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I've been hobbying for a few years now, and one of the things I've noticed is that I'm slowly getting better and better in bed. I have a habit of asking every provider I see for a few tips on what to do in bed (and out of bed). Some give really good advice. Some (especially the younger, more inexperienced ones) don't have much to say, and I end up just trying stuff on them and asking how it feels. But most of the time I learn something new.

Some girls are really surprised by my questions about "what works in bed". (Like the line from some book I read a long time ago -- "what do you think -- this a f***ing night school?")

When you're monogamous, you don't really get a chance to find general things that work on all girls. So this has been an unexpected side benefit.

My question to all of you -- providers and hobbyists -- is what works well in bed and out of bed? For the management types out there, what are "Best Practices -- in bed and out?" (I just read that last sentence, and I sound like Carrie from Sex in the City, writing her column. Okay, no, I'm not Dr. Laura :-) )

I thought I'd start by giving you my "Best Practices":
1. Respect: treat girls, of all walks of life, with lots of respect. They are all beautiful human beings, inside and out. They all have something to contribute.
2. Humility: the other side of the "respect" coin
3. Massage: give a long, slow massage.
4. Time: take your time. Go really slowly to warm them up. This goes well with a massage. (This doesn't work so well with all providers, but it certainly works with girlfriends. It also doesn't work with women whose husbands might arrive any time soon. :-) )
5. Quietness: silence (with soft music) works wonders
6. Fragrance: the right kind of fragrance in the air, usually some kind of incense, sets the right mood.
7. Candles: nothing to beat candles for mood setting
8. Flexibility: "what would you like me to do?" and then doing it.
9. Asking for feedback: "do you like this?"
10. Relaxation: when I'm relaxed they enjoy it best.

What are your "best practices?"

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Q12535 reads

1) Cleanliness ... what a disaster when the provider comes out of the bathroom, and has not actually washed her privates, and just relying on paper

2) Stay away from perfumes or anything that has scents!  When a good looking, broadshouldered, tall, with a great head of hair man comes in [like yours truly!], the only reason he is there, it is because he is married or a has a girlfriend.  Women have an incredibly sensitive nose!  Keep those smelly soaps, perfumes, scents, etc, for your boyfriends!

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DonDuke2297 reads

What you say about scents makes sense.  But I would just say to providers, that not all your clients are in a situation where a lingering scent will get them in trouble.  Perhaps this is something that should be communicated prior to the meeting.

Olfactory sense can have powerful effects, for good or ill.  Most discussion on this board tends to be about hygiene and keeping odor from being a bad thing.  But IF you're in a situation where it's ok to actually use it for advantage, then please do so.  I've had some good times where I was nearly driven crazy (in a good way) by perfumes.  Just don't overdo it, of course (just as you hate it when we totally reek of cologne).

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