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New To Escorting - What Exactly Gives Providers The Best Reviews?
amiraakitt 1723 reads
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1 / 32

Happy Saturday!!

I’m new to escorting and I was just wondering when it comes to getting reviews (I read these are really important to have for both providers/clients) so I was just wondering what exactly gives you the best reviews?  

Is it how they post their ads, your first interaction with the person how their appearance is, etc? What makes you say “yea I’ll give this wonderful women a nice review later”

Thank you!

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 31 reads
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2 / 32

I’ve been here since 2005. I was unaware of the scoring system when I first started getting reviews. My advice would be to always look your personal best. My score can not improve this late in the game. Realize you’re potentially getting graded when you entertain a client. What I recently learned is that you can get a low score if the vibes are off. Chemistry is everything to me personally, so I offer meet and greets to see if we may be compatible first. Every provider operates their business differently, do what works best for you. If you read the guidelines here on TER it helps. Best of luck to you!

* To be in this industry you have to be able to communicate well, and stand firm with your boundaries if you have any because there are some people who prey on new talent. They will promise you business, a great review & are all talk. Be careful.

mrfisher 111 Reviews 35 reads
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3 / 32

Among the most important;

 
Are they friendly and outgoing?

 
'Did they provide as advertised?

 
Do they look like the person in their photos?

 
Was it easy to set up the session?

 
Are they skilled at what they do?

 
Were there no negative surprises such as up-charges, or short-changed on time, etc.?

 

There are many others, but these are the things I mainly look for.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 28 reads
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4 / 32

Much about getting good reviews depends on the breadth of the menu.  Veteran customers have come to accept a certain level of specific activities will be included in GFE service.  The usual services include DFK, BBBJ, DATY and CFS.  If any of these are not offered, you can expect the scores to be lower because the service will be considered "below-average."  With that said, if you do not offer DFK and BBBJ in addition to CFS, the TER rules may not allow you to receive a score above a 7.  Even if the customer gives you a 9, the score will be modified downward to fit the TER guidelines.  Make sure you understand the scoring system,  

durran421 30 reads
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5 / 32

I'll add one thing to your list....

NO deposit.  

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 33 reads
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6 / 32

The best reviews are the result of providing great service.

Photos and ads mean nothing if the service is sub par.

TheQueenSophie 33 reads
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7 / 32

First i think it would be a good idea to give some type of verification you ate you say and not boys in blue going fishing for a sting.  

Or just read the forums.

Eom

OldRanger 62 Reviews 26 reads
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8 / 32

If the wife is  not happy nobody is happy!

If the provider is not comfortable the session will not be - fill in the blank

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 28 reads
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9 / 32

maybe write a review so we can judge how your opinion may affect the way others write their's
just sayin

Boobsman100 20 Reviews 29 reads
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10 / 32

Fits whatever you're willing to offer. Work on your PR skills - timely communication is important too. Not everyone is personable but try to be at least average. Be upfront and honest. It's an on the job learning thing as well, because of the different characters you will meet.Be safe out there.

brownjack 1 Reviews 33 reads
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11 / 32

I file most/all of these under clear and complete communication.  Or, setting expectations.  Don't make clients guess or assume.  If you are clear about what you offer, the ways in which a client may engage your services and then meet or exceed all of those expectations, good reviews will follow.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 30 reads
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12 / 32

A provider asking for a deposit has nothing to do with their review score. That is not one of the criteria. You can of course choose to not see a provider if they want a deposit but that has nothing to do with the scoring.

holystonethedeck 91 Reviews 39 reads
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13 / 32

I'm sure there are some that factor that in even though they should not.

inicky46 61 Reviews 29 reads
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14 / 32

Thanks for clearing up this poster's confusion. I don't pay deposits either, but it's simply not part of the criteria for scoring in a review.

durran421 31 reads
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15 / 32

incorrect ma'am.  It has a MAJOR effect on the score if the provider takes the deposit and runs. Which is extremely common today. There are hundreds of reviews warning others about their experience with lost deposits.  
So yes. It certainly does play a major part.

SinCitySinner 65 Reviews 29 reads
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16 / 32

Like the line from classic movie goes... "Build it and they will come"...

 
Yes, there are some technical aspects i.e. activities you need to do to get  a good score, but just because a provider does them doesn't mean she automatically gets good score.  

 
You put in honest work and treat people decently and kindly, the scores will follow.

cks175 44 Reviews 22 reads
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17 / 32

Misleading photos and ads most certainly impact the service score. Check any reviewer who mentions that the photos were old or the provider appearance didn’t meet expectations. In those cases, the service scores also tend to be lower. IOW if a reviewer is going to downgrade a looks score, there’s a good probability that the service score will be downgraded as well.

durran421 31 reads
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18 / 32

Except that she wasn't. I wouldn't expect you to understand though.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 22 reads
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19 / 32

Hello! That is not a review. That is a rip off report. You can only write a review if you actually had a session with the provider. Thanks for calling me ma'am, much appreciated good sir!  

xoxo
Scarlet

36363jensen 4 Reviews 27 reads
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20 / 32

Of course it doesn't have anything to do with the review score or narrative (positive or negative) but if guys here have been saying if they get to the door and the pics don't match, even when they follow through with the session they will likely ding the provider on both looks and performance, I would not rule out some impact there.

 
But I think the importance thing for the OP, is that if she is just starting up and trying to build up business then the positive reviews she can earn will greatly help that. But if she start, with no history or reputation, requiring a deposit she will miss out of a lot of possible appointments and so fewer opportunities to earn those good reviews she is looking for. It is something she should consider.

RespectfulRobert 30 reads
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21 / 32

Or if you play with women with unverifiable reputations. It has never once happened to me and I pay a deposit about 75% of the time. Many of my friends pay deposits as well, and they don't seem to have a problem. The one thing we share in common is that we investigate and research a lady more throughly when she requires one, like any good consumer would about any service or product.

durran421 28 reads
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22 / 32

Of course. And yes a rip off report would be best. But there are literally tons of reviews that have been left due to lost deposits to unsuspecting clients. So it does in fact contribute in that aspect.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 33 reads
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23 / 32

all of the services that can qualify a person for a maximum score does not mean the reviewer will give them the max score.  They still have to perform all of them well.  

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 32 reads
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24 / 32

I am not trying to be mean here, but you do know that deposit scammers are not real providers, right? They are just scamming as many people as they can as quickly as possible, there is no actual provider. The pics are either stolen or are AI generated. This was discussed also on the "twitter beauties" thread. Most of these scammers are overseas. Real actual providers are going to care about their reviews like the OP here, not the deposit scammers. Of course you should still report it to warn others, but the scammer could not care less about their score on this website.

durran421 29 reads
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25 / 32

Nope. I hear ya and understand what you are saying. Honestly I probably picked the wrong thread to mention this "no deposit" suggestion but since I started it I might as well continue.  
What I'm saying is deposits are a bad idea period. What else I'm pointing out is, there are reviews.......of providers ....who HAS previous reviews that appeared to be fine, then all of a sudden, they run on the deposit from an unsuspecting client. I'm not talking just one or 2. I'm saying there are many over and over like that. Don't take my word for it, check for yourself. There's a LOT. And maybe there's more of it in my larger market area than there is yours, but there's plenty of it going on. And really, no need in paying a deposit ever because there are puuuuuuuulenty of wonderful and beautiful providers who do not ask for one.  
Lucky for me, I just simply don't have to pay deposits anyway,  nor have i ever been asked to, especially by the ones i see regularly. 😉

CamilleUK See my TER Reviews 26 reads
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26 / 32

…sounds obvious right?
But so many people do stuff they don’t enjoy.
If you don’t like it, don’t do it.
No fun for you and no fun for the guys who can tell you are gritting your teeth whilst doing x,y or a.
Doesn’t matter what ANYONE else says (“ you’ll never get good/repeat clients if you don’t xxxxx” - ignore that shit it’s just noise. Again, if you don’t like it don’t do it.  

Happy you? Happy client!  
Best of luck

420Smoka4Eva 31 reads
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27 / 32

Here are a few tips for getting great reviews and review numbers.
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1) Be attractive, sexy and hot. All other things considered, guys give better reviews to more attractive women. TER has tried to separate attractiveness and performance into separate scores but they influence each other. More attractive providers get consistently higher performance ratings for providing a similar level of service.  
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2) Have a good personality. I consider personality a part of overall attractiveness. Being confident, friendly, bubbly and excited can help put a client at ease. There are definitely providers who get bumps in their ratings because they're nice and fun to be around.
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3) Be honest in your ads. Have pictures that provide an honest reflection of your ad. Be honest about your services. Any sort of deception in photos gets your attractiveness rating knocked down. Any sort of deception about your level of services gets your performance rating knocked down. If a guy feels deceived or ripped off he might want to retaliate or punish you with a bad review.
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4) Enjoy sex. You're going to be having sex with a bunch of men, many of them are not in your league. If you're not having a bunch of sex in your private life than maybe this isn't the job for you. Guys can tell when you are enjoying yourself or not. Nothing ruins things faster than a provider having a bad time. Guys want you to be enjoying yourself. So, do your best to have fun or at least fake it. Also, if you knock a guy's socks off, he is likely to bump your attractiveness score as well.
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5) Figure out your comfort levels and your limits with kink and certain sex acts. TER Guidelines state the maximum review score can be a 7 unless the provider performs certain types of sex acts. You need to determine how comfortable you are with DFK, Greek, bi g/g play, and other acts. Be prepared for these acts as well. If you don't want to be a GFE/PSE provider, that's fine but you won't get the best reviews.

brokeloser123 32 reads
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28 / 32

The same as any provider of a service, whether it be a barber or an accountant.

The provider comes to you with an expectation and the better you meet that expectation, the higher your review. It will differ from person to person.

badger48 125 Reviews 27 reads
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29 / 32

Did you ever read a review where the reviewer said, I would have given a higher score, but the provider asked for a deposit?

Dmbs1 24 reads
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30 / 32

No I have not but they are getting more prevalent. Feel that providers that start requiring them are working less because of them and alternatives  are getting the clients. So they start working on others to add deposits so as to cut back the competition.  
The same thing happens when providers raise rates and business  goes to a competitor and soon are lobbying the competition to do so too.
Both of these can be more than a little self serving especially in the small and mid markets.  What is not often said is how many times the DP is waived or grandfathering or discounting is happening.

anthony1976 22 Reviews 36 reads
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31 / 32

Welcome Amira!
From my perspective, the most importanat aspect is attitude towad a client. If you have a friendly, sexy, inviting, "I want to be here doing this with you, and let's make it fun" attitude, then I will tend to score higher.  
Honesty in advertising is next. Reasonably accurate photos, and accurate service offerings up front are also key.  many ladies seem to have old/heavily edited or even fake pics which leads to clients feeling they were "bait and switched".  There is someone for every taste, so accurate pics help us choose.
This should not need to be said but, hygiene is absolutely a priority. I have read many reviews about a meeting where there were hygiens issues on the provider's part, some of which could have been unrecognized by the provider. Your medical rpovider is your best friend in this business.

hehitshewins 27 reads
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32 / 32

It's important to know if you can thrive in the review world. If your services are too limited, it will be really hard to ever get a score that will help your business. This would actually be a reason to delist. I think ideally you want to know you can at least get a 9 in service. DFK and BBBJ are the most common paths to getting there. Greek and threesomes can also get you past the high of 7, and even get you as high as 10, but the reality is that even if you offer these, not everyone will want them. If you don't offer them, I don't think it will hurt you too much. And, I think others did a good job on here explaining how just doing these doesn't equal getting the max score. You need to do them well.

 
But that's only one half of the score. The other half is based on looks. One might think that to get a 10 you need to be a model. But that's not always the case. Some will allow service to impact this score. I have seen those who are clearly not 9s or 10s get lots of 9s and 10s and based on my experience I assume it's because their service was top notch. In addition to the looks you're born with, it's how you present yourself that can also impact this score. How well groomed, make-up, clothing/outfit, scent, etc...

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