so for those that use the TER Instant Messenger, I have a few questions

Guys: When you decided to IM a girl, so you automatically add her to your buddy list, or if not what makes you decide to add her

Do you only im her to set up sessions ( or try to ) or do you talk to her anytime you see her on?

Girls:
IF a guy starts talking to you via IM do you automatically add him ?

What gets him the Black list never talk to via IM again lol

If he ims you every time you are on, do you take that as flattering or creepy?

I personally love the IM system :P

speaking of TER im... when is the chat room jumpin? Lately I go in and no one is in there....

ok one more rant....


why oh why do some guys think it is OK start porno dirty talk chat in the IM system???

I absolutely do not mind a friendly chat, and get to know each other a little.. but I am not down with Mr. "wantstotalkdirtyandjackoff"

Seriously..it is like I have nothing more to do than talk dirty for free via IM and get you off???

ugh

I am one of the most friendly, sweet and open minded women most people you could meet.


and when you start talking dirty to me via IM when we have never even met, that puts me in a uncomfortable position of having to be a bitch or cut the conversation short or be curt and business like... which is not my style, but...


I think I have a pretty extensive website with LOTS of info about me, so when a guy comes on chat and starts asking dirty stuff I assume they are just trying to waste my time and talk dirty to me lol