Why do Hobbyists always assume that Providers have money to throw around on a room. I have had at least 2 Hobbyists though that I would just get a room &  chance that I won't get any clients. From this point on any HOBBYISTS who wants me.....Must set a date.

But you seem to be saying you won't book a hotel room to use as your incall but will only visit a "Hobbyist" in a room he books. I hope I'm wrong and you just failed to express yourself clearly. Because most guys simply won't see you on those terms.

I knew a provider who would text some of her regulars before coming to town, to make sure she had a few dates lined up before she committed to paying for a hotel room.

I would either ignore requests like that or keep them on the back burner, and let them know when you’re available with a hotel room.

I can put your room on my Credit Card..  

...Perhaps it's her Jersey accent got you all tripped up. Sometimes it shows up even in written English.  

you left in her bathtub, but she's still okay with you taking her off the market.  Marriage is a noble institution, even with a hooker.  

I am sorry that I didn't make it clear enough for the less intelligent people out there. I had a few Hobbyists who figured that I (A Provider) had money to just throw away. so, from this point forward I will not tolerate it if a hobbyist cancels at any time.  Any Hobbyist/Client that does this will be blocked. I do not have money to waste on getting a room. Respect goes along way. It appears that some of the hobbyists believe that if it wasn't for them then the Providers wouldn't be doing this. Although that maybe true, but that does not mean that the Hobbyists can try to manipulate the situation between him and the Provider. Meaning, don't think that just because money is so tight or whatever excuse you can come up with & That you can try to get the Provider to lower her price or fit you in first (Into her schedule). And remember that the escort gets the worst end of the deal when the Police do their stings.

You WILL book a room, but if the guy cancels you will not let him book again.  That sounds like a good policy, but you are still going to be out the money you paid for the room, so not sure why you need to advise guys they don't get a do-over if you get stuck with the room fee.  Most providers are already like that.