for one, or both of them to start feeling resentful over unclear expectations.  

...comfy with.  
What's too little and too much for each of y'all.
Will you set your next play while you're together/prior to parting ways during/after a date?
Are you looking to communicate with her outside of what's necessary to make arrangements.?
Would this be via email/text/ph?  
Or  
Are you looking to communicate outside of the 3-4 dates per month?
If so, how often and how?  
Example:
1-2 times per week/2-3 text?
3-4 times per week/1-2 text?
1 call and 2 text per week/biweekly?
2 emails/4 text/1 phone call?
7 text, 5 calls, 12 emails?
Or
24/7 access via phone/text/email (outside of pooping but she return call/text/blabla when finished)  

say that to every girl he wants to and have continual sex with a bunch of young hot chicks. I never liked that idea. So I started doing this lol.

EOM

Women put words in our mouths...
I don't think the OP was comparing apples to oranges...he only wants to knows what the oranges should cost... As there is less guidance out there on the orange market.

so lets say he pays her before their first "intimate date" and it sucks. he's only out nine hundred bucks, no worse off than if he booked a three hour date with an average priced provider, and I don't know of any hookers that allow "test drives" do you??? lol

i am still a bit confused that he plans on having more "non intimate" dates, than dates where he actually has sex, but each to his own I suppose.

The difference between 2 and 3 is 50%.  Is this a one-hour visit, or 4 hours, or overnight?  BIG price spread there.  Can't estimate value for dollar without pinning that stuff down.

monthly rate is very high. How long do you stay for$600 per visit? How many times do you fuck?

I had a very short (official) SD/SB arrangement, and one of the reasons it didn't work out for me was because the bedroom activities just weren't happening. If I were going to commit to one man, the bedroom activities do have to be pretty good.

be making a pretty nice sum to cover her tuition and living expenses while away at college.  Now, if she contuse as a provider during the school year, then she should not have any college loans once she graduates.

...but it's funny hearing her speculate on the dynamics! Lol.

I think you would be better off just paying for her time by each event. It will keep things on the right track. She may find that you expect more time, on those non-intimate ' evenings then she thinks she should spend. Same thing for the intimate nights.  
I like the pay as you go format. Gives each participant a better understanding of what to expect, less chance of drama. I don't like drama! LOL~ well unless I am out at a show

That is completely degrading... I speak from experience... I am not a car to be taken out on a test run... a frank open conversation about sex and your interests should be enough to know if you are compatible. If there is chemistry you will know before you have sex.  

Sorry for the naive question....What is reasonable in terms MSOG's on an overnight? Of course, this will vary among clients and ladies. But do the ladies mandate a certain number of "hands off" hours so they can sleep?